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Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?

 
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12/03/2012 01:42 PM
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Can someone help me out? I'm trying to understand if cheating on your partner is normal or not. I don't find it to be normal since I'm loyal and give my all, but why are others so concerned with sex and having relations with someone else? Is sex really that important?

What are your opinions on cheating, having sex countless of times, and staying with one person till death? Would you do it and do you think long term relationships are normal?

One thing I dislike is that people who cheat show that they must live a lie and disguise the truth to their loved ones....why would you give it all up to sleep around only to come home to an empty home....

Sex lasts for a few minutes or hours and then it's back to the same cave...
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SEX IS LIKE WATER AND AIR FOR HUMAN BODY

WITHOUT IT RELATIONSHIP DIES

ALSO IF THOSE INVOLVED ARE CLOSED MINDED AND DO NOT WANT TO EXPLORE IT BECOMES A ROUTINE

CHEATING DOES NOT TAKE PLACE IF THERE IS A GOOD SEXUAL MATCH AND CONTINOUS GROWTH IN THIS AREA OF HUMAN LIFE
KateSask

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12/03/2012 01:50 PM
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Women like having multiples of everything. Shoes , purses, cocks, etc.
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This isn't true.

People use to be decent husbands/wifes to one another.

Even in the media.

...Then it all changed - and now you cannot find a loyal person at all!

All selfish.
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And brainwashed.
 Quoting: KateSask


Hi My Canadian friend!

Knowing a small bit of your life here on GLP, I a SURE you have more to add than just that.

Come on, let's hear it! Haven't you had some success working out (or coming to terms with, maybe) a relationship that needed some care?

cheers

cheers
 Quoting: Maguyver


Haha! Everybody wants something new, better, flashy....kinda like that TV that still works fine that you have but you've been convinced it's not good enough anymore.

Throw it out and buy that 52" HD flat screen, it will make you happy for a little while anyways. See, BRAINWASHED into thinking like this.
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12/03/2012 01:51 PM

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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
Maybe monogamy is not for everyone. It would be nice if people knew themselves better before committing to someone.

Then there are some people who just don't care about sex that much. They'll do fine in a relationship as long as their spouse is the same way.

Maybe this idea of marriage we seem to have is unrealistic for many people. Thing is, people change and grow throughout their lives and sometimes we just grow out of one another. Not being in sync with one another anymore leads to a rocky road. Fortunate is the couple that grows together and stays close.

Another problem that can occur in a long term relationship is taking each other for granted. People get comfortable and forget that relationships have to be nurtured. When intimate communication stops between spouses, or resentment is left to build, one or both people may start growing closer to others outside the marriage who lend a sympathetic ear, providing the nuturing that is no longer there in the marriage.

Idealy, people should seek to repair the problems in their own relationship before considering other options. Lying and being deceptive, however, shows a major lack of respect and decency.

Last Edited by Earth Daughter on 12/03/2012 01:53 PM
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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
Can someone help me out? I'm trying to understand if cheating on your partner is normal or not. I don't find it to be normal since I'm loyal and give my all, but why are others so concerned with sex and having relations with someone else? Is sex really that important?

What are your opinions on cheating, having sex countless of times, and staying with one person till death? Would you do it and do you think long term relationships are normal?

One thing I dislike is that people who cheat show that they must live a lie and disguise the truth to their loved ones....why would you give it all up to sleep around only to come home to an empty home....

Sex lasts for a few minutes or hours and then it's back to the same cave...
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12/03/2012 02:06 PM
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Cheating is in the human condition. It is usually wise to turn a blind eye to occasional discreet liaisons.
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12/03/2012 02:25 PM
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There are two categories of outside interest: physical and emotional. Physical is self explanatory, but for peeps that are too conditioned with social influence, its looking for attention, acknowledgment, romance, and affection. Emotional type is having someone talk, listen, share, sympathize, and support.

You can scream that you hate people who cheat, but you do it all the time...you just choose not to look at it that way. How do you feel if someone says you look good, smell great, or pays attention to some little detail of your existence? If you are normal you feel great. How about when/if they flirt a little with you? Your confidence soars and your behavior patterns will change temporarily. Guess what, you are emotionally cheating! Men and women experience this all the time with coworkers, coaches, trainers, store clerks...all kinds of interactions. I makes you feel noticed and important, even if it is only for 5 seconds.

Physical is SIMPLY that some people, both men and women, require it. Its how their body chemistry is made up. Not everyone is a clone and operates the same way. You may be able to go a week but your partner may need it every day. Simple as that.

So what do we have today in the world of a legal contract called marriage? We have one or both partners getting COMFORTABLE. This is defined by not talking much about emtional needs or physical needs. Men/Women that have needs are drawn to porn if partner does not need it much. Men/Women take a kid out to a class or practice and find a person that meets the emtional needs. Then there are the few that dont require either and are happy where they are (minority). We are not built by law, rather as another person stated, we are 98% monkey. Its natural no matter how unnatural society (law/religion) tries to make it.

I liken it to a person being in a desert for a year or fifteen years...then happens upon a glass of water. This water pays attention to you, compliments you, wants to be with you, talks, listens and actively supports your life. What do you do? If you hate cheaters, then you bypass it cause your COMFORTABLE with you misery and cant see beyond your containment (law/religion/personal belief). Most will consume the water like a savage beast! What is the person giving up at that point? You may need to look at yourself hard. Are you available and actively pursuing your partner daily to keep the challenge and interest? Do you fall in love with this person EVERY day? Loyalty is admiral but is it really attracting your partner to you? Just some thoughts :)
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Then what do you recommend? What do you think a relationship is about or do you even believe in that?
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Just my two cents...not saying my ideas are right for everyone, but if the person is seeking someone else then you should ask yourself why? Try these for 30 days and see if it changes them...if not then you have a choice to make...

-Slowly become a challenge to your partner again. It will not happen overnight, so if it is worth the drama...start becoming a challenge. Show your partner how much you like them...but do not verbalize it. It’s like a bow and arrow. You push the bow away and draw the arrow toward you.

-Start creating some mystery about yourself. Start doing things and not saying too much about them. Always invite them, but dont harass. If they don't answer then ignore and go.

-Start taking care of yourself. Change your appearance a bit, start wearing cologne/perfume when you go out. Hell, get into shape a little by going to gym etc. Something...anything to create yourself as a challenge.

-Stop gushing your emotions or communication everything you feel right now. This is tough for most guys but stop it. It reduces challenge. Just be a gentlemen like and SHOW respect...just dont verabilize it.

-Start being funny. When you around this person, think nothing of the relationship...rather float above it and force yourself to be happy and funny. If a friend asks you out for drinks, etc GO.

-When out, do not answer the phone right away. If you can do it, dont call back. Always make your partner call. If you do call, never leave your partner vm. Stop texting them as well.

The basis is to move you from a COMFORTABLE position to one that is a challenge again. See yourself dating this person again...remember how that was? If not, get a friend and go on a practice date just to see how rusty you might be. After 30 days, if you do not see any challenge returning..then it may be late..but lets hope you see some results :)
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12/03/2012 02:45 PM
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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
If you are full from dinner you dont want any desert...
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12/03/2012 03:27 PM

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If you are full from dinner you dont want any desert...
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Truth....

Women: take note.

cheers
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Do or do not. There is no try.

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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
Can someone help me out? I'm trying to understand if cheating on your partner is normal or not. I don't find it to be normal since I'm loyal and give my all, but why are others so concerned with sex and having relations with someone else? Is sex really that important?

What are your opinions on cheating, having sex countless of times, and staying with one person till death? Would you do it and do you think long term relationships are normal?

One thing I dislike is that people who cheat show that they must live a lie and disguise the truth to their loved ones....why would you give it all up to sleep around only to come home to an empty home....

Sex lasts for a few minutes or hours and then it's back to the same cave...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20672383



You don't find cheating to be normal because you live in a world of ideals. Listen to your biology and you'll see that attraction and sex is more important than an idea you heard from someone else.

1. We are animals and monogamy is almost unheard of in nature.

2. Loyalty is laziness. You need to remain good enough for the other person to choose to love and sex up. If you gave it your all and they still left, then you gave the wrong things.

3. Male animals get mates by competiting with other males. She's got no reason to stay attracted if you're the only one competing for her. So your loyalty means nothing if she thinks she can do better.

You're judging people when they think sex is a good thing. That's why you're on the wrong side of the issue on this. Sex is more important to humans, and every other living thing, than you might like to think.

I'm sorry you think your ideas are more important than your biology. You're not being an authentic human by living your live by other people's standards of morality.

Again, sexual monogamy is almost unheard of in nature. There is no such thing as cheating. Both sexes are attracted to whatever their brain sees as attractive. This idea that we're supposed to only have one mate is just that, an idea. Monogamy has *nothing* to do with biology since it has the least advantages to any relationship besides abstinence.

Stop believing ideas other people tell you and listen to your own biology. Sex is more important than any ideals you might hold about relationships. And sex drive will continue to prove to everyone that this is the case.
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24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:

25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.

26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:

27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;

29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers,

30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,

31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:

32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

Romans 1:24-32 KJV
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If you are full from dinner you dont want any desert...
 Quoting: jizzm 4428356


Truth....

Women: take note.

cheers
 Quoting: Maguyver


Truth.......

Men: take note.

hf

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Last Edited by KateSask on 12/03/2012 05:22 PM
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Re: Is cheating on your partner normal? Why are people so promiscous?
Cheating is absolutely wrong, and cheaters should be sent to jail for committing a hate crime.

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