Can someone help me out? I'm trying to understand if cheating on your partner is normal or not. I don't find it to be normal since I'm loyal and give my all, but why are others so concerned with sex and having relations with someone else? Is sex really that important?
What are your opinions on cheating, having sex countless of times, and staying with one person till death? Would you do it and do you think long term relationships are normal?
One thing I dislike is that people who cheat show that they must live a lie and disguise the truth to their loved ones....why would you give it all up to sleep around only to come home to an empty home....
Sex lasts for a few minutes or hours and then it's back to the same cave...
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 20672383 You don't find cheating to be normal because you live in a world of ideals. Listen to your biology and you'll see that attraction and sex is more important than an idea you heard from someone else.
1. We are animals and monogamy is almost unheard of in nature.
2. Loyalty is laziness. You need to remain good enough for the other person to choose to love and sex up. If you gave it your all and they still left, then you gave the wrong things.
3. Male animals get mates by competiting with other males. She's got no reason to stay attracted if you're the only one competing for her. So your loyalty means nothing if she thinks she can do better.
You're judging people when they think sex is a good thing. That's why you're on the wrong side of the issue on this. Sex is more important to humans, and every other living thing, than you might like to think.
I'm sorry you think your ideas are more important than your biology. You're not being an authentic human by living your live by other people's standards of morality.
Again, sexual monogamy is almost unheard of in nature. There is no such thing as cheating. Both sexes are attracted to whatever their brain sees as attractive. This idea that we're supposed to only have one mate is just that, an idea. Monogamy has *nothing* to do with biology since it has the least advantages to any relationship besides abstinence.
Stop believing ideas other people tell you and listen to your own biology. Sex is more important than any ideals you might hold about relationships. And sex drive will continue to prove to everyone that this is the case.
