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| sonia User ID: 28992326  United Kingdom12/03/2012 10:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28786416  United States12/03/2012 10:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Being Mindful User ID: 14221488 United States12/03/2012 10:40 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i think my husband is in denial that he has a drinking problem, it has got really out of hand these past 3 years & when it started effecting our girls i told him he had to get professional help, at first he agraed & cut down but then he turned round & told me he doesn't love me anymore [says he was only drinking to "get out ov it" because he didn't want to be with me? & realised this while he wasn't drinking vodka [cider instead] then he left us the next day [i really don't believe he doesn't love me] but i am so confused ;'( Quoting: sonia 28992326 I understand your story very well, but try and truly authentically love him from the heart, a very dear friend shared that with me. I have tried everything myself, but there was one thing that I didn't even compliments were givin. But until you really love him and look past all the defects, you will see the change happen. Good luck. truly love the one your with, it will help him evolve. When that is experienced, God will have more experineces for us. No greater lesson as to service in loving. Yeshua/Christ Jesus/Esu Sananda set up the Kingdom of Heaven within. To get to Father/Mother God is through your own Heart Portal, we have been gifted the HOly Spirit/HigherSelf as our guide. Thread: Starships above my home Love yourself, and your world will heal around you like the waves in the ocean. When ONe unites with the Holy Spirit/HigherSelf, it becomes your mate, you are inlove with the Divine within, then comes the relationship for he is the direct line to Father Source so you experience that connection, so then it becomes your rule of measure as to who knows the FAther, The kingdom is within... The Path to the New World is guilt, shame, and regret free. Dear Father Mother God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change what I can (Me) and the wisdom to know the difference. I AM getting better everyday. Truly....... God's dream is our Destiny...Light and Life. We can do it. Spirituality + Technology= Balance into Light and Life. A personal decree " That I will be harmless to myself and others" |
| Being Mindful User ID: 14221488 United States12/03/2012 10:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Assuming you are truthful, his mind is totally stressed and may or may not mean what he says. You need to have more talk with him and Somebody needs counseling. Good luck. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28786416 my husband doesn't respond to words, he responds to the action of love. Yeshua/Christ Jesus/Esu Sananda set up the Kingdom of Heaven within. To get to Father/Mother God is through your own Heart Portal, we have been gifted the HOly Spirit/HigherSelf as our guide. Thread: Starships above my home Love yourself, and your world will heal around you like the waves in the ocean. When ONe unites with the Holy Spirit/HigherSelf, it becomes your mate, you are inlove with the Divine within, then comes the relationship for he is the direct line to Father Source so you experience that connection, so then it becomes your rule of measure as to who knows the FAther, The kingdom is within... The Path to the New World is guilt, shame, and regret free. Dear Father Mother God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change what I can (Me) and the wisdom to know the difference. I AM getting better everyday. Truly....... God's dream is our Destiny...Light and Life. We can do it. Spirituality + Technology= Balance into Light and Life. A personal decree " That I will be harmless to myself and others" |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28980906 United Kingdom12/03/2012 10:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let him do what he feels is right. He is either ashamed or genuine about his feelings. He is using alcohol to de-stress from something which is on his mind, the best thing you can do is let him go, because if he comes running back you will know it was a cry for help, if not he means what he said. Reverse psychology. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 19398438 United States12/03/2012 11:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i think my husband is in denial that he has a drinking problem, it has got really out of hand these past 3 years & when it started effecting our girls i told him he had to get professional help, at first he agraed & cut down but then he turned round & told me he doesn't love me anymore [says he was only drinking to "get out ov it" because he didn't want to be with me? & realised this while he wasn't drinking vodka [cider instead] then he left us the next day [i really don't believe he doesn't love me] but i am so confused ;'( Quoting: sonia 28992326 OP, there is a LOT of emphasis put on 'staying together' but that is the last thing you should do. Just bail. |
