There seem to be a few issues here you should define a bit clearer before making a move. What do you mean by comparing now to when you were in school? Are you being harassed at work? What is physically and emotionally draining?

You can run and hide, but if you have issues that need to be addressed, it does not matter where you go, these issues will follow.

If you are smart, you probably have the answers within and will come up with better solutions than a bunch of internet strangers.