I am truely sorry for your lost... please note that your sister is asleep in death. I know that no matter what I say you'll probably still hold onto the pain of not having her and for that, again, I am truly sorry as death is mankind's greatest enemy.

If your sister would have accepted a blood transfusion, there is no guarantee that that fact alone would've saved her (ask any doctor/hospital that question and you'll see what I mean... actually, there's a reason why there's a few forms they want you to sign if they do administer blood). Please find solace in the fact that she died faithfully and will be resurrected.

The following is from an email I sent years ago to my family regarding bloodless transfusions. Even from a purely non-JW point of view, blood transfusions are not (and have never been) the best medical option. And for those here on GLP who are "awake" and "aware" of the medical mafia... it shouldn't suprize you to learn the following.

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Thought I'd share this video regarding the US military going bloodless... after having noticed that FOR YEARS many Jehovah's Witnesses were fairing quite well after following the Bible's guidelines to "abstain from blood" (Acts 15:28,29) AND because of the benefits of not using blood in surgeries... less complications, less mortality, less costs, etc. Enjoy!

[link to wn.com]

Englewood hospital in New Jersey pioneered state of the art techniques that virtually eliminate the need for blood in surgery. They became the first hospital in the nation to perform nearly all surgery as BLOODLESS SURGERY ON ALL ITS PATIENTS (not just JWs). In their words "it's the future of medicine... bloodless surgery has resulted in: shorter hospital stays, faster recovery, less risk of complications, fewer post-operative infections". People from around the world - 40 different countries - have been visiting the hospital and being trained to set up similar projects in their countries.
[link to www.englewoodhospital.com]