I was given a sign from the other side through a crop circle

My girlfriend died in a tragic accident that crushed my soul. I became obsessed with finding out what happens when you die, I wanted to know if she was ok. I did a ton of research on the web.
She had recently lost both her parents, and there is a dragonfly allegory type story that she fell in love with, basically the soul transformation after death. Waterbug yo dragonfly. Anyway, she had dragonfly everything, including floor mats for her vehicle. Dragonfly, dragonfly, dragonfly.
Well, she died, too. I was crushed. Lots of dragonfly experiences followed, but the craziest one was a year later.
I had followed so many paths trying to understand why this had happened, and in my quest, I bought a book on crop circles which I was captured by in my imagination, I mean. It was kind of random for me to read such a thing, I'd never been interested much on the subject, but the book was great, and I was captivated.
Long story short, I went to visit her grave near the anniversary of her death, and the same day there appeared in the fields of england a dragonfly crop circle. Wtf?
There are a lot of other freaky dragonfly experiences in this saga, but the crop circle is the most poignant to me.
What do you think?