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I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...

 
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
get a ladies magazine, and circle some pictures of hairstyles and haircolors that you like, and show these to your wife. tell her the cut she has already is OK, but next time you would like to see her with something like the picture in the magazine, if she doesn't mind. she can take the picture to the salon with her and show it to her stylist.
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Please dont fo this, i dont mean to be rude to you but that will certainly upset her
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Give it time. Some people just don't like change. When my son was younger he hated it when I changed my hair since it didn't look like me.

I usually don't like my hair after it is "done", once I wash it and style it myself I like it better.

Straight hair is in now--really expensive to have that straightened if it is permanent. If it was just ironed it will wash out. Bangs with wavy hair is hard--she will probably grow them out on her own.

For a long time I had some kind of bangs just to hide the forehead wrinkles.

And finally there are some people that say long hair acts as an antenna of sorts and gives you ESP.

Don't tell her--she will change it on her own, just tell her she is just perfect for you, and that you are the luckiest man on Earth since she is yours. Don't ever let her feel like she is losing her attractiveness because she is getting older--women get enough of that from society.

Anyways--that is what women want and NEED to hear from their man.

The dividends are worth it!!
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Well OP, my wife lost all of her hair last year to cancer. Now since it grew back, she keeps short, kinda like the old Jamie Lee Curtis look. I tell her I love her hair short, simply because I love her. When I looked at her when she was bald, I didn't notice "no hair", because thats what love is. Are you really in love with her?
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THIS guy knows what love is

most people think "you and I are one, and I am the one...."

without compassion, empathy, kindness there is no love


let it go, it's only hair

someday both of you may have no hair, no teeth and damn little that works right

what then?
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12/05/2012 07:11 PM
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
she might not like your haircut.
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she might not like your haircut.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1025215


Maybe not, She's never said anything and I haven't asked...
Or your stinky feet.
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My feet don't stink.


I bet she looks like Cher.
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No, not even close.
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Well OP, my wife lost all of her hair last year to cancer. Now since it grew back, she keeps short, kinda like the old Jamie Lee Curtis look. I tell her I love her hair short, simply because I love her. When I looked at her when she was bald, I didn't notice "no hair", because thats what love is. Are you really in love with her?
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hf
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Not even the same. My wife doesn't have cancer.
She has a bad haircut, and paid $150 bucks for it.

That would be a totally different scenario.

Sorry your wife got cancer and glad she's better.
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Haha I had beautiful long hair but was suffering through a terrible humid summer and got it cut really short. Omg not a single person liked it and told me so. I grew it straight back!
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12/05/2012 07:21 PM
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Put your beer goggles on and you'll learn to love it.
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Stop short before she's about to climax...and don't tell her why.
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Bad!
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just pull it one night it will all be ok
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Well after reading this I just asked my husband if I should grow my bangs out and he said yes. That he loves my long hair but he wants no bangs like how it used to be.

Lovely

My hair is similar to that picture.
CrazyMama73
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
OP, just be careful. Sometimes honesty can be really hurtful. I work out all the time, am told I look pretty good for my age, I am a size 2 and still weight same as I did when I met my husband (115 lbs) and yet he will tell me my flaws. as much as I like honesty, sometimes I lay awake in bed at night after he falls asleep and I just cry because I don't measure up. I know I am not as pretty or perfect as some of the other women in the world or his co-workers, and I certainly can't compare to the younger women. So as hard as I try to stay well preserved, it is absolutely devastating to be told that a certain part of your body is lacking or does not measure up to what society says is the ideal. I never told him how bad what he said made me feel because it would only start a fight. But deep down inside I wish just one man would think I am perfect just one time. Its always been a struggle to measure up in this world. There are days I work out twice and skip a meal just to keep myself a size 2 and fit. Because God forbid, I gain a few pounds, then I'd really hear the truth.

Hair grows. Keep your mouth shut unless you want to scar her emotionally.
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Come on... Now the OP can't be honest with his wife about her haircut without risking 'scarring her emotionally'? If hair cuts are only temporary, since hair grows back, why would his wife be scarred emotionally if her husband didn't like her new haircut/hairstyle?

What happen to relationships being based on honesty?

If you don't like the way your husband is treating you then you should be HONEST with him about it. Relationships based on partners biting their lip and not being honest about how they feel are not healthy relationships.

No where in this thread did the OP say that he doesn't love his wife, yet people are jumping all over him about not being fond of a freakin' haircut of all things... I guess it's the nature of GLP.

Last Edited by ANHEDONIC on 12/05/2012 07:44 PM

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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
I dont like that my sister is dying her hair in my bathroom and putting stains all over it.
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Rick....that you?
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Well after reading this I just asked my husband if I should grow my bangs out and he said yes. That he loves my long hair but he wants no bangs like how it used to be.

Lovely

My hair is similar to that picture.
 Quoting: CrazyMama73


I like bangs. They make it so you dont always have to have your hair pulled or clipped back because of that extra hair in your face. Whether my hypothetical husband liked them or not, I'd be keeping mine.
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
OP: how short is your wife's hair after the cut?
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Honestly I'd want to know if you didn't like it.

If I were her I'd want the truth.

But we are all different. 1dunno1
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Well after reading this I just asked my husband if I should grow my bangs out and he said yes. That he loves my long hair but he wants no bangs like how it used to be.

Lovely

My hair is similar to that picture.
 Quoting: CrazyMama73


I like bangs. They make it so you dont always have to have your hair pulled or clipped back because of that extra hair in your face. Whether my hypothetical husband liked them or not, I'd be keeping mine.
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I plan on keeping them. I don't like the creases in my forehead lol.
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Tell her she would look even better with some physical exercises !

cruise
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Shave her head while shes sleeping. That will get the point across!
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Honestly I'd want to know if you didn't like it.

If I were her I'd want the truth.

But we are all different. 1dunno1
 Quoting: Sloane


^ This. I'm amazed that in three pages of replies, only three posts (or so) have suggested an honest approach.

My advice would be to tell her how you feel, while being considerate of how she feels. A thoughtful and honest approach. Good luck!hf
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
My wife went to get a hair cut yesterday, she got a level three color and cut. $150 bucks. It looks horrible, to me it looks like a wig.

She said what do you think, all I could say was: uhh, it looks ok.

It looks like this with highlights..
[link to theoryhairsalon.com]

She's 43, and just cant pull of this hair style.
The hair style itself isn't bad, it just doesnt look right on her.

How do I tell her I hate it without hurting her feelings...
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oh no !


bj's are going to be a thing of the past for you for quite awhile, i am going to assume.
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Honestly I'd want to know if you didn't like it.

If I were her I'd want the truth.

But we are all different. 1dunno1
 Quoting: Sloane


^ This. I'm amazed that in three pages of replies, only three posts (or so) have suggested an honest approach.

My advice would be to tell her how you feel, while being considerate of how she feels. A thoughtful and honest approach. Good luck!hf
 Quoting: Parabola


Right, like instead of saying "I don't like it" or "I hate it", you can say that it's 'different'. Much more subtle and considerate way of communicating the same sentiments.

"You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger"
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
OP, just be careful. Sometimes honesty can be really hurtful. I work out all the time, am told I look pretty good for my age, I am a size 2 and still weight same as I did when I met my husband (115 lbs) and yet he will tell me my flaws. as much as I like honesty, sometimes I lay awake in bed at night after he falls asleep. I know I am not as pretty or perfect as some of the other women in the world or his co-workers, and I certainly can't compare to the younger women. So as hard as I try to stay well preserved, it is absolutely devastating to be told that a certain part of your body is lacking or does not measure up to what society says is the ideal. I never told him how bad what he said made me feel because it would only start a fight. But deep down inside I wish just one man would think I am perfect just one time. Its always been a struggle to measure up in this world. There are days I work out twice and skip a meal just to keep myself a size 2 and fit. Because God forbid, I gain a few pounds, then I'd really hear the truth.

Hair grows. Keep your mouth shut unless you want to scar her emotionally.
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I think sometimes men do that because he wants your self esteem to suffer...maybe you'll think you can never do better then him so he feels safe.

My ex husband was like that and he made me feel terrible. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Some people are just super critical to everyone.

hf
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...

My wife went to get a hair cut yesterday, she got a level three color and cut. $150 bucks. It looks horrible, to me it looks like a wig.

She said what do you think, all I could say was: uhh, it looks ok.

It looks like this with highlights..
[link to theoryhairsalon.com]

She's 43, and just cant pull of this hair style.
The hair style itself isn't bad, it just doesnt look right on her.

How do I tell her I hate it without hurting her feelings...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1281779




I like the haircut in that pic, so your wife got bangs and layers? I was imaging her getting a bowl cut or something.
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
I think sometimes men do that because he wants your self esteem to suffer...maybe you'll think you can never do better then him so he feels safe.

My ex husband was like that and he made me feel terrible. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Some people are just super critical to everyone.

hf
 Quoting: geminilion


Or maybe he is in fact self-conscious about his own perceived shortcomings and seeks to project those feelings onto others to shift the focus away from his own insecurities. Classic defense mechanism.

"You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger"
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
OP, just be careful. Sometimes honesty can be really hurtful. I work out all the time, am told I look pretty good for my age, I am a size 2 and still weight same as I did when I met my husband (115 lbs) and yet he will tell me my flaws. as much as I like honesty, sometimes I lay awake in bed at night after he falls asleep. I know I am not as pretty or perfect as some of the other women in the world or his co-workers, and I certainly can't compare to the younger women. So as hard as I try to stay well preserved, it is absolutely devastating to be told that a certain part of your body is lacking or does not measure up to what society says is the ideal. I never told him how bad what he said made me feel because it would only start a fight. But deep down inside I wish just one man would think I am perfect just one time. Its always been a struggle to measure up in this world. There are days I work out twice and skip a meal just to keep myself a size 2 and fit. Because God forbid, I gain a few pounds, then I'd really hear the truth.

Hair grows. Keep your mouth shut unless you want to scar her emotionally.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28867210


I think sometimes men do that because he wants your self esteem to suffer...maybe you'll think you can never do better then him so he feels safe.

My ex husband was like that and he made me feel terrible. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Some people are just super critical to everyone.

hf
 Quoting: geminilion


perhaps. I just know at the time(s) when he said what he said he didn't mean to be cruel, but it really hurt me because I had no idea the area he commented about was rated so low by his standards.

whatever. men are all the same.
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
I think sometimes men do that because he wants your self esteem to suffer...maybe you'll think you can never do better then him so he feels safe.

My ex husband was like that and he made me feel terrible. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Some people are just super critical to everyone.

hf
 Quoting: geminilion


Or maybe he is in fact self-conscious about his own perceived shortcomings and seeks to project those feelings onto others to shift the focus away from his own insecurities. Classic defense mechanism.
 Quoting: ANHEDONIC


men just want a perfect ass and set of tits on their women. simple as that.
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Re: I don't like my wife's new hair cut... ask me a question...
Just be happy her mid life crisis is getting a younger hair style. It could be much worse! Glass half full, OP, glass half full.
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