Still give gifts but only gifts you can make (and make for under 10 dollars per person or higher if you have less people). All locally made things that each person came up with that you thought the other person would like - not what some corporation came up with and poisioned you and everyone else to think you need. Just something that tells people that you love them. We will have to sink a couple of levels before that happens in any big way but there is no time like the present for me :)