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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1328514 12/06/2012 06:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I would have loved to stay home with my kids when they were younger, had to work through all 4 pregnancies as well. But there's no way we would have made it on my husbands paycheck alone. He would work days, me nights, or vice versa. Quoting: geminilion I was a latchkey kid growing up, I would have loved it if my mom was home for me after school but she had to work and did the best she could. I think a lot of mom's work out of need of income, not all of course. I see a lot of kids with nannies, not sure I would want someone else raising my kids and missing all of the milestones. Economics dictate what people must do. I admire you for what you have done. It is difficult enough to raise four children let alone having to go out to work to help the family. That is far different from women who feel the need to prove they are as tough as a man and dump the children off just so they can go out and do "manly" work. The role of mother and wife and raising a family is probably the toughest job there is. If women would realize it, they have nothing to prove. WW2 women went to work, men went to war. Companies saw if profitable, women saw opprotunities for equality. Abused wives and single mothers along with women who wanted to help support the family stayed at work. Now, if you can stay at home because you choose to, you are lucky or have planned well. You can't hardly raise a family on one salary. Men like tits, women like men that like tits. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 3570662 12/06/2012 06:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So true. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29004976 And men's salaries would double if women would get the hell out of the work force.......making it possible. Women's salaries would double if men just stayed home plowing the field all day and moving heavy rocks about. That doesn't prove to be a reason to do it however. People, both male and female people, require the ability to be able to be self sufficient in society. Its a human right, not just a male one. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29004976 12/06/2012 06:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Several generations of day-care raised children are now out there......as adults. Combine this with the media propaganda, Hollywood and messed up public education....... Yields cultural degradation Seen it happen in my lifetime. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29182280 12/06/2012 06:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | What bullshit. It was not even like this in many primitive cultures, hunter/gatherer, etc. Quoting: Patrick Bateman Go back to the 50's. You mean back when this country was prosperous and well respected all over the world? Hell, I'd LOVE to go back and live in the 50's for an entire lifetime. P.S. - Patrick, not only are you a brainless fucktard, you even LOOK like a brainless fucktard. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7536970 12/06/2012 06:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ![]() Men or should I say boys AREN'T bringing home the bacon, that is the problem. Real men are bringing home the bacon and their women are staying home to raise the children and care for the home. The rest of you slackers making $10 an hour have no right to bitch when your old lady gets a job just so she can feed your kids because you can't cut it. Those particular kind of males complain when women bring home the bacon AND they complain even more if they don't. They bitch and moan and complain and whine and BLAME..... endlessly...... no matter what. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29182280 12/06/2012 06:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Aww poor OP, all bitter because you're having trouble finding a woman to be your house slave? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 82157 People are meant to be whatever the fuck they want. There is nothing in the universe that says women have to do one thing, and men another. Who the fuck are you to say otherwise? There are plenty of species where the female does the hunting. What's wrong, you lose your job to a woman? Cry harder OP, your wishful thinking ain't bringing back the days of yore. And our first Canucktard weighs in. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29004976 12/06/2012 06:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The power elites want to destroy the family unit.....plain and simple......among other things. They want just uni-sex obedient slaves.......and babies just made in their laboratories.......and no families allowed to interfere with their control over you. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29193428 12/06/2012 06:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Several generations of day-care raised children are now out there......as adults. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29004976 Combine this with the media propaganda, Hollywood and messed up public education....... Yields cultural degradation Seen it happen in my lifetime. A perfect example is bullying. Back in school during the fifties, we had bullies too. They were always bigger and liked to pick on the little kids. Sooner or later the little kid would have enough or he would tell his big brother and the bully would get his ass whooped, end of story. Now, a kid is criticized for their looks or acts, it gets posted on Facebook and the kid kills themself. Is this really the culture you want to live in? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29182280 12/06/2012 06:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ![]() Men or should I say boys AREN'T bringing home the bacon, that is the problem. Real men are bringing home the bacon and their women are staying home to raise the children and care for the home. The rest of you slackers making $10 an hour have no right to bitch when your old lady gets a job just so she can feed your kids because you can't cut it. Those particular kind of males complain when women bring home the bacon AND they complain even more if they don't. They bitch and moan and complain and whine and BLAME..... endlessly...... no matter what. You just described the AmeriKan woman... PERFECTLY. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29182280 12/06/2012 06:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Aww poor OP, all bitter because you're having trouble finding a woman to be your house slave? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 82157 People are meant to be whatever the fuck they want. There is nothing in the universe that says women have to do one thing, and men another. Who the fuck are you to say otherwise? There are plenty of species where the female does the hunting. What's wrong, you lose your job to a woman? Cry harder OP, your wishful thinking ain't bringing back the days of yore. You're not fooling ANYBODY, Canucktard. Women want all of the BENEFITS of "equality", but NONE of the negatives. They don't want any of the shit jobs. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7536970 12/06/2012 06:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ![]() Men or should I say boys AREN'T bringing home the bacon, that is the problem. Real men are bringing home the bacon and their women are staying home to raise the children and care for the home. The rest of you slackers making $10 an hour have no right to bitch when your old lady gets a job just so she can feed your kids because you can't cut it. Those particular kind of males complain when women bring home the bacon AND they complain even more if they don't. They bitch and moan and complain and whine and BLAME..... endlessly...... no matter what. You just described the AmeriKan woman... PERFECTLY. Case in point. How many anti-american women threads/comments are there per anti-american men threads/comments? Be honest now. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7536970 12/06/2012 06:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Aww poor OP, all bitter because you're having trouble finding a woman to be your house slave? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 82157 People are meant to be whatever the fuck they want. There is nothing in the universe that says women have to do one thing, and men another. Who the fuck are you to say otherwise? There are plenty of species where the female does the hunting. What's wrong, you lose your job to a woman? Cry harder OP, your wishful thinking ain't bringing back the days of yore. You're not fooling ANYBODY, Canucktard. Women want all of the BENEFITS of "equality", but NONE of the negatives. They don't want any of the shit jobs. What a ridiculous statement. Shit jobs??? Shit jobs???? That would be cleaning up after other people, ie housekeeping. taking care of the elderly, the disabled, the retarded etc... voluntary UNPAID work, kindy, elderly care, day care, babysitting, waitressing... all the extremely poorly paid jobs???? your are a classic example of a whiny bitch. Fuck you. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29004976 12/06/2012 06:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Which is better......superior.....more important ???? For the mother to stay home and raise her children herself.........or for her to be a president of some company??? If you watch the eve news......with Diane Sawyers (for example)....many would view her position as superior to that of the typical stay at home mom. Not me. Should she turn her babies over to others to raise......so that she can have time to rise to the top ????? Parenting is a great responsibility......and I have much admiration for the women who raise their own children. And I also view them equally as important.....and having equal (or greater) status.......as the career woman. I am very glad that my mom was at home for me. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1328514 12/06/2012 06:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The power elites want to destroy the family unit.....plain and simple......among other things. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29004976 They want just uni-sex obedient slaves.......and babies just made in their laboratories.......and no families allowed to interfere with their control over you. Exactly........uni-sex is the future. It is making our men and women stupid and weak. Katy Perry for example. "I kissed a girl and like it" (that is your daughters now) "Last Friday Night" (lyrics=had a menage a trois) All the guys with rock hard bodies showing off for other guys at the gym, not the ladies and it's ok. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29193428 12/06/2012 07:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So what is the upshot of this thread? Would we be better off if women were to be able to stay home and focus on the family? Would it be depriving women of their rights to expect them to raise the family while the husband works? Should women go to work just to prove they can do the same jobs as men? Has society faltered because the family unit has fallen apart? What role has the media played in instilling an inferiority complex in women by giving them an unattainable goal to become a supermodel in their appearance? Is there any way to recover? What are your thoughts. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28867210 12/06/2012 08:00 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You just have to look at who funded feminism in first place : the Rockfeller Fondation. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1011606 Feminists fought for "the right for women to choose to work instead of staying at home", but now for women of low/middle class it's not a right to choose, there is no choice, they have to work, 1 salary is not enough for an entire family. Feminists are useful idiots. The reason people have to have 2 salary incomes is because they saddle themselves unnecessary debt. I'm 27, OWN my home, have no car payment, 2 kids and a wife. I have cable, internet, my fridge is never empty, and i have a decent TV. I have a $10 phone from walmart I watch what I spend. It's simple. Americans want the dream without putting work into it. Do I have debt? No. Do I have a college degree? Yes. How did I do that? Oh, I paid for it. Did I get a degree in Leisure Studies? No. I went to trade school and finished my bachelor's taking classes when I had the money. My wife doesn't have to work. My kids have nutritious diets. I'm living the dream. You guys paying a 30/year mortgage are suckers with your payment every month, car payment, plasma tvs, good grief grow up. you are a wise man |
| oLOVEz User ID: 28632160 12/06/2012 08:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Indian Chief 'Two Eagles' was asked by a white government official; "You have observed the white man for 90 years. You've seen his wars and his technological advances. You've seen his progress, and the damage he's done." The Chief nodded in agreement. The official continued; "Considering all these events, in your opinion, where did the white man go wrong?" The Chief stared at the government official for over a minute and then calmly replied.. "When white man find land, Indians running it, no taxes, no debt, plenty buffalo, plenty beaver, clean water. Women did all the work, Medicine Man free. Indian man spend all day hunting and fishing; all night having sex." Then the chief leaned back and smiled; "Only white man dumb enough to think he could improve system like that." |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28867210 12/06/2012 08:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My husband and I are both educated (he has 2 masters degrees though and a better job than I did). For years I worked outside the home and we both worked our butts off for the "American dream" of owning a home, fancy vacations and whatever 'toys' we desired. Well somewhere down the line the demands of taking care of him (my FIRST priority), the home and trying to please the boss at work, PLUS take care of myself hit a brick wall. I could no longer 'do it all'. So things started to slowly fall out of place and I was the one that suffered the most as my health and diet were not good and I was suffering because of it, as was he because I never cooked when I worked. We were like ships in the night, I was about 10 or 15 pounds overweight and I had no energy to do anything fun on our days off, as I had to do all the errands and home-keeping. This was a span of a few years. I felt like he and I were never going to get off the 'wheel'. One day he made the decision that I would stay home. That we had worked together for too long to achieve the goals we did and that now it was time to try a different way of life. It was scary at first because I could never remember a time when I didn't have a job. What happened is we became newlyweds again AND most importantly, I learned how to trust him on a level I previously did not know how to do. We found joy in the simple things. I no longer viewed money as a source of happiness. Luckily he makes enough for the both of us to live on. I treat him like a king. Some might say a little too good. But he takes care of me and allows me to now pursue my domestic interests, gardening, home decorating and learning to sew, etc., painting, taking a class, etc. I work out everyday, the house is always clean, all the chores are completed and I cook wonderful, healthy, nutritional meals for him everyday. I run our home and him like I would a business, because in a way that's exactly what a relationship/marriage is. We all have roles and responsibilities. We need the executive decisions makers (the men) and the arts/entertainment/domestic affairs planners (the wives) to make sure everything runs smoothly. Now the women may say, oh wow, you sound like a slave. And maybe that is true, but I would rather be a slave to my husband who loves me than to uncle sam. I love my husband and my home and I love taking good care of both. And the perks are we have great sex more because I am not tired and exhausted when he comes home from work and I am in the best shape of my life and feel great. Weekends and time off are for having fun, not for 'catching up' on chores, etc. His nightly menu always has a blow job on there, shuld he be in the mood... this type of stuff was never on the menu when I worked, lol, as I was way too tired after a long work day and an hour+ in the gym. Being a stay at home wife is an awesome gig, if you can get the work. But be warned, you must like sleeping in until whatever time you like, having ample time to work out and take a jacuzzi bath afterwards, love eating healthy, home cooked meals, love having a clean, tidy home, love to go shopping and meeting gf's for lunch and a manicure, love looking HOT and SEXY for your husband when he comes home each day after a long day at work and never looking tired or warn out. yeah, I think I'll keep this job has a stay at home wife. I know had I stayed in the workplace, we'd have definitely drifted apart given the course we were both on and perhaps our marriage would not have survived. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1210490 12/06/2012 08:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hmm. What world would be better off to live in? Stay at home mom Team attitude Community Involvement with church Full employment Middle to right politics Pride Awareness and knowing neighbours Belomging to something Love Responsible Drugs not rampant Fit in or fuck off Clear gender roles Lifelong marriage We we we Or Stay at home dad Same sex marriage incluiding adoption Abortion Irresponsible Isolation Lonliness Left wing to middle Terrorism Individualism Not knowing neighbours Rampant drug abuse High unemployment Shame I I I I know where I'd rather live |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28867210 12/06/2012 09:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hmm. What world would be better off to live in? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1210490 Stay at home mom Team attitude Community Involvement with church Full employment Middle to right politics Pride Awareness and knowing neighbours Belomging to something Love Responsible Drugs not rampant Fit in or fuck off Clear gender roles Lifelong marriage We we we Or Stay at home dad Same sex marriage incluiding adoption Abortion Irresponsible Isolation Lonliness Left wing to middle Terrorism Individualism Not knowing neighbours Rampant drug abuse High unemployment Shame I I I I know where I'd rather live you can always tell a truly happy person... just look into their eyes... people who look away too quick or never smile are living a lie. I'd say the top group are the ones smiling more. |
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