Oh...I am not calling everyone a Commie, just those who have fallen victim to Communist ideology and uprooted the family because they were told they were no longer happy..and fell for it.

It is the same ploy the Communists used at the end of WWI to turn the Black Man against the White government. Not because they cared if Black men were abused by White America, but because they wanted to overthrow the American government and they wanted a willing fighting force to accomplish it.

Fast forward to the family unit.
People are constantly bombarded by the media with messages that it is no longer cool to simply be a happy family. Look at most TV shows as a good example.
Dysfunctional families, cheating spouses, inept fathers, etc.
People as a whole are gullible and can identify with characters on the TV. That is why certain shows are successful.

But you keep on believing that it is just a matter of your own choosing.