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My brother's wife is cheating. How can I get proof?

 
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Re: My brother's wife is cheating. How can I get proof?
Hire a private detective, if you are serious about getting proof.

Sounds like your brother is already a little suspicious, I hold the belief that most people's intuition starts kicking in, they just ignore it. (like your bro)


I wouldn't say anything till you have hard proof. Otherwise it will just turn into a he said she said type of thing and usually people will believe the spouse. And then she will drive a wedge between you two.
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Nah, I would tell him now and let him hire the PI, or offer to help him by hiring a PI now while he's away -- but even if the PI finds nothing, he should eventually know what you've seen and decide the next step. Maybe he just wants to confront her and put a stop to it today. That should be his choice.
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Tell your brother.

And lol @ the idiots saying "mind your own biz", when they are sticking their noses into OP's "biz".
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12/07/2012 11:43 AM
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Re: My brother's wife is cheating. How can I get proof?
Dress up as a bush and wait outside your house with 16x binoculars.
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ohyeah
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The most important thing anyone can do for their family is leap to conclusions about what they are up to, then make a fool of yourself by blurting something inappropriate out, that will destroy your sister-in-laws trust in you forever.
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The most important thing anyone can do for their family is leap to conclusions about what they are up to, then make a fool of yourself by blurting something inappropriate out, that will destroy your sister-in-laws trust in you forever.
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Oh you're supposed to worry about the sister in law over the brother?

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Family is my Biz "Bro"
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A kiss on the check and or lunch is not a warrant for cheating. Tell your brother just what you saw and keep your opinions to yourself. You don't know enough about it. You can do more harm than good. Let your bother handle it!!!!
 Quoting: Lorax


Yeah, this. Could have been anybody and doesn't seem they were trying to hide so likely harmless.

If not, he will find out soon enough. You don't want to be the bearer of this kind of news. He would resent you termendously for knowing about it.

Being family doesn't give you the right to try to make trouble in your brother's marriage. You're not jealous by any chance are you?
One of the most important aspects of conspiracy theories is being able to discern when there isn't one.

Oh yeah, like you'd understand anyway.

Where are we going and why am I in this handbasket?. . .J. Handy
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Tell your brother.

And lol @ the idiots saying "mind your own biz", when they are sticking their noses into OP's "biz".
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Only because he/she asked us to do so. Otherwise we wouldn't know anything about this.
One of the most important aspects of conspiracy theories is being able to discern when there isn't one.

Oh yeah, like you'd understand anyway.

Where are we going and why am I in this handbasket?. . .J. Handy
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Talk to your sister in law about it.
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The most important thing anyone can do for their family is leap to conclusions about what they are up to, then make a fool of yourself by blurting something inappropriate out, that will destroy your sister-in-laws trust in you forever.
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Oh you're supposed to worry about the sister in law over the brother?

I
don't
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.
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I caught my sister-in-law cheating and blackmailed her into a 10 year affair.
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You are an evil man
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The most important thing anyone can do for their family is leap to conclusions about what they are up to, then make a fool of yourself by blurting something inappropriate out, that will destroy your sister-in-laws trust in you forever.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29261485


Oh you're supposed to worry about the sister in law over the brother?

I
don't
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.
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I caught my sister-in-law cheating and blackmailed her into a 10 year affair.
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1rof1I thought about doing that to someone too.
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Re: My brother's wife is cheating. How can I get proof?
I recently had to go an hour out of town..close to where my brother and his family live. I was passing by a small restuarant..and saw her and another man standing together and he quickly kissed her on the cheek and walked to his car and she got into hers.

My brother is out west working on a oil rig temporarely to help them catch up bills. She has no idea what I saw or that I was even going to be in her area...I cant afford to go there and sit for days and watch...so whats the next best thing?? Do those spy phone softwares work? Serious help needed..
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Are you serious? Everybody that works oil has cheating spouses, Its par for the course. I know because I have worked the oil industry out of town for 10 years.

The smartest thing to do is simply tell them to go ahead and do it and let them know how it works out. They don't know how to handle that because if they admit yes, then the guy can do the same (which they abhor even though they do it themselves). They loose control of their man that way because he is saying he doesn't care if she sluts away.

I've talked to guys in Fort McMurray who came home to TWO guys with his woman at the same time.

The first rule to anyone that works out of town is Rule #1 Your girlfriend is cheating on you, get over it. Besides which leads to Rule #2 You don't get a girlfriend in Alberta, you just get your turn!

Which is really interesting because now most rig guys only FUCK woman they will go no farther. And many woman in this province have been relegated to disposable fuck sluts, unable to find any boyfriends at all beyond a quick lay, tossed back to the single pile for the next rig pig to buy a dinner and hump. So it goes full circle. I encourage all the woman to just keep cheating because their cheaper than hookers they fuck for free!
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Re: My brother's wife is cheating. How can I get proof?
I recently had to go an hour out of town..close to where my brother and his family live. I was passing by a small restuarant..and saw her and another man standing together and he quickly kissed her on the cheek and walked to his car and she got into hers.

My brother is out west working on a oil rig temporarely to help them catch up bills. She has no idea what I saw or that I was even going to be in her area...I cant afford to go there and sit for days and watch...so whats the next best thing?? Do those spy phone softwares work? Serious help needed..
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This is not your business
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Family is my Biz "Bro"
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A kiss on the check and or lunch is not a warrant for cheating. Tell your brother just what you saw and keep your opinions to yourself. You don't know enough about it. You can do more harm than good. Let your bother handle it!!!!
 Quoting: Lorax


Yeah, this. Could have been anybody and doesn't seem they were trying to hide so likely harmless.

If not, he will find out soon enough. You don't want to be the bearer of this kind of news. He would resent you termendously for knowing about it.

Being family doesn't give you the right to try to make trouble in your brother's marriage. You're not jealous by any chance are you?
 Quoting: Bluebird


Bullshit! A kiss on the cheek. Nobody in North America does that without some romantic involvement. If you saw your man kissing some woman on the cheek before separating you'd be pissed!

What is it with woman protecting infidelity of their woman friends while simultaneously villainizing any guy that does the same?
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12/07/2012 01:10 PM
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Re: My brother's wife is cheating. How can I get proof?
Ignore and hope it was her pastor or something......then act all surprised and upset if in fact....her cheating comes to light.

Buy gps tracker......to help you pinpoint "mating" grounds.....rent good camera with 200m lens...... brace for drama.

Sad situation.....unless your brother not telling you something.
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Re: My brother's wife is cheating. How can I get proof?
A Little update..I said nothing about what I saw..but Yesterday..My Brother Calls my father and to tell him his wife wants a divorce...the house and Alimony..WHY DOES SHE WANT THE DIVORCE??

Now if she's just not happy...fine..they can fight it out..BUT..I have no doubt now, she's just cheating and wants him to FINANCE it...

I personally have found her to have a Narcissistic personality and is a Hyprochrondiac, but always respected her and their marriage.

But the kindness ends when she is trying to take advantage of a good man who has loved and supported her all her life and she turns around and trys to be so vicious!! It's time for PROOF!!
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12/08/2012 12:02 PM
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OP, take care of your own life! Perhaps your brother is an asshole and that is the reason she wants the divorce!
Overall: You and your brother have to respect the opinion of his (ex) wife!
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ask to eat her out.
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mind your own biz bro
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THIS^^^^^^^ x 1,000,000

Busybody meddler.

Get a life.
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12/08/2012 12:18 PM
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You can't track her phone or put a GPS on her car get over that ideal it is illegal.
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Re: My brother's wife is cheating. How can I get proof?
I recommend you stay out of it all

it is not your business and you only saw a brief period in time
It might NOT be what you think and if you go to your brother and create havoc ; you will come out looking very bad.

Stay out of it ; forget it and if she is fooling around;

he will find out in good time
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This is good advice. You saw them coming out of a restaurant, NOT a motel. A simple kiss is in the same category as a hug. (Now if it were passionate tonsil touching, it might be different.)

If she is cheating, he will find out without your help. Based only on what you saw, I doubt she is. If she were cheating, she'd be a lot more discreet.
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Re: My brother's wife is cheating. How can I get proof?
I recently had to go an hour out of town..close to where my brother and his family live. I was passing by a small restuarant..and saw her and another man standing together and he quickly kissed her on the cheek and walked to his car and she got into hers.

My brother is out west working on a oil rig temporarely to help them catch up bills. She has no idea what I saw or that I was even going to be in her area...I cant afford to go there and sit for days and watch...so whats the next best thing?? Do those spy phone softwares work? Serious help needed..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12585602


Awww..so sad. He or you will have to get proof before you mention it to her because she will deny it. This is between your brother and you. I would not mention it to friends or other relatives. I don't agree with others saying it's not your business. That's your brother who's working hard and giving her a good life. He should know. Good luck. God bless.
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Re: My brother's wife is cheating. How can I get proof?
A Little update..I said nothing about what I saw..but Yesterday..My Brother Calls my father and to tell him his wife wants a divorce...the house and Alimony..WHY DOES SHE WANT THE DIVORCE??

Now if she's just not happy...fine..they can fight it out..BUT..I have no doubt now, she's just cheating and wants him to FINANCE it...

I personally have found her to have a Narcissistic personality and is a Hyprochrondiac, but always respected her and their marriage.

But the kindness ends when she is trying to take advantage of a good man who has loved and supported her all her life and she turns around and trys to be so vicious!! It's time for PROOF!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12585602


Get the proof! Are you aware that your brother could sue the man for romancing his wife while she was still married? Many cases have gone to court and huge sums of money have been awarded. I'm always afraid of suing someone because of retaliation, but it's a thought.
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Re: My brother's wife is cheating. How can I get proof?
i'm a bit of a control freak myself, so if it is haunting you *and* you feel you can do your brother some good, yes, go out and get the spy equipment... or better yet just reach in your pocket and hire the private detective yourself, TODAY, so there is no more back-and-forth and turmoil in your life either.

it would be interesting to see what she would say if you mentioned what you saw CASUALLY, and in a (pseudo) friendly way, but I don't think you should do this before working to get the raw audio/video footage.

Prepare to be wrong in your assumptions, as much as you prepare to be right. Could go either way. And remember even if she is cheating she could have a damn good reason (statistically probably not, but it's true that the rare exceptions happen). Anyway...

Good for you for sticking by your BLOOD! Trust me, some people are cowards and do not understand the simple concept of familial/DNA ties (like spouse's family!), and instead boastfully prefer in-laws just because in-laws kiss their ass or they have in common that they are the same kind of dullards! I applaud you!

Whatever you do in the end, present only facts, time/location, video footage, transcript of conversations, etc, as many here have suggested. Good luck.
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Re: My brother's wife is cheating. How can I get proof?
I just need proof to show him. He's been married 23 years and worked all his life to give her and their kids a good life..And she has done nothing but spend money and want better and more. He is the type of guy a woman would kill to have..seems so unfair.
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Fuck her, and you'll have all the proof you need!
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A Little update..I said nothing about what I saw..but Yesterday..My Brother Calls my father and to tell him his wife wants a divorce...the house and Alimony..WHY DOES SHE WANT THE DIVORCE??

Now if she's just not happy...fine..they can fight it out..BUT..I have no doubt now, she's just cheating and wants him to FINANCE it...

I personally have found her to have a Narcissistic personality and is a Hyprochrondiac, but always respected her and their marriage.

But the kindness ends when she is trying to take advantage of a good man who has loved and supported her all her life and she turns around and trys to be so vicious!! It's time for PROOF!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12585602


Get the proof! Are you aware that your brother could sue the man for romancing his wife while she was still married? Many cases have gone to court and huge sums of money have been awarded. I'm always afraid of suing someone because of retaliation, but it's a thought.
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What state are you from? Many states don't seem to have this as a cause of action.
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I recently had to go an hour out of town..close to where my brother and his family live. I was passing by a small restuarant..and saw her and another man standing together and he quickly kissed her on the cheek and walked to his car and she got into hers.

My brother is out west working on a oil rig temporarely to help them catch up bills. She has no idea what I saw or that I was even going to be in her area...I cant afford to go there and sit for days and watch...so whats the next best thing?? Do those spy phone softwares work? Serious help needed..
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Bang her and film it POV...proof enough I'd say :-)
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Re: My brother's wife is cheating. How can I get proof?
A Little update..I said nothing about what I saw..but Yesterday..My Brother Calls my father and to tell him his wife wants a divorce...the house and Alimony..WHY DOES SHE WANT THE DIVORCE??

Now if she's just not happy...fine..they can fight it out..BUT..I have no doubt now, she's just cheating and wants him to FINANCE it...

I personally have found her to have a Narcissistic personality and is a Hyprochrondiac, but always respected her and their marriage.

But the kindness ends when she is trying to take advantage of a good man who has loved and supported her all her life and she turns around and trys to be so vicious!! It's time for PROOF!!
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 12585602


Get the proof! Are you aware that your brother could sue the man for romancing his wife while she was still married? Many cases have gone to court and huge sums of money have been awarded. I'm always afraid of suing someone because of retaliation, but it's a thought.
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What state are you from? Many states don't seem to have this as a cause of action.
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Yes that state she lives in allows such lawsuits. And I know 2 cases that won their cases.
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mind your own biz bro
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kitty I'll second that.
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Funny how when it is the woman cheating, all the women tell you to mind your own business.

But if it was the guy cheating, they would be calling for him to be hung by his fingernails.

The hypocracy and cycnicism is amazing. Just goes to show you how the feminine imparative is supreme in our culture.

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