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| Simple_Man User ID: 15977994 12/08/2012 05:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Getting hot chicks is just like fishing. You have to have a sardine to catch a swordfish. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 14735128 What you do is date a fat chick, and treat her like a queen, in front of said hot chick, completely ignoring the hot chick. This drives women crazy because they don't understand what she has that they don't. Part of being dangerous, is being unavailable. People naturally are drawn to things they can't/shouldn't have. Really in general women don't like guys who are "too available" no one wants a fucking puppy following them around all the time it's annoying. Sounds like a hell of a lot of work. I don't want to be "dangerous". I want to be ME. What a shit, fake way to live life, constantly calculating and adjusting your persona to fit into this shallow mold of what shallow, stupid women supposedly want. And yes, some want all that shit. They're shit people, utterly worthless trash, like the girl who posted above about the guy who was "unavailable" so it drove her nuts and she wanted him. Who knows, he probably fed her that line because that kind of manipulation is well-known in pick up artistry literature. ^^^^^ This people are so fake nowadays and then you have a bunch of people on here telling you how to be fake to get women the truth is that the music, movies and tv shows have completely screwed up women's brains from childhood ... People truly don't understand the effects that twilight , Justin Beiber , and gossip girl has on young females And us men get totally screwed in the head from watching explicit porn from a young age .... there is hardly any real men left and most of the women today are whores 50% of all marriages end in divorce now and do you really think that the other 50% is truly happy ?..... I would say about 1 or 2 out of ten marriages , the couple is happy this society is a lost cause ... it's rapidly going downhill and it's not going to turn around by the time alot women nowadays are ready to settle down and find someone to marry they are 30+ and in their younger days they partied and they got bedded by 50 plus men ..... the isn't one man that wants to marry a woman like that but if you want to get married nowadays then you have to try and convince yourself that you are ok with her past ....etc....etc... It's either that or marry the girl who is 70 pounds overweight because she is miserable inside and you have to tell yourself that it's about personality and not looks ...when in reality it takes both And he guys are no better......most are overweight and still living at home or they poor and have no direction in life.....they are 35 and still dressing like they are 21 with their hat cocked sideways and tattoos on their neck you can thank your parents or your grandparents for all of this.....the sexual revolution played a big part in destroying this society Last Edited by Simple_Man on 12/08/2012 05:28 PM |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 25676821 12/08/2012 05:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Dude, Let me tell you...."hot chicks" - just like "Hot guys" are NOT what you want! OK, maybe for a little while, so everyone in your circle can see what a HOT girl you were able to snare, but trust me - THEY WILL NOT BE A GOOD GF!!! Many here have given you good advice. Hot girls are very high maintenance, often don't give a RIP about your NEEDS, just want to walk around with trophy after trophy hanging off THEIR arm (which is basically the SAME THING you are looking for in a hot girl!). Many call it "settling" when you just settle down with a "normal" girl, average looking. But the truth of the matter is, there's NO DRAMA, NO HEARTACHE, if she loves you deeply, and you love her deeply, it'll last. Most hot chicks have had EVERY GUY THEY EVER LOOKED AT ONCE, so what are the odds that they've learned how to GIVE anything to a relationship to make it last, or meet the needs of their bf? NEXT TO ZERO. Take a clue: YOU DO NOT WANT A HOT CHICK! You want a woman who will love and cherish you for WHO YOU ARE, and how you two are together, get along, meet each others' needs, etc., and NOT JUST A TROPHY to eventually end up on the mantle and get all dusty, and eventually be thrown away for a shinier, newer one. THAT'S WHAT HOT GIRLS DO TO GUYS. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 24676574 12/08/2012 05:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | At what point in recent history did it become so that women were suddenly able to pick men at their leisure. Seeing as we are superior in every regard, physical, psychological and intellectual... How come we're at the mercy of the vag? I've said it multiple times before, but as far as relationships go, women bring nothing to the table except for a hole. They should be grateful to even receive the attention of a male who is busy leading an earnest, efficient existence. |
| Manu-Koelbren Shalom. User ID: 1312616 12/08/2012 05:41 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am sure you feel very proud that such retards dig you. "Your gates will be open continually; They will not be closed day or night, So that men may bring to you the wealth of the nations, With their kings led in procession. For the nation and the kingdom which will not serve you will perish, And the nations will be utterly ruined." |
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| Down Under Wonder User ID: 29257489 12/08/2012 05:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hot and beautiful are 2 diff things too. Its like comparing intelligent to smart. A hot woman can be pretty ugly when she takes off the make up, bra, and drees. But a beautiful woman is beautiful, no matter what she does. Find a beautiful woman, and forget the hot ones. |
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| Manu-Koelbren Shalom. User ID: 1312616 12/08/2012 05:59 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hot and beautiful are 2 diff things too. Quoting: Down Under Wonder 29257489 Its like comparing intelligent to smart. A hot woman can be pretty ugly when she takes off the make up, bra, and drees. But a beautiful woman is beautiful, no matter what she does. Find a beautiful woman, and forget the hot ones. When you have feelings for someone you start seeing them in another light. Unless they're tremendously obese....but even some people are able to love obese or deformed people. I dunno, I think average is fine, most of the chicks that turn me on are not celebrity hot, nor playboy hot, but girl next door types that have certain sexyness to themselves. Anyhow people should minimally try to take care of their hygiene and weight. "Your gates will be open continually; They will not be closed day or night, So that men may bring to you the wealth of the nations, With their kings led in procession. For the nation and the kingdom which will not serve you will perish, And the nations will be utterly ruined." |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 21974491 12/08/2012 06:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hot girl's point of view on this topic. She's painfully blunt if you can handle the truth. [link to youtu.be] |
| Manu-Koelbren Shalom. User ID: 1312616 12/08/2012 06:04 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Quoting: Manu-Koelbren U MAD???? its something about the black cock that have white women crawling the ceilings. the black tool is extremely powerful. Planet earth is trying hard to eliminate our alien seed off this planet, we're just too disruptive to nature, a world inhabited by negroid varieties would quickly revert to prehistoric conditions "Your gates will be open continually; They will not be closed day or night, So that men may bring to you the wealth of the nations, With their kings led in procession. For the nation and the kingdom which will not serve you will perish, And the nations will be utterly ruined." |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29335662 12/08/2012 06:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sure they do bud, if they have what can be only be described as fat wallets fat houses, fat cars and bank accounts... You see, womnezes need stability too, so they marry average looking guys that have the greenback in order to secure a good settlement........ So a very wealthy average easily malleable looking guy might stand a chance for reproducing his barely therely looks to secure future spawns of generations based in his painfully obvious averageness, but let's face it OP, you don't even make it into those hallowed ranks and you now realize your entire childhood was a lie and the only one, - the only one to make you think you were hot was......yo momma cause she said you were the most handsome thing blah blah puke a little in the mouth moment |
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| Manu-Koelbren Shalom. User ID: 1312616 12/08/2012 06:30 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hot girl's point of view on this topic. She's painfully blunt if you can handle the truth. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21974491 [link to youtu.be] She looks like a retard but says very wise things. "Your gates will be open continually; They will not be closed day or night, So that men may bring to you the wealth of the nations, With their kings led in procession. For the nation and the kingdom which will not serve you will perish, And the nations will be utterly ruined." |
| Manu-Koelbren Shalom. User ID: 1312616 12/08/2012 06:31 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sure they do bud, if they have what can be only be described as fat wallets fat houses, fat cars and bank accounts... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29335662 You see, womnezes need stability too, so they marry average looking guys that have the greenback in order to secure a good settlement........ So a very wealthy average easily malleable looking guy might stand a chance for reproducing his barely therely looks to secure future spawns of generations based in his painfully obvious averageness, but let's face it OP, you don't even make it into those hallowed ranks and you now realize your entire childhood was a lie and the only one, - the only one to make you think you were hot was......yo momma cause she said you were the most handsome thing blah blah puke a little in the mouth moment ![]() "Your gates will be open continually; They will not be closed day or night, So that men may bring to you the wealth of the nations, With their kings led in procession. For the nation and the kingdom which will not serve you will perish, And the nations will be utterly ruined." |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 26372742 12/08/2012 06:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i don't hang out in bars, so my experience may be off. but i don't hit on guys...ever. there is no need, guys will hit on yo,no matter what. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742 sex is never an issue. that is easy to get. but i don't just want sex. i want someone whose personality meshes with mine, who is funny, intelligent, kind, healthy, and who has ambitions in his life. if i am attracted to a guy, and he hasn't hit one, etc. then i will want to hang out with him, listen to his stories, smile at him, tell jokes, etc. the usual stuff. but i also may do that with guys i am not necessarily attracted to,lol... spoken like a women who is not old yet and is in for a rude awakening soon.. i am 44... lol, is that not 'old enough'? sex is easy to get. i have younger guys hitting on me all the time. older guys, guys the same age.....yes, it has decreased a bit since i was in my prime 20 years ago, but not by that much. i have had 2 long term relationships. and now find myself single. i could have fwb relationships with 4 men that i know of right now, if i only wanted sex. but i don't. i want a relationship. and that is harder to get. this is how i understand how things work: men want sex, and find that hard to get. women want relationships and find that hard to get. if women only wanted sex,it would be super easy to get. if men wanted a relationship, it would be easier to get than just sex. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29347006 12/08/2012 06:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Still dealing with a break up here. I just want that person that is your best friend and your lover. I'd say I'm above average looking. Optimistically. The problem is, I don't know many girls. I'm not in school and it's not like there are any girls at my job. It is kind of daunting because the man is expected to approach the girl, but in today's society, it seems like if there isn't something in it for the girl, and I'm not meaning sex or good looks I mean I feel like I can handle that part, just most seem to look for someone who has the money or some other reason. Someone young (20) who isn't too well established, not in school, staying with a friend, isn't obviously going to have as much to offer material wise as the guy who has the apartment, nice car, 3 years older. Etc etc. It just really seems like women get to pick and choose who they want, because they are in demand and the men are the ones who have to search out the girl it seems. Bleh I feel desperate. /rant |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29215748 12/08/2012 06:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hot girls act like bitches because they HAVE to. They are being doofily hit on by 50 losers per day. Losers that, if she should happen to even answer them in less than a bitch tone, will think they are in like Flynn when they have less than no chance, and then bother her for hours. This shit needs to be nipped in the bud for her to not go nuts. Quoting: DrKnow 29269490 Speaking to her in a way that is different than the 50 losers is KEY. This guy saying "Nah, she's all yours" made the chick get all over him like white on rice. It's called a takeaway. That is insightful. I just came into this thread for the lolz, because reading you men discuss how to catch "hot women," and what "hot women" want, is hilarious. Just the title of this thread... ![]() I'm going to throw you a bone, because y'all morans made me laugh. "Hot women," are just people, same as you. What would make you want to hit on an average woman? Some are gold diggers, some are bitches, and some are just normal people. Dr. Know is totally correct, in that "hot women" have to act cold in public, if they don't want to start a collection of stalkers. Some men are crazy and creepy, and it's impossible to tell the crazy ones from the normal "nice" ones, by just looking. That's why when I was single, I only went on dates with men I already knew. Here's another thing, a hot woman who dresses down and wears less makeup is going to get hit on even more, because stalkers go for the girl-next-door hotties. Stalkers think these types are more attainable. I know some of you men will disbelieve this, but as a woman myself, I can't even smile to myself in public without getting harassed, and I'm not Cindy Crawford. Men don't check to see that I am wearing a wedding ring, and sometimes if they talk to me for a few minutes and I am friendly, they get really mad when they find out I'm married. Men can be really scary! There was a previous thread that pointed out, women are prey to sexual predators, and that is true. Remember if you approach a woman, don't be aggressive, because she has had men turn into psychos on her in similar situations, and she's easy to spook. She does make some sense..lol wanna go on a date? I'm married. Reading comprehension? ;) See guys.. how she left me a ;) She's obviously flirting with me.. THAT'S HOW IT'S DONE! |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 26372742 12/08/2012 06:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2971150 That is insightful. I just came into this thread for the lolz, because reading you men discuss how to catch "hot women," and what "hot women" want, is hilarious. Just the title of this thread... ![]() I'm going to throw you a bone, because y'all morans made me laugh. "Hot women," are just people, same as you. What would make you want to hit on an average woman? Some are gold diggers, some are bitches, and some are just normal people. Dr. Know is totally correct, in that "hot women" have to act cold in public, if they don't want to start a collection of stalkers. Some men are crazy and creepy, and it's impossible to tell the crazy ones from the normal "nice" ones, by just looking. That's why when I was single, I only went on dates with men I already knew. Here's another thing, a hot woman who dresses down and wears less makeup is going to get hit on even more, because stalkers go for the girl-next-door hotties. Stalkers think these types are more attainable. I know some of you men will disbelieve this, but as a woman myself, I can't even smile to myself in public without getting harassed, and I'm not Cindy Crawford. Men don't check to see that I am wearing a wedding ring, and sometimes if they talk to me for a few minutes and I am friendly, they get really mad when they find out I'm married. Men can be really scary! There was a previous thread that pointed out, women are prey to sexual predators, and that is true. Remember if you approach a woman, don't be aggressive, because she has had men turn into psychos on her in similar situations, and she's easy to spook. She does make some sense..lol wanna go on a date? I'm married. Reading comprehension? ;) See guys.. how she left me a ;) She's obviously flirting with me.. THAT'S HOW IT'S DONE! lol you men always need to remember that we women think about sex A LOT LESS THAN YOU. |
| Manu-Koelbren Shalom. User ID: 1312616 12/08/2012 06:46 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Still dealing with a break up here. I just want that person that is your best friend and your lover. I'd say I'm above average looking. Optimistically. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29347006 The problem is, I don't know many girls. I'm not in school and it's not like there are any girls at my job. It is kind of daunting because the man is expected to approach the girl, but in today's society, it seems like if there isn't something in it for the girl, and I'm not meaning sex or good looks I mean I feel like I can handle that part, just most seem to look for someone who has the money or some other reason. Someone young (20) who isn't too well established, not in school, staying with a friend, isn't obviously going to have as much to offer material wise as the guy who has the apartment, nice car, 3 years older. Etc etc. It just really seems like women get to pick and choose who they want, because they are in demand and the men are the ones who have to search out the girl it seems. Bleh I feel desperate. /rant Dude if you're young and just want to fuck save yourself the trouble and fuck a hooker now and then. When you get your shit together later on you will have more tools to be able to attract some nice mate for a long term relationship if that's really what you want. if not keep fucking the hookers ![]() "Your gates will be open continually; They will not be closed day or night, So that men may bring to you the wealth of the nations, With their kings led in procession. For the nation and the kingdom which will not serve you will perish, And the nations will be utterly ruined." |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29347006 12/08/2012 06:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | At the end of the day that's not rewarding or fulfilling yeah fucking is fun but I'm not like one track mind sex all day. I just want someone I can fucking trust who shares common interests and have similar mentalities. I guess my confidence is just shattered after my last relationship ended. |
| Manu-Koelbren Shalom. User ID: 1312616 12/08/2012 07:04 PM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | At the end of the day that's not rewarding or fulfilling yeah fucking is fun but I'm not like one track mind sex all day. I just want someone I can fucking trust who shares common interests and have similar mentalities. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29347006 I guess my confidence is just shattered after my last relationship ended. Relationships with women are very complicated, even if you got a perfect match things will never be as smooth as being by yourself. And also you said your situation is not stable so having a gf right now would probably bring you more problems than benefits. If you want a gf work to make your life more stable and they will come, but be ready for a lot of hassle. In the meantime if you have a biological need to fuck just pay for it. Im currently having lots of issues with my gf and im thinking of dumping her because my life was easier before tbh. "Your gates will be open continually; They will not be closed day or night, So that men may bring to you the wealth of the nations, With their kings led in procession. For the nation and the kingdom which will not serve you will perish, And the nations will be utterly ruined." |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29347006 12/08/2012 07:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Part of me says forget even thinking about women as much as possible and focus on myself. But that's not easy to do. Feels nice to be wanted by somebody. Maybe I'm just being a pansy going thru lonely phase and need to man the fuck up and not worry about it |
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