Do hot girls ever hit on average looking nice guys?

after she told me that I scrub everything these days. You never know when a girl is gonna rim you..

and if a girl is gonna rim you.. you want to keep that girl and that's why you need to clean out your ass

I'm an average-looking guy, and right now I could stand to lose a lot of weight, but I've had hot women hitting on me my whole life. My current wife is my age, but looks better than most women ten years younger.

It's more about attitude and confidence than anything. If you're convinced that you have a lot to offer and that it's her loss if she doesn't want to get to know you, then you will start to attract women like flies. They will chase you, I promise. I'm living proof.

Having said that, acting like a self-centered douche and telling her out loud that it's her loss is not what I'm talking about. It's about being convinced in your own mind that no matter how many women tell you they aren't interested, you will eventually find one who will appreciate you. Once you are in that state of mind and the word 'no' doesn't cut through you like a knife and make you react poorly, you will start to see a change.

To summarize, it's all about finding your inner Alpha maleness. That's damned hard to do in a feminist society.

I think they do hit on average looking guys because some of them want to be the pretty one, not him.

Guy down hall from me in my apartment is a musician.

God awful one at that.. i don't think hes 21 yet.

every other weekend a diff girl.. i don't know what the traffic will be like when he's 21

I was dating this guy one time, and he introduced me to his friend.

Long story short, the conversation got to the point of (jokingly) whether or not the friend was going to steal me away.

He said something to the effect of "Nah, she's all yours. She might as well be a dude as far as I'm concerned."

Well, that did it! Had to have him.

Moral of the story? Turn off our power source and we will be desperate to get it back as quickly as possible. We don't like being without our powers.

LOL yes it does.

The pussies on this board are qualified to suggest dating tips, esp with hot girls. LOLOLOL

Define Confidence.

Wise man. but you have to get them to drink with you first.

Shit. I was hitting them over the head with the bottle...

i don't hang out in bars, so my experience may be off. but i don't hit on guys...ever. there is no need, guys will hit on yo,no matter what.
sex is never an issue. that is easy to get. but i don't just want sex. i want someone whose personality meshes with mine, who is funny, intelligent, kind, healthy, and who has ambitions in his life.
if i am attracted to a guy, and he hasn't hit one, etc. then i will want to hang out with him, listen to his stories,
smile at him, tell jokes, etc. the usual stuff. but i also may do that with guys i am not necessarily attracted to,lol...

Not very rare.

Depends on the guy.

Humans can be perceptive to more than just the obvious appearance of an individual.

Body language, facial expressions, pheromones, emotion, etc.



Confidence can go a long way with anyone.

Average guys with lots of confidence (swagger), but play it within their realm/field/whatever-you-want-to-call-it, can nab even the most attractive women.

Of course, as you get older, money will also have plenty to do with it as it is the easiest benchmark for power and authority, but money aside, there is more to appearance than looking like a model.

Once guys understand that, they start picking up more women. Not because they are chasing, but because the women come to them.

Yes they are! Illiterate and black are optional.

Yes they are! Illiterate and black are optional.

Please define confidence and swagger. I'm not sure exactly what most people here seem to think of them as. Is there a difference?

I'm really confident of most things in life and very successful in my own way. I just don't know what the performance requirements are to SHOW "confidence".

You know the real problem nowadays? ALL women think they're hot! Have you seen them on social media, all these average girls taking pics of themselves as if they were some god given present to mankind?

Reality is that to get women you have to be a bit psycho.

Does this include an enema? What kind?

You need to get in a team of Salad Tossers and Anal Bleachers, first!

im not a particularly attractive guy, but ive had my share of beautiful woman. never really had any luck in the first encounter scenario tho (bars,clubs etc.) but the ones i have landed, eventuated after spending some time with them. im a nice guy, know how to laugh make people laugh, am passionate about music/life, fun to hang out with. It just took some persevering till i found someone i was attracted to, who enjoyed my company & felt some attraction after hanging out with me a bit. im 34 now, have had 3 big relationships. all around 3 years long. unfortunately I havnt managed to make anything stick long term...fuck knows why? the relationships just faded in all 3 cases. seemed pointless to continue them. but I have known some really awesome females...and am great full to have been able to enjoy the opposite sex so much!

i now have 2 yr old daughter so my priorities have changed somewhat. not really trying to meet woman like i used to. and at 34, i dont give as much as a fuck.

in short: im not attractive & not rich but some chicks found the attraction for them started after getting to know me. there's a lot to be said for having FUN & making her smile, treating her right & not being a selfious prick who just wants someone to polish his knob.

Oh, come on...admit it!!! This is your BF...is it not?
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BAM! THERE ^^ it is!

PAY ATTENTION GENTLEMEN!!!

This here is the truth.

Hot girls act like bitches because they HAVE to. They are being doofily hit on by 50 losers per day. Losers that, if she should happen to even answer them in less than a bitch tone, will think they are in like Flynn when they have less than no chance, and then bother her for hours. This shit needs to be nipped in the bud for her to not go nuts.

Speaking to her in a way that is different than the 50 losers is KEY. This guy saying "Nah, she's all yours" made the chick get all over him like white on rice. It's called a takeaway.

Slut wanted him so bad she had to fuck her boyfriend's best friend, which is about the biggest slap in the face possible.

Think about it.

But think about this, every delusional loser out there think's he's entitled to a hot chick and every average chick out there longs for a rich prince. No wonder why people are frustrated

Aren't you the same idiot telling average men with not much wealth to approach supermodel women. I doubt very much that you could ever pull it off, and I don't think your capable of making any woman laugh at anything you say. You really have no business giving advice in this topic, IP hopper.

hot girls who have been used and abused by the good-looking, bad-boy type will date the plain vanilla guy as the rebound... but its only temporary... they always go back to the hot-looking toxic guy.

He's an idiot. Probably one of those tools that reads books but never puts what he reads into operation.

This is it right here. If a male doesn't start humping the leg of every female that crosses your path they think you are gay. But deep down they are so afraid of you because they are powerless and the atypical female charm does nothing and I dunno how they can sense you are different but ...they can. Almost like a scared animal.

I don't care who he is, I am discussing ideas .