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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29348293 12/09/2012 12:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Legendary Blaming others for your own actions is an act of being self centered. Now please go troll somewhere else. It's your own self-centeredness that won't let you stop responding to me...you are obsessed with me, and that is a very selfish attitude... Wow what a selfish act being obsessed over another person! Are you stupid? All the males in my family are geniuses, with the exception of my downs syndrome brother...and you? Brief, you are a very responsible type of guy. You're in a contentious mood tonight....give it up. This guy wants to know how to be less self centered. Give him some help here. |
| BRIEF Rebel with morals User ID: 29128920 12/09/2012 12:10 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: BRIEF It's your own self-centeredness that won't let you stop responding to me...you are obsessed with me, and that is a very selfish attitude... Wow what a selfish act being obsessed over another person! Are you stupid? All the males in my family are geniuses, with the exception of my downs syndrome brother...and you? Most of your postings are wrote with a very low intellect but it's brief and to the point. This is a thread about being less self centered and here you keep talking about yourself and bragging about your family. Try asking about my family or anyone else's family on this board do you really care about any of us that much to do so? I don't care to ask about a selfish motherfucker like you...go on with your insults, they mean nothing, except to verify that I am smarter than you...I know you hate it, because you are self centered, why else would you have made this thread? Last Edited by BRIEF on 12/09/2012 12:11 AM Nuke the Muzzies! With freedom comes responsibility. Heterosexual pride! ![]() |
| BRIEF Rebel with morals User ID: 29128920 12/09/2012 12:15 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: BRIEF It's your own self-centeredness that won't let you stop responding to me...you are obsessed with me, and that is a very selfish attitude... Wow what a selfish act being obsessed over another person! Are you stupid? All the males in my family are geniuses, with the exception of my downs syndrome brother...and you? Brief, you are a very responsible type of guy. You're in a contentious mood tonight....give it up. This guy wants to know how to be less self centered. Give him some help here. The best help I can give him is to stop responding to me...people like him bitch about derailing their threads and they keep talking bullshit...just shut the fuck up is all that needs to be done. Nuke the Muzzies! With freedom comes responsibility. Heterosexual pride! ![]() |
| Parabola User ID: 29311787 12/09/2012 12:16 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Changing this in a personality is a mind bending experience. Quoting: Legendary Becoming more giving is something everyone should work on. Karma i guess comes back stranger in force so do positive and the more positive the outcomes are. This is what we all need to be doing. Yes! We learn the most from the overcoming the most challenging obstacles. It's also beautiful that you've been sharing your experience with all of us. |
| ANHEDONIC Uncensored User ID: 26795689 12/09/2012 12:21 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It was written by a founder of AA, Bill W, but the stories come from individuals who have been helped over the years by the program. You don't have to be an alcoholic to benefit from the wisdom of the program. As I said, any irresistible urge to do something you can't resist (sex/porn, shopping, yelling/raging, eating, smoking, dating compulsively, cleaning, enforcing rules, working, you name it) this book can be applied to. When we do something compulsively, it is coming from some kind of fear, which is a sign of an absence of faith. The book is mystical if you ask me, considering it and the program have allowed the worst of the worst cases to recover when no other program on earth offered them any hope. Quoting: Isis One PS, your post was very inspiring Thanks for the additional info Isis... Is it available for download by any chance or does it need to be purchased? I'd be interesting in perusing it. Last Edited by ANHEDONIC on 12/09/2012 12:22 AM |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29348293 12/09/2012 12:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Becoming less self centered involves relinquishing pride. Pride makes us want to always have the last word. We can all be less self centered by not always havng the last word; it's something we all have to work on. If we allow Jesus to be the force in our lives, then we can back away from angry situations. |
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| itsamadmadworld User ID: 29381712 12/09/2012 12:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The answer to your question depends on exactly what you mean by "less self centered" . . . Are you mean and spoiled? Do you intentionally cause trouble? Do you engage in hateful/hurtful/harmful actions? Do you just basically mind your own business and keep to yourself? How do you feel about other people? What are your emotions concerning animals and nature? Do you respect the planet? Are you productive and creative? Are you an empath? |
| Legendary (OP) User ID: 29232119 12/09/2012 12:39 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | All the males in my family are geniuses, with the exception of my downs syndrome brother...and you? Most of your postings are wrote with a very low intellect but it's brief and to the point. This is a thread about being less self centered and here you keep talking about yourself and bragging about your family. Try asking about my family or anyone else's family on this board do you really care about any of us that much to do so? I don't care to ask about a selfish motherfucker like you...go on with your insults, they mean nothing, except to verify that I am smarter than you...I know you hate it, because you are self centered, why else would you have made this thread? Take facts as insult's. I am self centered and that is why i made this thread. I do not want to be this way anymore so i thought i would get glp input on this subject and i am sure there are others struggling with this also. It's the holidays and someone people are going to get and not give and i have been one of these people. I need some good advice not some raciest baiting troll derailing my thread about killing millions in genocide. You sir are a fucking idiot. |
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| BRIEF Rebel with morals User ID: 29128920 12/09/2012 12:45 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: BRIEF All the males in my family are geniuses, with the exception of my downs syndrome brother...and you? Most of your postings are wrote with a very low intellect but it's brief and to the point. This is a thread about being less self centered and here you keep talking about yourself and bragging about your family. Try asking about my family or anyone else's family on this board do you really care about any of us that much to do so? I don't care to ask about a selfish motherfucker like you...go on with your insults, they mean nothing, except to verify that I am smarter than you...I know you hate it, because you are self centered, why else would you have made this thread? Take facts as insult's. I am self centered and that is why i made this thread. I do not want to be this way anymore so i thought i would get glp input on this subject and i am sure there are others struggling with this also. It's the holidays and someone people are going to get and not give and i have been one of these people. I need some good advice not some raciest baiting troll derailing my thread about killing millions in genocide. You sir are a fucking idiot. No, I'm a genius and I can help you be less selfish and work toward selflessness if you stop acting like a dick toward me...your attitude is always reflected back toward you... First reading assignment is "Happiness Is A Serious Problem" by Dennis Prager. Nuke the Muzzies! With freedom comes responsibility. Heterosexual pride! ![]() |
| Isis One User ID: 14343270 12/09/2012 12:46 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It was written by a founder of AA, Bill W, but the stories come from individuals who have been helped over the years by the program. You don't have to be an alcoholic to benefit from the wisdom of the program. As I said, any irresistible urge to do something you can't resist (sex/porn, shopping, yelling/raging, eating, smoking, dating compulsively, cleaning, enforcing rules, working, you name it) this book can be applied to. When we do something compulsively, it is coming from some kind of fear, which is a sign of an absence of faith. The book is mystical if you ask me, considering it and the program have allowed the worst of the worst cases to recover when no other program on earth offered them any hope. Quoting: Isis One PS, your post was very inspiring Thanks for the additional info Isis... Is it available for download by any chance or does it need to be purchased? I'd be interesting in perusing it. Here is just one link I got, just google it [link to www.aa.org] |
| Legendary (OP) User ID: 29232119 12/09/2012 12:56 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Legendary Most of your postings are wrote with a very low intellect but it's brief and to the point. This is a thread about being less self centered and here you keep talking about yourself and bragging about your family. Try asking about my family or anyone else's family on this board do you really care about any of us that much to do so? I don't care to ask about a selfish motherfucker like you...go on with your insults, they mean nothing, except to verify that I am smarter than you...I know you hate it, because you are self centered, why else would you have made this thread? Take facts as insult's. I am self centered and that is why i made this thread. I do not want to be this way anymore so i thought i would get glp input on this subject and i am sure there are others struggling with this also. It's the holidays and someone people are going to get and not give and i have been one of these people. I need some good advice not some raciest baiting troll derailing my thread about killing millions in genocide. You sir are a fucking idiot. No, I'm a genius and I can help you be less selfish and work toward selflessness if you stop acting like a dick toward me...your attitude is always reflected back toward you... First reading assignment is "Happiness Is A Serious Problem" by Dennis Prager. There thread back on track. At least your still not spouting nuke the muzzies now you are giving advice on literature! I am not to dumb after all. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 26764444 12/09/2012 01:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Whenever I start to feeling really self involved - yuck I hate that - but doing good things for other people really gets me away from that. Quoting: Sloane :flowerssmile: That's because you have an AMAZING heart love. Love for you from me. Ahhh . . . most precious girl on GLP. :lightbox: Together we could be an undeniable/unstoppable force. Scissoring of peace |
| Isis One User ID: 14343270 12/09/2012 01:20 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Here's a suggestion OP that will give you a good start, go through this thread and respond to each person who sincerely responded to you. Let us know what it felt like to do this, you may have some fears about doing it, push through them. |
| Legendary (OP) User ID: 29232119 12/09/2012 01:24 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Here's a suggestion OP that will give you a good start, go through this thread and respond to each person who sincerely responded to you. Let us know what it felt like to do this, you may have some fears about doing it, push through them. Quoting: Isis One There have been a lot of good and positive postings in this thread so far. I missed out on a lot being selfish. |
| Undestroyer Truth User ID: 21232567 12/09/2012 01:35 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes This ^^^ The good old golden rule Also accept Messiah and allow messiah to work wonders in your life and those around you. ![]() You cannot destroy my vision when you see my vision undestroyed because I am just an undestroyer. Thread: Tai Chi Treasure trove Thread: You can Lead a horse to water *Here's some water*. (suppressed info) |
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| Legendary (OP) User ID: 29232119 12/09/2012 03:27 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Made me realize some things with my dad. I am evolving a little more everyday opening new thinking. To long have i been mean to people and treated the loved ones in my life like shit. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 23868873 12/09/2012 03:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Legendary Most of your postings are wrote with a very low intellect but it's brief and to the point. This is a thread about being less self centered and here you keep talking about yourself and bragging about your family. Try asking about my family or anyone else's family on this board do you really care about any of us that much to do so? I don't care to ask about a selfish motherfucker like you...go on with your insults, they mean nothing, except to verify that I am smarter than you...I know you hate it, because you are self centered, why else would you have made this thread? Take facts as insult's. I am self centered and that is why i made this thread. I do not want to be this way anymore so i thought i would get glp input on this subject and i am sure there are others struggling with this also. It's the holidays and someone people are going to get and not give and i have been one of these people. I need some good advice not some raciest baiting troll derailing my thread about killing millions in genocide. You sir are a fucking idiot. No, I'm a genius and I can help you be less selfish and work toward selflessness if you stop acting like a dick toward me...your attitude is always reflected back toward you... First reading assignment is "Happiness Is A Serious Problem" by Dennis Prager. Those 3 words in your signature says a lot. You need healing man. |
| BRIEF Rebel with morals User ID: 29406202 12/09/2012 09:06 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: BRIEF I don't care to ask about a selfish motherfucker like you...go on with your insults, they mean nothing, except to verify that I am smarter than you...I know you hate it, because you are self centered, why else would you have made this thread? Take facts as insult's. I am self centered and that is why i made this thread. I do not want to be this way anymore so i thought i would get glp input on this subject and i am sure there are others struggling with this also. It's the holidays and someone people are going to get and not give and i have been one of these people. I need some good advice not some raciest baiting troll derailing my thread about killing millions in genocide. You sir are a fucking idiot. No, I'm a genius and I can help you be less selfish and work toward selflessness if you stop acting like a dick toward me...your attitude is always reflected back toward you... First reading assignment is "Happiness Is A Serious Problem" by Dennis Prager. Those 3 words in your signature says a lot. You need healing man. No, I'm not ill or broken...the only way to achieve world peace is to destroy all the Muzzies... Nuke the Muzzies! With freedom comes responsibility. Heterosexual pride! ![]() |