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what do women really want? Women Only

 
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LOL you are asking women what they want??!??!??!?!

Don't you know women have no idea what they want?

They have no idea. It is your job to tell them.
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I just want a back-rub, every day, for like 2+ hours.

That's it.

That's all.

I'm easy to please.
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Well now that you mention it, that does sound better than flowers :)
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men can't figure women out become women are much more complex biologically. women have a much more involved endocrine system, and release different hormones in different levels each week.
men have more of a seasonal cycle. women have a monthly cycle.
if you look at it like a sine wave, men are like the straight constant base line. women cycle up and down. for some women their amplitude is much greater than other women.
men just need to keep being that straight line of groundedness.
we women appreciate that. we think you are simple and oftentimes dumb. be you aren't as hormonal challenged and therefore are more grounded. that keeps us grounded. :)
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Yeah I have problems with that, my gf is always trying to find some shit to stir possibly cuz she gets bored and wants some drama, and I cant stand that shit, I am grounded as long as a girl get's things when I tell her to, but my gf is a total rebel. Im thinking of dumping her for this, I prefer to be alone that with someone who enjoys drama, and most women like some drama, if it's not there they create it. After they get to your nerves they just act as if nothing happened and everything is fine. Well it isnt.

That's why women like bad boys because they keep them on edge constantly ,even beat them a bit, I like peaceful living, not gratuitous troubles cuz i got nothing else going on in my life, i have things going on and i want my energy there, not on dumb shit.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren

This might be interesting for you to watch. Some people are addicted to certain emotional states. (Eg: women creating drama because it makes them feel more 'alive', or abused women going back to their abusers. It is an actual physical addiction to certain emotional states.)
The breath controls the body and the breath can control the emotional state of the body.


 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742


Yeah, totally. Maybe it's because I was never abused in any manner that I just enjoy so much calm and tranquility and pursuing my intellectual and musical objectives in life. My gf really loves me and she really dedicates to me, but her constant need to create drama out of nowhere really makes me want to boot her. The crazy thing is that after they get their fix of drama is like they apologize and act as if it was nothing, like they're so happy about what happened. They got their fix and they're content, but I am totally crushed.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren

well, you have 2 course of action.
you could break up. you will have your tranquility back.
but that is not the path that will help you evolve here, as you have already experienced that tranquil reality.
to keep evolving, we need to push ourselves to grown.
how could you behave differently with your gf, so that you grow as a person?
are you actually communicating with her, and telling her how much the drama upsets you? not in an angry way, but in a sharing way.
if she does love you, she will listen.
if you do this, you will help her grow as a person too. she will become more cogniscent of when she creates drama.
look up non violent communication techniques as a way to communicate effectively.
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Yeah I have problems with that, my gf is always trying to find some shit to stir possibly cuz she gets bored and wants some drama, and I cant stand that shit, I am grounded as long as a girl get's things when I tell her to, but my gf is a total rebel. Im thinking of dumping her for this, I prefer to be alone that with someone who enjoys drama, and most women like some drama, if it's not there they create it. After they get to your nerves they just act as if nothing happened and everything is fine. Well it isnt.

That's why women like bad boys because they keep them on edge constantly ,even beat them a bit, I like peaceful living, not gratuitous troubles cuz i got nothing else going on in my life, i have things going on and i want my energy there, not on dumb shit.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren

This might be interesting for you to watch. Some people are addicted to certain emotional states. (Eg: women creating drama because it makes them feel more 'alive', or abused women going back to their abusers. It is an actual physical addiction to certain emotional states.)
The breath controls the body and the breath can control the emotional state of the body.


 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742


Yeah, totally. Maybe it's because I was never abused in any manner that I just enjoy so much calm and tranquility and pursuing my intellectual and musical objectives in life. My gf really loves me and she really dedicates to me, but her constant need to create drama out of nowhere really makes me want to boot her. The crazy thing is that after they get their fix of drama is like they apologize and act as if it was nothing, like they're so happy about what happened. They got their fix and they're content, but I am totally crushed.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren

well, you have 2 course of action.
you could break up. you will have your tranquility back.
but that is not the path that will help you evolve here, as you have already experienced that tranquil reality.
to keep evolving, we need to push ourselves to grown.
how could you behave differently with your gf, so that you grow as a person?
are you actually communicating with her, and telling her how much the drama upsets you? not in an angry way, but in a sharing way.
if she does love you, she will listen.
if you do this, you will help her grow as a person too. she will become more cogniscent of when she creates drama.
look up non violent communication techniques as a way to communicate effectively.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742


Yes I tell her how I feel with as much calm as I can, but she just says that I have to be patient with her, that she's trying but she gets jealous because she loves me and that sometimes she pisses me off but she doesn't realize it. I don't buy that because I always tell her exactly when she is going the wrong way in a very calm way and ask her to stop and she totally gets agressive and continues. I think she can't control herself, when she desires the drama she will just create it no matter what. Next day she's smooth as silk but to me it it's a constant drainage of my energy.

And lately we see each other just twice a week at max, but when we tried living together a few years back, boy, that was atrocious.

Last Edited by Manu-K on 12/08/2012 10:55 PM
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men can't figure women out become women are much more complex biologically. women have a much more involved endocrine system, and release different hormones in different levels each week.
men have more of a seasonal cycle. women have a monthly cycle.
if you look at it like a sine wave, men are like the straight constant base line. women cycle up and down. for some women their amplitude is much greater than other women.
men just need to keep being that straight line of groundedness.
we women appreciate that. we think you are simple and oftentimes dumb. be you aren't as hormonal challenged and therefore are more grounded. that keeps us grounded. :)
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742


Yeah I have problems with that, my gf is always trying to find some shit to stir possibly cuz she gets bored and wants some drama, and I cant stand that shit, I am grounded as long as a girl get's things when I tell her to, but my gf is a total rebel. Im thinking of dumping her for this, I prefer to be alone that with someone who enjoys drama, and most women like some drama, if it's not there they create it. After they get to your nerves they just act as if nothing happened and everything is fine. Well it isnt.

That's why women like bad boys because they keep them on edge constantly ,even beat them a bit, I like peaceful living, not gratuitous troubles cuz i got nothing else going on in my life, i have things going on and i want my energy there, not on dumb shit.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren

This might be interesting for you to watch. Some people are addicted to certain emotional states. (Eg: women creating drama because it makes them feel more 'alive', or abused women going back to their abusers. It is an actual physical addiction to certain emotional states.)
The breath controls the body and the breath can control the emotional state of the body.


 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742


Yeah, totally. Maybe it's because I was never abused in any manner that I just enjoy so much calm and tranquility and pursuing my intellectual and musical objectives in life. My gf really loves me and she really dedicates to me, but her constant need to create drama out of nowhere really makes me want to boot her. The crazy thing is that after they get their fix of drama is like they apologize and act as if it was nothing, like they're so happy about what happened. They got their fix and they're content, but I am totally crushed.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


Is your girlfriend a Scorpio? My wife is, and does she have a stinger! My responses over the years have varied dramatically, but I finally settled on just ignoring her until she's done. That has seen the best results so far, but it depends on the reason, and yes there is a reason behind her explosion every time (its normally not the topic of her tirade), and I have to be in tune with that. Sometimes she really just want a tumble.
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Yeah I have problems with that, my gf is always trying to find some shit to stir possibly cuz she gets bored and wants some drama, and I cant stand that shit, I am grounded as long as a girl get's things when I tell her to, but my gf is a total rebel. Im thinking of dumping her for this, I prefer to be alone that with someone who enjoys drama, and most women like some drama, if it's not there they create it. After they get to your nerves they just act as if nothing happened and everything is fine. Well it isnt.

That's why women like bad boys because they keep them on edge constantly ,even beat them a bit, I like peaceful living, not gratuitous troubles cuz i got nothing else going on in my life, i have things going on and i want my energy there, not on dumb shit.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren

This might be interesting for you to watch. Some people are addicted to certain emotional states. (Eg: women creating drama because it makes them feel more 'alive', or abused women going back to their abusers. It is an actual physical addiction to certain emotional states.)
The breath controls the body and the breath can control the emotional state of the body.


 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742


Yeah, totally. Maybe it's because I was never abused in any manner that I just enjoy so much calm and tranquility and pursuing my intellectual and musical objectives in life. My gf really loves me and she really dedicates to me, but her constant need to create drama out of nowhere really makes me want to boot her. The crazy thing is that after they get their fix of drama is like they apologize and act as if it was nothing, like they're so happy about what happened. They got their fix and they're content, but I am totally crushed.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren

well, you have 2 course of action.
you could break up. you will have your tranquility back.
but that is not the path that will help you evolve here, as you have already experienced that tranquil reality.
to keep evolving, we need to push ourselves to grown.
how could you behave differently with your gf, so that you grow as a person?
are you actually communicating with her, and telling her how much the drama upsets you? not in an angry way, but in a sharing way.
if she does love you, she will listen.
if you do this, you will help her grow as a person too. she will become more cogniscent of when she creates drama.
look up non violent communication techniques as a way to communicate effectively.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742


Can't agree with this advice, sorry. Some women really ARE addicted to drama, so she cannot (or will not) change or give up the drama.

I think these women think if they "invent" drama, and their guy jumps in to "save" them, it proves they love them, but it doesn't.....it's just a guy trying to fix the situation. that's what guys do! So the girl thinks the guy loves her cause he wants to fix the drama, the guy thinks he's helping, but really, he's just contuing the cycle of drama....and then he doesn't like it, but doesn't know how to stop it.

Here's how to stop it: DON'T DATE WOMEN WHO NEED DRAMA IN THEIR LIFE ALL THE TIME!!

How to tell they like drama: Do they love to watch those stupid reality shows, like "Desperate Housewives," or "Big Brother" or any daytime Soap Operas? THOSE are all FILLED with crap stories about full-time drama. So it gives those unstable women ideas about how they want drama in their own lives.

GET AWAY FROM THESE TYPE OF WOMEN!

Hope this helps.
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Fine where can I meet a GLP type of girl|??
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This might be interesting for you to watch. Some people are addicted to certain emotional states. (Eg: women creating drama because it makes them feel more 'alive', or abused women going back to their abusers. It is an actual physical addiction to certain emotional states.)
The breath controls the body and the breath can control the emotional state of the body.


 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742


Yeah, totally. Maybe it's because I was never abused in any manner that I just enjoy so much calm and tranquility and pursuing my intellectual and musical objectives in life. My gf really loves me and she really dedicates to me, but her constant need to create drama out of nowhere really makes me want to boot her. The crazy thing is that after they get their fix of drama is like they apologize and act as if it was nothing, like they're so happy about what happened. They got their fix and they're content, but I am totally crushed.
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren

well, you have 2 course of action.
you could break up. you will have your tranquility back.
but that is not the path that will help you evolve here, as you have already experienced that tranquil reality.
to keep evolving, we need to push ourselves to grown.
how could you behave differently with your gf, so that you grow as a person?
are you actually communicating with her, and telling her how much the drama upsets you? not in an angry way, but in a sharing way.
if she does love you, she will listen.
if you do this, you will help her grow as a person too. she will become more cogniscent of when she creates drama.
look up non violent communication techniques as a way to communicate effectively.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742


Can't agree with this advice, sorry. Some women really ARE addicted to drama, so she cannot (or will not) change or give up the drama.

I think these women think if they "invent" drama, and their guy jumps in to "save" them, it proves they love them, but it doesn't.....it's just a guy trying to fix the situation. that's what guys do! So the girl thinks the guy loves her cause he wants to fix the drama, the guy thinks he's helping, but really, he's just contuing the cycle of drama....and then he doesn't like it, but doesn't know how to stop it.

Here's how to stop it: DON'T DATE WOMEN WHO NEED DRAMA IN THEIR LIFE ALL THE TIME!!

How to tell they like drama: Do they love to watch those stupid reality shows, like "Desperate Housewives," or "Big Brother" or any daytime Soap Operas? THOSE are all FILLED with crap stories about full-time drama. So it gives those unstable women ideas about how they want drama in their own lives.

GET AWAY FROM THESE TYPE OF WOMEN!

Hope this helps.
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Now that's good advice right there, and I totally agree. I have tried dumping my Gf but she basically doesn't let me dump her. I would have to basically dissappear overnight so that she would leave me alone. And it doesn't help either that I really have feelings for her and enjoy her good side so she knows how to manipulate me into going back with her everytime I come to the conclusion I need to stop the relationship.

It just sucks basically.

But yeah the soap opera/reality show point is SO spot on.
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Are there women who are not either addicted to creating drama, have some child abuse issue that give them weird emotional imbalances, or are basically manipulative bitches who wish abuse you economically? Do they exist?
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well, if you have already tried the communication route and she is not able to evolve with you. then you need to be brave and honour yourself by ending the relationship. if you are clear in yourself, clear in your communication, then she can't manipulate you. you need to be strong and honour/love yourself.
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There is one thing that all women love above all other things and apparently they themselves are not even aware of it. They love to complain!! Give a woman something to complain about and she will love you for it. Make sure to give her those little reasons to feel as if you need her.

She wants to help you change
She wants to make you whole

All of this has to do with her maternal instinct and takes place at a subconscious level.

Find out what her pet peeves are and start off easy at first maybe pissing her off once a week. Or something like this.......Good Luck and remember,..U Da Man!!



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well, if you have already tried the communication route and she is not able to evolve with you. then you need to be brave and honour yourself by ending the relationship. if you are clear in yourself, clear in your communication, then she can't manipulate you. you need to be strong and honour/love yourself.
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I've tried many times but I've come to the conclusion I can't get rid of that little demon. Maybe the universe has assigned her to me as I didn't want to have any children....
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THERE WAS A COMMERCIAL A FEW
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YEARS BACK THAT STATED THAT THE QUESTION 'WHAT DOES A WOMAN WANT?' WAS A TRUE "IMPONDERABLE"


IT WAS A CELL PHONE COMMERCIAL I THINK, BUT
IT REALLY HITS HOME

FOR ANYONE WHO SERIOUSLY ASKS THE QUESTION
MALE OR FEMALE
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Fine where can I meet a GLP type of girl|??
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There is one thing that all women love above all other things and apparently they themselves are not even aware of it. They love to complain!! Give a woman something to complain about and she will love you for it. Make sure to give her those little reasons to feel as if you need her.

She wants to help you change
She wants to make you whole

All of this has to do with her maternal instinct and takes place at a subconscious level.

Find out what her pet peeves are and start off easy at first maybe pissing her off once a week. Or something like this.......Good Luck and remember,..U Da Man!!



banana2
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It seems true! hf
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Drama = seeking attention

See, we women know when our man is not paying attention. It may be innocuous, but WE know. That doesn't mean that we are attention whores, it just means a re-direction for the man to what's important to his woman...which is security. Simple, yes?
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Are there women who are not either addicted to creating drama, have some child abuse issue that give them weird emotional imbalances, or are basically manipulative bitches who wish abuse you economically? Do they exist?
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yes of course, i am one.
but i am also super independant. lol
and i am very happy being alone. i love men and like being in relationships. but it would have to be super for me to give up my tranquil life.
go you meditation centres or yoga studios etc. at least at these places, both men and women are trying to cultivate balance in their lives. and the female to male ratio is like 10:1.
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well, if you have already tried the communication route and she is not able to evolve with you. then you need to be brave and honour yourself by ending the relationship. if you are clear in yourself, clear in your communication, then she can't manipulate you. you need to be strong and honour/love yourself.
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I've tried many times but I've come to the conclusion I can't get rid of that little demon. Maybe the universe has assigned her to me as I didn't want to have any children....
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start visualizing your life without her. visualize yourself alone, or with someone else, or perhaps in a new city. once you start to believe it subconsciously, more and more you will start to expect it to happen in physical reality.

at a very subconscious level, there must be something that you are getting out of her drama. otherwise, you would be gone.
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Are there women who are not either addicted to creating drama, have some child abuse issue that give them weird emotional imbalances, or are basically manipulative bitches who wish abuse you economically? Do they exist?
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yes of course, i am one.
but i am also super independant. lol
and i am very happy being alone. i love men and like being in relationships. but it would have to be super for me to give up my tranquil life.
go you meditation centres or yoga studios etc. at least at these places, both men and women are trying to cultivate balance in their lives. and the female to male ratio is like 10:1.
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I had another gf for many years we had a sort of long distance friendship and when we would meet we would also have sex. ANd she was that kind of chick, much more evolved than me, spiritual did yoga, no issues at all, wasnt abused as a child (finally one!)great chick all around. But long distance and the fact she liked to travel a lot made it impossible for us. I don't know if we could have a had a relationship though cuz we're both really independent, I just don't like to travel around so much.

Anyway if I would end my relationship with my current gf i don't think I 'd look for a relationship at all.
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well, if you have already tried the communication route and she is not able to evolve with you. then you need to be brave and honour yourself by ending the relationship. if you are clear in yourself, clear in your communication, then she can't manipulate you. you need to be strong and honour/love yourself.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742


I've tried many times but I've come to the conclusion I can't get rid of that little demon. Maybe the universe has assigned her to me as I didn't want to have any children....
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


start visualizing your life without her. visualize yourself alone, or with someone else, or perhaps in a new city. once you start to believe it subconsciously, more and more you will start to expect it to happen in physical reality.

at a very subconscious level, there must be something that you are getting out of her drama. otherwise, you would be gone.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 26372742


Not of her drama but she is very loving and caring most of the times and when she begs me to not leave her I usually end up giving up to her requests. I guess if she didn't have those outbursts it would be too perfect to be real. You can't expect perfect shit in this fucked up world i guess.
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Honesty, loyalty, depth, strength, intelligence, cleanliness.
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"As Above, So Below"

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I will tell you what they DONT want, guys who ask them what they want.
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Yep, men are supposed to sacrifice their life so that we can spend 24 hours a day learning (from other sources of course) what women want, and how to give it to them.

We need to stop having fun with our mates, ourselves, and concentrate on her every need.

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Seriously dude, live your life, otherwise you will be someone's bitch, and not in a good way.
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Honesty, loyalty, depth, strength, intelligence, cleanliness.
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And if a man had that, would you pursue him, or still expect him to do all the chasing?
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Honesty, loyalty, depth, strength, intelligence, cleanliness.
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What about looks??
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Honesty, loyalty, depth, strength, intelligence, cleanliness.
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And if a man had that, would you pursue him, or still expect him to do all the chasing?
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If a woman pursued a man like that, he would not respect her. Just sayin'
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12/08/2012 11:28 PM
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Re: what do women really want? Women Only
honestly every woman is different.
think about what you have to offer and try to match it to a woman who finds that thing your offer a priority.
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12/08/2012 11:31 PM
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Are there women who are not either addicted to creating drama, have some child abuse issue that give them weird emotional imbalances, or are basically manipulative bitches who wish abuse you economically? Do they exist?
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


Of course! You are just stuck in your own drama!!!!!
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12/08/2012 11:32 PM
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Re: what do women really want? Women Only
In general, money, dick and more money. However, they will settle for money, money and money though.

Some will argue and say they want more noble things and that women aren't materialistic, but if that were true, 50 Shades Of Gray wouldn't be so popular.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27317240


Perhaps you are correct....mostly.

I think that is because a woman rarely meets her true soul mate. So then she is looking in all the wrong places to fill the void. Men as well.

In my previous marraige, I was miserable and convinced that if only my husband would do this, or that, it would be all better. It did not end well and it wasn't until I met my "now" husband that I understood the way things could be.

My husband and I are a perfect match in every way. Sexually (tons of it all the time), spiritually, physically (as in fit and able to survive)

The best thing I've ever heard on the subject came from the movie "As Good As It Gets" with Jack Nicholas and Helen Hunt. He was an obsessive compulsive who fell in love with her (as best as an OCB can) Here os the quote....

"You make me want to be a better man."

Best description of a true love if I ever heard one!

In my case, my husband makes me want to be a better woman. I want him to be proud of me and I want his friends to be jealous of him. I want all my friends to know what I have too. It's amazing and I can highly recommend waiting till the right one comes along. If he/she doesn't show keep looking!

It's well worth the wait...

hf
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12/08/2012 11:33 PM
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Re: what do women really want? Women Only
Honesty, loyalty, depth, strength, intelligence, cleanliness.
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


And if a man had that, would you pursue him, or still expect him to do all the chasing?
 Quoting: Down Under Wonder 29257489



Sure...as much as I am able to. My life is pretty busy so relationships aren't top priority to me, but I would have no problem pursuing someone if I had the time.
"Imagine no possessions"

"As Above, So Below"

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12/08/2012 11:34 PM
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Re: what do women really want? Women Only
Honesty, loyalty, depth, strength, intelligence, cleanliness.
 Quoting: IndigoSerenity76


What about looks??
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren



Not terribly important. I have to be able to look at him, but if his personality is compatible with mine, he will be attractive to me.
"Imagine no possessions"

"As Above, So Below"

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Rach
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Are there women who are not either addicted to creating drama, have some child abuse issue that give them weird emotional imbalances, or are basically manipulative bitches who wish abuse you economically? Do they exist?
 Quoting: Manu-Koelbren


Of course! You are just stuck in your own drama!!!!!
 Quoting: Sloane


I have my own dramas but IRL I don't burden other people with them. In here I discuss things because it opens up topics to debate and i know people come here for that, but IRL I dont like to burden anyone with my shit, but most people are all into that.
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