Why aren't women allowed to pursue men yet? It is 2012 already!

thanks.
im sitting here following the thread still thinking know one knows what to do.

Who said they aren't "allowed"? I'm in college and I see this alot, at parties or whatever, girls will just wait for you to talk to them. The other week this girl kept inching closer and closer to me on the bench waiting for me to talk to her. They will play little mind games and beat around the bush. I cant stand that shit, if they are playing games at first sight imagine how they will be in a relationship! I need a girl who knows what she wants and has no fear or nonsense cultural conditioning, if you want something go and get it. I feel that this will change somewhat in these upcoming years though with the raising consciousness levels of the planet.

Agreed 100%

When I was in my twenties while in the military women would pursue me on a fairly regular basis. I was super ripped, and wouldn't you know it, hot women love that sort of thing. That's how I met my ex-wife, she came on to me.

Of course years later, after a divorce, getting layed of and unemployed for over a year, I got out of shape. Although I still look quite young (most people think I'm in my mid twenties still), attractive women wouldn't give me the time of day.

Today though, after being gainfully employed in a heavy labor type job and working out on pretty much a daily basis, I've gotten back in shape. And guess what... once again attractive women are showing interest.

Hell, I'm pushing forty now and getting hit on by college girls.

Isn't that odd how that works?

Because you chose stupidly, you are now bitter.
Bad choice fouled up your life, so now you blame all women for your lustful, immature rush into sex. Bad choices have bad consequences.

Yeah, These bitter guys were born "3s" but thought they deserved "tens".

Hey: You shoulda gone for another three and had a good attitude about it. then ya never woulda gotten bitter. And, yeah, she's gonna be chubby and prolly stupid like you.

Not a 10, not an 8, not a 5 or a six, Stupid. ANOTHER THREE!

Men are sex driven, girls are romance/money driven !!
Each one always get the wrong idea !!

I never pursued any woman. It smacks of desperation.

If I was interested in a woman, I ignored the hell out of her.

That drives them up the wall; no eye contact, no sneak peeks at her walking away (they will look back to see if you are looking), no talking to them unless they approach you and speak, no asking her "friends" about her, etc.

It always worked. They simply can't stand to be ignored, no matter what they look like.

Really? Come visit America. I feel flattered when a woman flirts with me. I hardly think anything negative about it. It's a major compliment.

Women/girls are not so much money driven as they are security driven. Money is a type of security, but many times a female will go for the guy who has a competent, confident air about him just because he seems to project security.

Men are more driven by freedom, which sexual expression certainly ranks in this category. They are also ego driven as pertains to strength, be it of body or will or power, and base their opinions of their own strength on how others percieve, or apparently percieve, them. Detractors are avoided, appreciators are sought.

When pared down to this freedom/security dichotomy it makes the 'battle of the sexes' much more understandable. Of course, there are a myriad of points along the spectrum of character where we find the anima/animus shared to one extent or another.