Need some advice, serious answers only

Don'tknow if I can give you advice, but I read your OP and felt the sincerety and the care in it...
I can share how I see this and what is coming down, not that I have any exact knowledge or clue how it's gonna be, but I'll share of my heart my ponderings and also my ponderings about your situation...
So remember to ponder and resonate for yourself, to find your truth...

For long we have been living in this dream-state world, in many ways illusive...
One of the great illusion is imbalance, that we as society and individuals can continue on a road that is so out of balance, not respecting our inner balance between spirit (our essence, our eternal part, connected with the One Life, Divine Source), the soul (mediator between spirit and matter, carrier of rememberence of lived lives, qualities) and the dense matter (physical animated existence)...
This inner imbalance reflects into the outher world too, creating a society where the deep and true aspects are not honored, and power, money are in focus, which gives a degrading touch to the world...
What is about to dawn (as I see it), is that we all get mirrored, get to see ourselves, the life we have lived, the choices we have made, from within the perspective of our eternal part, the spirit...
The spirit is all loving, yet it also sees all, as it is, with no cover-stories and no excuses...
That can be truly painfull, for those who have been caught in their ego on personel as well as soul levels...
Painfull, yet a great help, like a coming back to what makes sense from our deepest level...
So that we all have to face ourselves from our innermost level, unmirrored...
So I guess my point is, that your husband might just as well start now, open his heart truly, for what touches him the deepest, and go from there...
Be grateful for your love and what really matters...
Dive into embracing that honering and respecting that we are all connected, and touching that inside that is right from the deepest level...
It might be a painful and fearful process, yet it is something we will all be going through...
And when the process is initiated, the joy and satisfaction on the deepest level will give the strenght to carry on...
I wish for both you and your loved ones all the best, and hope any of this made sense...
Otherwise I know something else will...

Lots of love to you


PS made this thread the other day, perhaps it would be usefull for you, but again remember always feel if its true for you, inside out...

Thread: Ponderings about waking up and relations...

if he doesn't tell you the truth, dump him.

If I were you I would find out exactly what happened. You are his wife and have a right to know.

Secondly, you'd better find out for your own sake. Two weeks after we married my husband did something and I was charged because I own the property and am responsible for what happens on it. I could have gone to jail for 2 years! Though he admitted to doing it, I still got charged and he off Scott free. It took 3 years to settle everything and more to divorce him.

Then there's someone I knew who made bad investments, tried to cover it up, then killed himself.

Find out NOW what's up and get yourself a lawyer NOW.