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| anon User ID: 23231420  United States12/09/2012 10:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28867210 United States12/09/2012 10:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Is it ok for me to go to the movies with this girl that used to like me? I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 and a half years... Quoting: anon 23231420 about a year ago my friend trish started hitting on me. I told her I just want to be friends because I love my girlfriend. And she (trish) is coming to town and wanted to catch a movie (mind you), that she is in town for a conference. So does my girlfriend have a right to be mad at me for going to the movie with this girl? It was a year ago, that she hit on me. I need friends in my life and don't get out that often so I went to the movie with her... Nothing happened. But was I wrong? would you be mad at your boyfriend or break up with him over this? I feel like shes over reacting but if you were dating me, what would you have expected... If you are not married, you can do whatever you want. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29495228  Australia12/09/2012 10:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Is it ok for me to go to the movies with this girl that used to like me? I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 and a half years... Quoting: anon 23231420 about a year ago my friend trish started hitting on me. I told her I just want to be friends because I love my girlfriend. And she (trish) is coming to town and wanted to catch a movie (mind you), that she is in town for a conference. So does my girlfriend have a right to be mad at me for going to the movie with this girl? It was a year ago, that she hit on me. I need friends in my life and don't get out that often so I went to the movie with her... Nothing happened. But was I wrong? would you be mad at your boyfriend or break up with him over this? I feel like shes over reacting but if you were dating me, what would you have expected... yes you were wrong...why didn't you take your girlfriend with you? |
| CeeLite User ID: 1482671 United States12/09/2012 10:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1707881 United States12/09/2012 10:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Man if you love your GF don't do it...what if this snowballed out of control, you get into a huge fight, she wants to "temporarily" break up..during you're one week "break" some dude hits on her at the bar, he makes her feel good and she's a pretty drunk so she agrees to just "hang" with him and his friends at his apartment...and then she has a few more drinks does something she NEVER thought she would do...next thing you know she's pregnant with a kid that isnt yours and.....okay I'm just thinking of the worst case scenerio which you should always consider! |
Dr. Acula Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 17960 United States12/09/2012 10:47 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | if you go to the movies with Trish... your girl will be sucking someone's elses cock within 12 hours... is that what you want? you want another man with his hands on/in your girl? is that what you want?! you fucktard... stay with the girl you "love" Last Edited by Dr. Acula on 12/09/2012 10:49 PM _______________________  |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 20566260 United States12/09/2012 10:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29462072 Australia12/09/2012 10:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Is it ok for me to go to the movies with this girl that used to like me? I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 and a half years... Quoting: anon 23231420 about a year ago my friend trish started hitting on me. I told her I just want to be friends because I love my girlfriend. And she (trish) is coming to town and wanted to catch a movie (mind you), that she is in town for a conference. So does my girlfriend have a right to be mad at me for going to the movie with this girl? It was a year ago, that she hit on me. I need friends in my life and don't get out that often so I went to the movie with her... Nothing happened. But was I wrong? would you be mad at your boyfriend or break up with him over this? I feel like shes over reacting but if you were dating me, what would you have expected... i dont really know the full story, does your gf know about this Trish hitting on you?have you and Trish stayed in touch as friends and has your gf known youve stayed in touch as friends? If youve been above board the whole time have communicated with this Trish been honest with her that you have a gf AND been honest with your GF about what went on with Trish but kept your friendship out in the open and told her everything-id say yes its fine to go-but your GF goes too so they can meet and your GF doesnt have to spin. If you havent been honest with your GF about everything or if your trying to see someone even half sneakily by not telling her the whole story-damn right she has every right to be mad-for more reasons than one. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1707881 United States12/09/2012 10:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 23231420 United States12/09/2012 10:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you have to ask, then you already know its not right. You are looking for permission from GLP to relieve you of the guilt you feel. Quoting: Jervis and V-Honey I just dont know if she has a right to be mad at me for going, and wanted to see what some other women or even men would do if their significant other went to a movie with someone that used to hit on them... (a year ago). |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29462072 Australia12/09/2012 10:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Dr. Acula Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 17960 United States12/09/2012 10:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | oh well good job  did she give you a great big kiss afterwards? thats wasnt saliva she left on your tongue  loser Last Edited by Dr. Acula on 12/09/2012 10:51 PM _______________________ |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29462072 Australia12/09/2012 10:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you have to ask, then you already know its not right. You are looking for permission from GLP to relieve you of the guilt you feel. Quoting: Jervis and V-Honey I just dont know if she has a right to be mad at me for going, and wanted to see what some other women or even men would do if their significant other went to a movie with someone that used to hit on them... (a year ago). its probably how you went about it more than the fact you did it.duh. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 23231420 United States12/09/2012 10:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28867210 United States12/09/2012 10:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Obviously OP is not in love with his girlfriend. If OP really cared about her, he would know that this would upset her. OP is not married, so perhaps this is his stealth way of getting her to walk away so he doesn't have to break up with her. the victim game. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 27665747 United States12/09/2012 10:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 23231420 United States12/09/2012 10:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you have to ask, then you already know its not right. You are looking for permission from GLP to relieve you of the guilt you feel. Quoting: Jervis and V-Honey I just dont know if she has a right to be mad at me for going, and wanted to see what some other women or even men would do if their significant other went to a movie with someone that used to hit on them... (a year ago). its probably how you went about it more than the fact you did it.duh. I told her in advance. She kept calling me, before telling me that trish is a bitch, and it got frustrating so I hung up on her:/ |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29462072 Australia12/09/2012 10:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29462072 Australia12/09/2012 10:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you have to ask, then you already know its not right. You are looking for permission from GLP to relieve you of the guilt you feel. Quoting: Jervis and V-Honey I just dont know if she has a right to be mad at me for going, and wanted to see what some other women or even men would do if their significant other went to a movie with someone that used to hit on them... (a year ago). its probably how you went about it more than the fact you did it.duh. I told her in advance. She kept calling me, before telling me that trish is a bitch, and it got frustrating so I hung up on her:/ you mean you sprung it on her then was a prick when she got upset? yeah howd that work out? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29462072 Australia12/09/2012 10:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Is it ok for me to go to the movies with this girl that used to like me? I have been dating my girlfriend for 2 and a half years... Quoting: anon 23231420 about a year ago my friend trish started hitting on me. I told her I just want to be friends because I love my girlfriend. And she (trish) is coming to town and wanted to catch a movie (mind you), that she is in town for a conference. So does my girlfriend have a right to be mad at me for going to the movie with this girl? It was a year ago, that she hit on me. I need friends in my life and don't get out that often so I went to the movie with her... Nothing happened. But was I wrong? would you be mad at your boyfriend or break up with him over this? I feel like shes over reacting but if you were dating me, what would you have expected... i dont really know the full story, does your gf know about this Trish hitting on you?have you and Trish stayed in touch as friends and has your gf known youve stayed in touch as friends? If youve been above board the whole time have communicated with this Trish been honest with her that you have a gf AND been honest with your GF about what went on with Trish but kept your friendship out in the open and told her everything-id say yes its fine to go-but your GF goes too so they can meet and your GF doesnt have to spin. If you havent been honest with your GF about everything or if your trying to see someone even half sneakily by not telling her the whole story-damn right she has every right to be mad-for more reasons than one. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 23231420 United States12/09/2012 10:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28867210 United States12/09/2012 10:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you have to ask, then you already know its not right. You are looking for permission from GLP to relieve you of the guilt you feel. Quoting: Jervis and V-Honey I just dont know if she has a right to be mad at me for going, and wanted to see what some other women or even men would do if their significant other went to a movie with someone that used to hit on them... (a year ago). technically she has 'no right' to be mad. but you pretty much ruined any future with her. women are divisive in their paybacks. and crafty. she may not walk out right away, as most women usually have a guy lined up before they dump the boyfriend. Hope your friend is someone you'd want to see again, cuz it sounds like you will be kissing your gf away soon... |
| Dr. Acula Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 17960 United States12/09/2012 10:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | oh well good job did she give you a great big kiss afterwards? thats wasnt saliva she left on your tongue loser no I just wanted to hang out with a friend. But now my girlfriend is mad at me... welcome to the adult world... you dont do that shit when in the adult world... I have LOTS of female friends... God I love the females... I would rather hang out with females over males any day... but im married... i dont take my female friends and go ALONE to the movies... if I am hanging out with a female that Im not married to... my wife is near... its just fucking common sense... why would i want to hurt my wife? Last Edited by Dr. Acula on 12/09/2012 10:57 PM _______________________ |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 23231420 United States12/09/2012 10:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23231420 I just dont know if she has a right to be mad at me for going, and wanted to see what some other women or even men would do if their significant other went to a movie with someone that used to hit on them... (a year ago). its probably how you went about it more than the fact you did it.duh. I told her in advance. She kept calling me, before telling me that trish is a bitch, and it got frustrating so I hung up on her:/ you mean you sprung it on her then was a prick when she got upset? yeah howd that work out? I really don't know how she feels, but I think she might be considering leaving me... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 29462072 Australia12/09/2012 10:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29462072 its probably how you went about it more than the fact you did it.duh. I told her in advance. She kept calling me, before telling me that trish is a bitch, and it got frustrating so I hung up on her:/ you mean you sprung it on her then was a prick when she got upset? yeah howd that work out? I really don't know how she feels, but I think she might be considering leaving me... yeah id leave you too.good for her if she does. |
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