dating question for men / women welcome advice

Sorry to be tough on you OP

You are prolly a cool dude

But you fucked up bro...

Trish is prolly laughing like a hysterical whore at this moment... she prolly does that shit just break people up

SO this is really bad then:(

That made sense in a bad way...

any more opinions from anyone are welcome...

ok reverse it-and be honest-
mr hot guy from her past is in town and she just TELlS you shes going to the movies with him-alone- when you get upset and confused she hangs up on you and goes out with him anyway.

hows it feel?what would be going through your head?
truthfully?

yes, I would stay. I would stay until I found someone better to leave him for. And when I did leave, I would make sure he knew that he ended the relationship when he said yes to another invitation (advance) by a woman who once liked him.

I would also be sure to spend lots of his money and bang his best friend before I dumped him.

YA DUN GOOFED!

I dont know what else to say. I do alot for my gf, don't I deserve to have friends? I mean I get stressed out too...

You went out with someone that tried to jump your bones lasr year. Im sure your girlfriend feels really comfortable with that. What was the movie lol. I would have been pissed at you, probably dumped your ass. Hope it was a good flick

the life of pi

that's what bromances are for, bro. you go to the movies with guys friends. and then you get a beer and then you get home at a reasonable time.

I just dont have many friends actually... they all went to college and joined the army...

it was a good movie to be honest

If you need friends around you why not guys/men? Why would you be so stupid to put yourself in this situation? If I were in this situation, I wouldnt even have contact with someone that tried hitting on me shit is only going to give you more shit. Tell your gf you're sorry and tell her you came to your senses AND that you were wrong!

well you're gonna be single if you don't make a choice.

Once you are in a committed relationship, attending any event with a woman who is not your significant other is like sayin you don't care about that person. You may have no bad intentions, but you need to decide whose feelings are more important, the girlfriend or the friend.

keep in mind, women love to fuck other women's shit up like this...

i would like as many opinions as possible...


i dont feel like what i did was wrong

I think really might do this soon... if she leaves me over this I will literally be alone...

It was not wrong. you are not married, so you have no strings, but what you did made it clear to her how you really feel about her and your future together. perhaps you do not even understand that.

like I said earlier, she'll probably stay, but believe me, she will start looking. she'll take her time, no doubt, as good men are hard to find, but she has been betrayed. you have no idea how the female mind operates, do you?

So I get the consensus that you all agre,e she should be literally irate with me... Right...?

whadda about that bitch Trish?

JUST SAY NO!!!!!!!!!!

if she asked around about trish to my friends is that her betraying me; ? She did this after I went to the movies which was embaressing because my friends blew it out of proportion.

were just friends

no thats her being smart

now you have go home and play your girlfriend.

no, she has no right to be irate, as you are not her husband. perhaps disappointed is how she should feel.

this is why it is so important to weigh the consequences of our actions FIRST before we act upon them. you can't undo the hurt she probably feels inside. And somewhere out there is a guy that would probably never do what you did because 'you need friends'.

Life is all about choices.

does anyone else feel this way?

no thats what she should do.I doubt she got the impression you were going to have her best interests at heart so shes looking out for herself in case besides doing what you did, you werent telling the whole truth either.Thats not betraying,dont try find something to blame her about when you caused the whole problem.

I am also really curious to know what she might be thinking right now...

what would you do if you were her...

would you still date me?