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Refused access to my son

 
Anonymous Coward
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12/10/2012 10:39 AM
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I have recently separated from my wife and she has my son. We have not yet commenced any divorce proceedings yet, we were planning on a quickie divorce to avoid crazy lawyers fees. However now she is refusing me access, claiming I only have a say once I pay child support......which i do pay. Not the £600 she wants on a monthly basis, but quite frankly that is half of what I clear on a monthly basis.

What can I do? No one has been granted custody and I do not want to involve social services or any such organization for fear of them just wanting to remove him from her care, but then also to not give him to me.

He is my life and I would not want to lose him for anything or anyone in the world
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If you walked away from your home,
her lawyer will get you for abandonment.

Lawyer up now, "HER" lawyer is going to eat you alive.
Ohh she's got one alright, believe it !!
Anonymous Coward
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12/10/2012 10:54 AM
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My ex tried this shit. I got a lawyer and told the judge to fuck off in court. Spent one day in jail for it. Then filed for a jury trial and won unanimously. Lawyers and judges are scum. Use a jury and the woman will not win automatically.

In Texas, a little know custody law. The children have to stay in the house they were raised in. If the woman leaves for any reason that is not a danger to the child, she has to go alone. You could see the shock on the judge and jury's face when we read this to the court.
Anonymous Coward
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12/10/2012 11:05 AM
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NEVER give up trying to be apart of your son's life. write him letters, talk to him by phone, if that's all you can do for now. this heartache comes with marriage breakup...no pretty way to dress it. keep asking advice from others. confide in a preacher or some trusted family or friend.as hard as it may be keep trying to show your ex love and respect. most of all HAVE PATIENCE and faith that things will workout. don't repay evil with evil.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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12/10/2012 12:30 PM
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HAHA.

You are fucked, dumbass.

You should have thought about these things before you GOT FUCKING MARRIED.

I am not even christian! But I DO BELIEVE that MARRIAGE is a SACRED FUCKING VOW.

You broke the vow. You lose the kid.

In reality you should not have had a child with a woman you did not intend to stay with.

You fucked up.

Now you get to live with it.

No easy solutions.

Think about your choices in the future, dipshit
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24567823


WHAT A TWAT.......i believe it is a sacred vow and have lived by that. I did not ask for the divorce........I did not have an affair, I have lifted a hand to her or done anything which I would regret. So get your facts straight before responding like a dickhead
Fred
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12/10/2012 12:52 PM
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If mediation is possible that may make the most sense.

Lawyers will suck both of you dry if you go that way. I've seen millionaires lose everything that way. If your not so rich, the leaches will let go earlier since you won't be able to pay them. But you'll still be broke and in debt to them.
lightchild_uk

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12/10/2012 12:59 PM
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OP you really need to speak to a solicitor dealing with family law ASAP. Most offer a free advise / consultation session.

Try and see one this week as they are mega busy after Christmas!

You can get a court ruling which covers you for child support and access. As a VERY rough guide for one child it is about 15% of your take home pay.
You should be able to have equal access to your child.

If your wife gets very nasty call the police.
It will be best if you are whiter than white.
Keep a diary of everything that happens and is said.
Maybe worth you phoning your sons school / care provider and explaining the situation to them.

You also need to think about any joint debts you may have.

I hope everything works out for you and your son.

hf
AxE

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12/10/2012 01:21 PM

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I can't stress this enough... Get a Lawyer now. If she keeps your child away from you and you allow it to happen the divorce judge can look at you and see that you have had no contact and that can be used against you. I'm serious!
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