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Are wives/girls leaving their husbands/boyfriends in droves right now?

 
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I left my husband but I did love him and still do. He became unbearable to live and I was so stressed my period was out of whack and I got chronic stomach cramps and diarrhea.
After I left it all stopped and I'm so happy and in tune with nature that I get my period on the full moon every month without fail.
I've never been more content in my life and know I did the right thing.
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In what ways did he become unbearable, if I may ask?
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Good lord. With all the woman/marriage bashing I've seen lately, I gotta ask, what kind of people are you hanging out with, and/or meeting?!

Maybe I'm just lucky, but I'm happily married. All of our friends are happily married. Not one changed relationship status in all my Facebook friends.

We're 32 so maybe we're too old for silly drama some people bring on themselves.
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Good lord. With all the woman/marriage bashing I've seen lately, I gotta ask, what kind of people are you hanging out with, and/or meeting?!

Maybe I'm just lucky, but I'm happily married. All of our friends are happily married. Not one changed relationship status in all my Facebook friends.

We're 32 so maybe we're too old for silly drama some people bring on themselves.
hf
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You're still young sprouts! You're off to a great start though! I think you're the first one in this thread to take a look from crow's nest and say everything's clear.
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Not around here. My friends encourage each other to work through the differences, especially if children are involved. If it's a violent situation, the opposite is true.
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Good for you.

I have seen so many "friends" talk their friends out of a wonderful life.

Few understand this is it, this moment, gone now, here again life, gone. Most when they meet and habitat with another are drawn in some manor, some need some desire, yet they let the little things build up somehow and get in the way, they forget.

If people had more friends to remind them of that time, that spark, that thing they told them about this person in the first place, if they had more friends less willing to hear only the bad stuff.

More partners less willing to go to friends and only speak when it is bad, and never tell others of the beauty, the joy they experience.

Women, perhaps men (I dont) seem to work on this level, running to friends when the going gets tough, looking for the friend they left sitting alone, who most likely would ultimately like to know if there were a problem that could be remedied.

If they somehow would not let "life" get in the way, and continue to connect as they once did.
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that is fucked up. people should want the best for their friends.
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If you are with somebody and all their friends are single these days, watch out. If they go for a "guy's night out" or "girl's night out" with their single friends, the entire purpose of it is to pick up on the opposite sex. Flirt with them, dance with them, and who knows whatever may happen when you start piling copious amounts of alcohol on the picture. The single friends these days almost always want to get their one friend "stuck in a relationship" back out to the party scene with them and will help to sabotage the relationship psychologically and physically.

People should also deal with their relationship problems only with each because as soon as one of them betrays the confidence of their partner and their relationship to someone else it's bound for trouble. Only if there is abuse or some such going on should you go outside for help. If people go to their friends just to indulge themselves in complaining about their mate it only creates something ugly.
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Finally, finally, sanity comes.
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It's always sad to me to hear of long-term couples breaking up. After 18 years together I would like to think that nothing could separate me and my wife, but there are plenty of examples of divorce after 20, 30 or even 40 years together.

For my part I have always been and continue to be completely faithful and I believe the same is true of her as well. I'd like to think neither of us would ever change this arrangement, but the Internet is full of threads like this which is depressing. I'm pretty sure if I ever did break up with her I would not seek another relationship. I am lucky to have her and I doubt a person gets such luck more than once per lifetime.
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I did not actually intend for this topic to turn into a male/female bashing fest. I titled it the way I did because of my personal observance of a river of women leaving men that I have seen, but there could be as many men leaving women. I believe abuse and betrayal are sufficient deal-breakers for a relationship. A lot of times people leave others for no particular reason, and this is what I've been seeing a lot of lately. People being driven apart inexplicably, usually preceded by a period of confusion and erratic behavior. I have noticed as I said this especially in regards to women leaving men in the last month or two, and when I combined it with the thread about all the strange menstruation abnormalities, mood changes, etc. If people have been noticing an unusual amount of men leaving women at this time as well that is very significant to note as well.

Animals are famed for freaking out before storms and earthquakes and such. Nobody has ever really figured out why particularly.

Perhaps human behaviors is freaking out ahead of something big as well, or perhaps just the fear of something big.
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Ive weathered plenty of storms in my marriage and the last one (a few years ago) was shocking for me because of the extent of the lie that he kept and I had no clue. I decided that since he came to me and confessed, I owed it to him to give him another chance. Looking back I wish he never told me, but the guilt was killing him and making him crazy. I still love him dearly, but I am still broken in some ways over what went down. Its affected my ability to trust people, mainly because I had trust issues to begin with due to my upbringing.

At my age, I do not want to be single, the thought is just so depressing. I went through a terrible few months of self hate because I also felt responsible on some level and he kinda alluded that in some ways he felt neglected. I never once thought about leaving him because for one thing I love him and secondly, the people in this world are a fucking mess. And I sure has heck would not want to meet anyone new if I became single.

Thankfully this past year things have really gotten a lot better and my mind is slowly healing from the constant despair I once felt. He has literally been the best husband I could ever ask for. My biggest fear was that he would abandon me and I'd be all alone and perhaps it still is, but when you are this in love, you can;t help but feel this when you worry about something falling apart. It was the worst thing to go through, but we got through those dark nights. I know we'll have challenges again some day, but I have faith we can work through it.

hf
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It's always sad to me to hear of long-term couples breaking up. After 18 years together I would like to think that nothing could separate me and my wife, but there are plenty of examples of divorce after 20, 30 or even 40 years together.

For my part I have always been and continue to be completely faithful and I believe the same is true of her as well. I'd like to think neither of us would ever change this arrangement, but the Internet is full of threads like this which is depressing. I'm pretty sure if I ever did break up with her I would not seek another relationship. I am lucky to have her and I doubt a person gets such luck more than once per lifetime.
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please let it be more than once, some of us are slightly socially inept (the short bus kids of social interactions)
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It's always sad to me to hear of long-term couples breaking up. After 18 years together I would like to think that nothing could separate me and my wife, but there are plenty of examples of divorce after 20, 30 or even 40 years together.

For my part I have always been and continue to be completely faithful and I believe the same is true of her as well. I'd like to think neither of us would ever change this arrangement, but the Internet is full of threads like this which is depressing. I'm pretty sure if I ever did break up with her I would not seek another relationship. I am lucky to have her and I doubt a person gets such luck more than once per lifetime.
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my gosh you sound like the male version of me... kudos to you, kind sir

hf

ps are you the guy whose wife was super pissed the other night? lol

I hope she is okay now, you sound like you are a wonderful husband, and she is lucky to have you. we all screw up now and then.

5a
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please let it be more than once, some of us are slightly socially inept (the short bus kids of social interactions)
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Best of luck to you...
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please let it be more than once, some of us are slightly socially inept (the short bus kids of social interactions)
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Best of luck to you...
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thanks! I need it more than ever these days it seems. (though I also don't believe in no win scenarios, so I am still hopeful to get her back.
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Is it normal for pre-holidays? Is it something else? What's going on? A week or two ago there was a thread about women's cycles going haywire/doubling up and now it seems people are being left/dumped like crazy. Is it musical chairs where the girls all run to some greener pasture, or earth changes, or all guys suddenly become unloveable or worthless at the same time? What's happening?
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Its related to 12/12/2012. Those who arent meant to be together will part. Those who are will rekindle relationships and stay together. Same goes for family members and friends.
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If you are with somebody and all their friends are single these days, watch out. If they go for a "guy's night out" or "girl's night out" with their single friends, the entire purpose of it is to pick up on the opposite sex. Flirt with them, dance with them, and who knows whatever may happen when you start piling copious amounts of alcohol on the picture. The single friends these days almost always want to get their one friend "stuck in a relationship" back out to the party scene with them and will help to sabotage the relationship psychologically and physically.

People should also deal with their relationship problems only with each because as soon as one of them betrays the confidence of their partner and their relationship to someone else it's bound for trouble. Only if there is abuse or some such going on should you go outside for help. If people go to their friends just to indulge themselves in complaining about their mate it only creates something ugly.
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its funny you mention this, whenever I go 'out with the girls', who are mostly divorced/never married, I always get some guy trying to talk with me, despite the fact that I am married and have a wedding band. Its like they don't care that you are already taken, some men are so bold, they will assume if you are out on the town and your man is not with you then you are fair game. And its not like my gf's are not super cute, cuz they are, yet I am always trying to escape that one guy that thinks I want to listen to his stories, no I am out with the girls, for real, not to pick up men, lol.
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Is it normal for pre-holidays? Is it something else? What's going on? A week or two ago there was a thread about women's cycles going haywire/doubling up and now it seems people are being left/dumped like crazy. Is it musical chairs where the girls all run to some greener pasture, or earth changes, or all guys suddenly become unloveable or worthless at the same time? What's happening?
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Its related to 12/12/2012. Those who arent meant to be together will part. Those who are will rekindle relationships and stay together. Same goes for family members and friends.
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this really made my day hfhfhfhf
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Just went through this recently and so did my kids mom. Crazy stuff happening to a lot of people :(
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Is it normal for pre-holidays? Is it something else? What's going on? A week or two ago there was a thread about women's cycles going haywire/doubling up and now it seems people are being left/dumped like crazy. Is it musical chairs where the girls all run to some greener pasture, or earth changes, or all guys suddenly become unloveable or worthless at the same time? What's happening?
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Have you seen all the dating sites pushed on tv ad campaigns like its the next best thing? Its like fuck your boyfriend or husband join online dating we can guarantee your perfect match(the juxtaposition being its like the dating site who the fuck is it aimed at? 95% OF THOSE WHO ARE SINGLE KNOW HOW TO PICK UP OR HOLD A RELATIONSHIP its only the other 5% who are painfully shy or just fucking incompetent at engaging socially so who the fuck are the ads targetting
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my husband and I were noticing the huge increase in all the dating ads, especially the 'christian dating sites' on TV. we were actually laughing because so many people bitch an moan about being married and all its drawbacks, yet dating site use is at an all time high. EVERYONE wants someone, that is clear, yet when they find someone they fuck it up.

I once had a friend who broke up with her boyfriend and then got back together with him only to find out he had joined a dating site. so then she could never really trust him that he was done with 'looking', in fact she found out he went on a couple of dates and the girl was on his facebook. Man, it must suck to be single and looking, its so depressing to think that even if you find someone on one of those places, how do you know they won't keep going back and looking for someone better than you? For me, meeting someone has always been about chemistry; like body language, voice and overall appearance. dating sites seem so vanilla and vacant.
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Thats what i mean loool this is one of my comspiracy hobby horses ie;'are we being split up'?communities are broken next its the family AND THE ABSOLUTE SINISTER ASPECT OF CHRISTOIAN DATING SITES JOINING IN Do these idiots not realise when families are finding it hard to rebuild or work on it for the kids they are actually encouraging the oipposite.God it makes my blood boil I mean yeah christian online dating they would be better spent espousing the bvirtues of the ONE they are supposed to represent not work for satan
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This is sadly why the Lord will have to spit them out of is mouth soon. They have totally lost it.
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I hear of a lot of guys in their 40s (mid life crisis thing) who are leaving their wives now, usually for someone half their age.
Some women just leaving their husbands and kids, but it seems the majority are guys who found a much younger girl who wants to be taken care of.
Also, seems like as soon as kids are out of school, most couples split. It's pandemic.
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Also, I am hearing that pornography is usually involved.
Nasty, destructive stuff.
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Yup and if you try to suggest stuff like porn is instrumetal in a huge way for the morale decline you get lambasted for 'not being with it' or 'it actually has decreased in countries where porn has been part of culture'(<oh yeah like holland which is in terminal decline.Its STIFF FKIN NIGHTMARE LADIES AND GENTELMEN the world in which is evolving.Oh and heres a good one this makes me chuckle the social and other human rights steering comittees who have the final word in a government advisory capacity suggesting such wise pieces opf shit like 'there is no eveidence that suggests violent graphic pc games dont affect kids@ gimme a break tv ads sellin a pc game ( a gangster dude shooting other gutter rats surrounded by whores glorified,eulogised) now tell me if this isnt a lesson to kids lokk sonny its cool to shoot and you get whores hangin round
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another great post.. you are spot on. video games are just as evil as p0rn, they are programming and highly addictive. and just take a look at any moran over 40 playing a video game ------> L * O * S * E *R

maybe my standards are a little high, but a guy over 40 who plays video games and is addicted to pr0n is completely useless. we just don't have enough data on all the erectile dysfunction that will be plaguing the youth as they start to age and realize the constant drool, zombie like staring and erectile problems are not going away.

5a
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Your attitude is exactly why women end up alone with only cats for comfort.
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Is it normal for pre-holidays? Is it something else? What's going on? A week or two ago there was a thread about women's cycles going haywire/doubling up and now it seems people are being left/dumped like crazy. Is it musical chairs where the girls all run to some greener pasture, or earth changes, or all guys suddenly become unloveable or worthless at the same time? What's happening?
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Its related to 12/12/2012. Those who arent meant to be together will part. Those who are will rekindle relationships and stay together. Same goes for family members and friends.
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this really made my day hfhfhfhf
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You and me both!
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interesting post, alot of sexism flying around from both sides but also some very interesting & genuine posts too flower

for me its been the opposite actually, just seen a bunch of single friends get into new relationships ,I was in fact surprised by so many all happening at once!

regarding the cycles, most people don't know but men have hormonal cycles as well, just not as visible so its quite possibly if something is effecting women it could effect men too!
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s related to 12/12/2012. Those who arent meant to be together will part. Those who are will rekindle relationships and stay together. Same goes for family members and friends.
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Did you mean Dec 21st? If not, what's special about 12-12-2012 besides lots of 2s?
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Also, I am hearing that pornography is usually involved.
Nasty, destructive stuff.
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Yup and if you try to suggest stuff like porn is instrumetal in a huge way for the morale decline you get lambasted for 'not being with it' or 'it actually has decreased in countries where porn has been part of culture'(<oh yeah like holland which is in terminal decline.Its STIFF FKIN NIGHTMARE LADIES AND GENTELMEN the world in which is evolving.Oh and heres a good one this makes me chuckle the social and other human rights steering comittees who have the final word in a government advisory capacity suggesting such wise pieces opf shit like 'there is no eveidence that suggests violent graphic pc games dont affect kids@ gimme a break tv ads sellin a pc game ( a gangster dude shooting other gutter rats surrounded by whores glorified,eulogised) now tell me if this isnt a lesson to kids lokk sonny its cool to shoot and you get whores hangin round
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another great post.. you are spot on. video games are just as evil as p0rn, they are programming and highly addictive. and just take a look at any moran over 40 playing a video game ------> L * O * S * E *R

maybe my standards are a little high, but a guy over 40 who plays video games and is addicted to pr0n is completely useless. we just don't have enough data on all the erectile dysfunction that will be plaguing the youth as they start to age and realize the constant drool, zombie like staring and erectile problems are not going away.

5a
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Your attitude is exactly why women end up alone with only cats for comfort.
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really, because my standards for a man include no mindless video games? if you are 15 and need entertainment a video game is acceptable.... over 40 and you have issues, it means you clearly do not have a challenging enough job or other more important things to focus on. Real men are not playing video games, they are off solving the world's problems and taking their wives out to dinner.

btw, i hate cats. i don't understand people that keep those.
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Good lord. With all the woman/marriage bashing I've seen lately, I gotta ask, what kind of people are you hanging out with, and/or meeting?!

Maybe I'm just lucky, but I'm happily married. All of our friends are happily married. Not one changed relationship status in all my Facebook friends.

We're 32 so maybe we're too old for silly drama some people bring on themselves.
hf
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You're still young sprouts! You're off to a great start though! I think you're the first one in this thread to take a look from crow's nest and say everything's clear.
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Hah, I certainly don't *feel* young!

I think there's a lot of interesting comments in this thread. As much as I've read about high divorce rates, and the general decline of our society in general, personally, I've seen a pretty big shift to more conservative, traditional families.

Of course, it could be a case of 'like begets like'. We are a very traditional conservative family, so it makes sense that our particular social circle is the same. All of our parties and get togethers are as couples or with the kids. A few times a year the girls will go get pedicures, or the guys go to a sporting event.

Maybe a lack of bad influences? I once heard a radio DJ say 'if your wife's best friend gets a divorce, you might as well draw up your own divorce papers, because girls need to slut it up in packs'. At the time I thought it was stupid, but seems like there's something to that!
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My friend's wife turned frigid after the birth of the children.

My first wife died young......perfect marriage.


Second marriage......she also frigid after having children. Very challenging marriage......her emotions vary by the hour.


Whatever.


My friend and I both refuse to leave our wives. It is very damaging to the children.
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Good lord. With all the woman/marriage bashing I've seen lately, I gotta ask, what kind of people are you hanging out with, and/or meeting?!

Maybe I'm just lucky, but I'm happily married. All of our friends are happily married. Not one changed relationship status in all my Facebook friends.

We're 32 so maybe we're too old for silly drama some people bring on themselves.
hf
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You're still young sprouts! You're off to a great start though! I think you're the first one in this thread to take a look from crow's nest and say everything's clear.
 Quoting: Therapy 20085731


Hah, I certainly don't *feel* young!

I think there's a lot of interesting comments in this thread. As much as I've read about high divorce rates, and the general decline of our society in general, personally, I've seen a pretty big shift to more conservative, traditional families.

Of course, it could be a case of 'like begets like'. We are a very traditional conservative family, so it makes sense that our particular social circle is the same. All of our parties and get togethers are as couples or with the kids. A few times a year the girls will go get pedicures, or the guys go to a sporting event.

Maybe a lack of bad influences? I once heard a radio DJ say 'if your wife's best friend gets a divorce, you might as well draw up your own divorce papers, because girls need to slut it up in packs'. At the time I thought it was stupid, but seems like there's something to that!
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I for one think its more important now than ever to truly uphold the vows and promises we all made when we got married. My marriage has been my biggest success in life. I give it all I have - and I believe in it. For the most part I have had a wonderful marriage but have had to deal with the ups and downs and occasional fuck ups, but that is because we are only human, we mess up sometimes. If you find someone you love, treat them right and never go to bed mad.

hf
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Yup and if you try to suggest stuff like porn is instrumetal in a huge way for the morale decline you get lambasted for 'not being with it' or 'it actually has decreased in countries where porn has been part of culture'(<oh yeah like holland which is in terminal decline.Its STIFF FKIN NIGHTMARE LADIES AND GENTELMEN the world in which is evolving.Oh and heres a good one this makes me chuckle the social and other human rights steering comittees who have the final word in a government advisory capacity suggesting such wise pieces opf shit like 'there is no eveidence that suggests violent graphic pc games dont affect kids@ gimme a break tv ads sellin a pc game ( a gangster dude shooting other gutter rats surrounded by whores glorified,eulogised) now tell me if this isnt a lesson to kids lokk sonny its cool to shoot and you get whores hangin round
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another great post.. you are spot on. video games are just as evil as p0rn, they are programming and highly addictive. and just take a look at any moran over 40 playing a video game ------> L * O * S * E *R

maybe my standards are a little high, but a guy over 40 who plays video games and is addicted to pr0n is completely useless. we just don't have enough data on all the erectile dysfunction that will be plaguing the youth as they start to age and realize the constant drool, zombie like staring and erectile problems are not going away.

5a
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Your attitude is exactly why women end up alone with only cats for comfort.
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really, because my standards for a man include no mindless video games? if you are 15 and need entertainment a video game is acceptable.... over 40 and you have issues, it means you clearly do not have a challenging enough job or other more important things to focus on. Real men are not playing video games, they are off solving the world's problems and taking their wives out to dinner.

btw, i hate cats. i don't understand people that keep those.
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You and the guy you're arguing with are both as sexist as each other, maybe you should both get married?

I see a nice married future for you together as sexist assholes. Congrats !
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Re: Are wives/girls leaving their husbands/boyfriends in droves right now?
Maybe a lack of bad influences? I once heard a radio DJ say 'if your wife's best friend gets a divorce, you might as well draw up your own divorce papers, because girls need to slut it up in packs'. At the time I thought it was stupid, but seems like there's something to that!
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I think there is. I think it's true for men too, I guess I don't want to say that only women behave that way. I personally was left from one long term relationship when my partner's friends were single and wanted to be going out in the trio they had in their 20's to pick up guys and "have fun". They ended up winning in the end by using manipulation and eventually facilitating betrayal. I saw what was happening and I said at the time those friends of yours are trying to break us up and then I was accused of not wanting them to have "fun". After the first betrayal I lost my trust but continued on because of commitment but then I was more scared as the going out continued, for which I was seen even more as insecure and a party pooper. Eventually they never came home.
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another great post.. you are spot on. video games are just as evil as p0rn, they are programming and highly addictive. and just take a look at any moran over 40 playing a video game ------> L * O * S * E *R

maybe my standards are a little high, but a guy over 40 who plays video games and is addicted to pr0n is completely useless. we just don't have enough data on all the erectile dysfunction that will be plaguing the youth as they start to age and realize the constant drool, zombie like staring and erectile problems are not going away.

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Your attitude is exactly why women end up alone with only cats for comfort.
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really, because my standards for a man include no mindless video games? if you are 15 and need entertainment a video game is acceptable.... over 40 and you have issues, it means you clearly do not have a challenging enough job or other more important things to focus on. Real men are not playing video games, they are off solving the world's problems and taking their wives out to dinner.

btw, i hate cats. i don't understand people that keep those.
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You and the guy you're arguing with are both as sexist as each other, maybe you should both get married?

I see a nice married future for you together as sexist assholes. Congrats !
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sorry, already happily married 5a
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Maybe a lack of bad influences? I once heard a radio DJ say 'if your wife's best friend gets a divorce, you might as well draw up your own divorce papers, because girls need to slut it up in packs'. At the time I thought it was stupid, but seems like there's something to that!
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I think there is. I think it's true for men too, I guess I don't want to say that only women behave that way. I personally was left from one long term relationship when my partner's friends were single and wanted to be going out in the trio they had in their 20's to pick up guys and "have fun". They ended up winning in the end by using manipulation and eventually facilitating betrayal. I saw what was happening and I said at the time those friends of yours are trying to break us up and then I was accused of not wanting them to have "fun". After the first betrayal I lost my trust but continued on because of commitment but then I was more scared as the going out continued, for which I was seen even more as insecure and a party pooper. Eventually they never came home.
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ever notice a lot of 'happily married' couples don't really have a lot of respective single friends?

My husband always worries when I spend too much time with my single gf's, lol.

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