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Are wives/girls leaving their husbands/boyfriends in droves right now?

 
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I just want to say that WOW is a widow maker.
But what is WAY worse is that WOW takes a father away from his children.

Don't even try to defend yourself or try to tell me that you only play "sometimes".

Your precious children will grow up and remember you as the guy in chair in front of the computer who says to them, "Later.. just a few more minutes. OKAY!! Just give me a few more minutes!"
The "later" never comes. Days, weekends and months, maybe years of being neglected so you can play WOW. What an achievement you have acomplished. What a man.

Those minutes & days are gone. And your children think you are a big freekin' bag of shit. You neglected them. How many months or YEARS did you forsake them? That neglect will come back to haunt you. Expect a load of grief from your kids when they get older.

they will act out in shocking ways to show how they feel ... and it will be too late. .
 Quoting: Widow 1439176


so true...

whether its the wrong foods, drugs/alcohol, video games, shopping, p0rn, gambling or <insert vice here>... its all addictive and it programs the mind.

but go ahead, no one is stopping you... that would entail your own self discipline.
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yup, my opinion and I am sticking with it.

have fun with yer xbox
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28867210


Tell us, oh Oracle of Wisdom...what kind of things should a man spend his time doing?
Why don't you give us a list of your approved past times and activities for a male to do to make him a "man".
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22788475


I'll make some suggestions. He may smoke his pipe. He may drink beer when he wants. He may go see friends no less than weekly, but only if he feels like it. He is allowed to bring the 4x4 home covered in mud. He may brew alcholic beverages within the home, and the equipment will be sacred.
 Quoting: That one guy 29423387


"He is allowed" and this is the issue with women today, I'm male by the way. Men need to take control (women still deserve to be heard and opinions considered (its a human right to be considered by another). YOU ARE THE MAN. ACT LIKE ONE OR LEAVE YOUR WOMEN. I do not consent to being controlled by a women. At this first sign of she is wanting to control me, I'm out. Period. I'm the man, your the women. (no I don't hate women, I just refuse to have my life controlled by someone other than me) a relationship with a women is a team, partnership and the ultimate level of "bro", if you know what I mean. Alls I'm saying is, men need to be men. Which is why we have so many women haters on glp. "Post-pussy whipped" guys who were never taught how to be a proper man; who failed to take charge in their relationships which resulted in them being screwed over, controlled and ultimately used. Sex isn't that important. It's love. Manhood, your principles, the right women and most importantly love for your fellow humans/significant other. Know these things well and breath easy. **on my phone, please excuse the typos.**
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12/12/2012 11:41 PM
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Money is the number one factor in ruining relationships. The economy, no doubt is making a major impact. No job = single.
 Quoting: PokerFace


Low paying job also = single
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29514277


I agree, but only because every relationship has its ups and downs and when things go south, and if there is one thing I've learned over the years, money makes a big difference. being miserable and fighting when you are poor sucks, I've been there. being miserable and having some money... not so bad. Shoes and sparkly things make me happy after a bad fight.

just being honest. I wish I wasn't so materialistic.
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12/12/2012 11:43 PM
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Funny, you mention this - I've seen a lot of my FB friends changing their relationship status - including my aunt today. You may be on to something.
 Quoting: Turtles Voice


Facebook is killing not only marriages, but relationships and friendships as well.

People will find out too late they made the wrong decision getting involved in that nonsense.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28867210


'changing their relationship status'...

this world is going to hell.

no one has any morals or solid character. Principles are gone.

no values, no understanding of what is important in life.

everyone is just jumping around for personal satisfaction...jumping to a 'greener pasture'...

selfishness is paramount and the ONLY thing that matters is self satisfaction.
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12/12/2012 11:51 PM
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Money is the number one factor in ruining relationships. The economy, no doubt is making a major impact. No job = single.
 Quoting: PokerFace


Low paying job also = single
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29514277


I happen to be wealthy, started seeing this chick that goes on and on about how she doesn't care about money. So i said " If I didn't have my kind of money but worked for minimum wage, I would have felt beneath you and not in a league that would allow me to even talk to you." ME.

Then went on to explain what it is like to grow up dirt poor and feel low class even though you were placed in the advanced learning classes, was an excellent athelete but lacked money for equipment or registration / administration fees..................much more but basically it makes you believe you are worthless and creates extreme low self image.

So yes money / wealth matters, now at 40 I get perfect tens / 20 year olds throwing themselves at me because I earned my current self-esteem and exhibit pure confidence.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1190704


I believe you... my husband is in his 40s and is self-made in terms of his money. He looks incredible, graduate school education, great job and has confidence. He also gets his share of younger women that flirt with him, especially in the workplace. Just the other day he told me how forward a woman was being with him at a conference he was attending. He said he just laughed and shrugged it off, but he doesn't realize the power a man exudes when they are in their power suit at a conference on Wall Street.

I try not to dwell on it, because as a woman, I know how we operate. But I also believe you cannot make someone love you. You need to hold yourself with enough personal self esteem and confidence that you are worthy of his love, but you cannot ever control him.
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12/13/2012 12:00 AM
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I'm middle aged but I left him.

With what time is left i had ENOUGH? I'm just sick and tired of taking care of a bum who sits around and does nothing. Won't help with anything around the house and has the nerve to ask me what's for dinner when I get off work. I pay the bills and he spends his social security on himself.

And he thinks his sex is good?!? Just ain't worth it anymore.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25672410


Quite the reverse. I am mid-40's and left her. She thinks I am going to work 70-80 hour weeks, do the shopping, take the dog out, and she is going to work 30-40 and sit on the couch reading books and watching survivor.

Dont need her. I'll get a mid-20's model. No different than trading in a used truck that cant haul a load anymore for a new one that can.
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12/13/2012 12:05 AM
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Funny, you mention this - I've seen a lot of my FB friends changing their relationship status - including my aunt today. You may be on to something.
 Quoting: Turtles Voice


Facebook is killing not only marriages, but relationships and friendships as well.

People will find out too late they made the wrong decision getting involved in that nonsense.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28867210


'changing their relationship status'...

this world is going to hell.

no one has any morals or solid character. Principles are gone.

no values, no understanding of what is important in life.

everyone is just jumping around for personal satisfaction...jumping to a 'greener pasture'...

selfishness is paramount and the ONLY thing that matters is self satisfaction.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17476081



Not true for all of us. I went through a rough year a couple years back and was just numb over a situation that happened to me in my marriage - I thought I would never feel happy again. I am still healing but I resolved myself to make it work and so far it is. to be committed is to truly love. because that is what I agreed to when I exchanged our vows to love and honor this man till death do us part. it would have been really easy to stray, I had a few interesting guys in my facebook at the time and a few of them had asked me to coffee or lunch to "catch up". there was one I was particularly drawn to, although he never asked me to meet. I thought about him everyday for about a year - and I knew this was not normal. Well I decided that having lots of opposite sex friends from the past made me someone I did not want to be. I know I have a high sex drive and I know the recipe of what a guy has to say/do to entice me. So I deleted them, all of them who posed a threat to my weakness for the opposite sex. Its not that I am a slut, I am not. I've never cheated, but there are times when I have enjoyed the flirting in the workplace or the way a co-worker looks me over or gives me a double entendre... I've even left a job because I was attracted to my boss, who made it clear he was attracted to me. So there are some women who don't just get off on jumping around, despite how easy it can be. Some of us try to be ladies that men would be proud to call their wives. I would never hurt my husband, or anyone else in a situation that involved cheating, its not worth the pain for some fleeting emotions that will fade away after time.
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12/13/2012 12:12 AM
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I'm middle aged but I left him.

With what time is left i had ENOUGH? I'm just sick and tired of taking care of a bum who sits around and does nothing. Won't help with anything around the house and has the nerve to ask me what's for dinner when I get off work. I pay the bills and he spends his social security on himself.

And he thinks his sex is good?!? Just ain't worth it anymore.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25672410


Quite the reverse. I am mid-40's and left her. She thinks I am going to work 70-80 hour weeks, do the shopping, take the dog out, and she is going to work 30-40 and sit on the couch reading books and watching survivor.

Dont need her. I'll get a mid-20's model. No different than trading in a used truck that cant haul a load anymore for a new one that can.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1338287


Those mid-20 models come with their own set of problems too...just like the new trucks vs. the old ones. Did your old truck track your movements on onstar/gps/facebook? Not putting down your argument at all...women (and men) want it all and the longer you are with someone, generally the less you get because both give less. My solution...live alone, line up enough f-buddies to get you through the weeks and be happy discovering yourself and your purpose on this random chunk of rock! Better yourself and whoever you end up with, no matter the mileage, you will be with in a lasting relationship.
Nariyana
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12/13/2012 12:22 AM
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Is it normal for pre-holidays? Is it something else? What's going on? A week or two ago there was a thread about women's cycles going haywire/doubling up and now it seems people are being left/dumped like crazy. Is it musical chairs where the girls all run to some greener pasture, or earth changes, or all guys suddenly become unloveable or worthless at the same time? What's happening?
 Quoting: Therapy 29639398



Ijust had a good hearty laugh..a laugh of shock! Two weeks ago i left my husband of 7 years. why? i have been loudly directed by the universe to be alone and absorb and learn to hold this new frequency we are now becoming. our daily drama's now crumble and the phoenix that is to be born, is about to leave its nest! god speed my Holders Of Frequency! I feel you as you feel me
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Is it normal for pre-holidays? Is it something else? What's going on? A week or two ago there was a thread about women's cycles going haywire/doubling up and now it seems people are being left/dumped like crazy. Is it musical chairs where the girls all run to some greener pasture, or earth changes, or all guys suddenly become unloveable or worthless at the same time? What's happening?
 Quoting: Therapy 29639398



Ijust had a good hearty laugh..a laugh of shock! Two weeks ago i left my husband of 7 years. why? i have been loudly directed by the universe to be alone and absorb and learn to hold this new frequency we are now becoming. our daily drama's now crumble and the phoenix that is to be born, is about to leave its nest! god speed my Holders Of Frequency! I feel you as you feel me
 Quoting: Nariyana 28088290


Good for u! There is something going on in general and it is big. Trying to objectively look at others, I can see it. I can sure see it in myself...I am damn near homeless by choice... left two hot women and only one was crazy... used to make 6 figs and had it all (material-wise..nothing soul wise). I could go back in an instant but I don't really care about much now...just trying to learn and experience. Living my office space dreams...minus the construction job at the end.
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12/13/2012 12:31 AM
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I read somewhere that the reason for this is alien abduction and tampering.
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I will contribute in another way saying that I've been going through a break-up and Facebook/single bar scene was probably a big part of the reason. Granted, looking back I wasn't the best guy to her. I think I took her for granted or thought her love was insincere because she lacked confidence if that makes sense. Now that she's more independent I love her more than ever, it's sort of ironic really. It's not only wanting something I can't have, but seeing something I DID have grow and become better without me. It's humbling to say the least.
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I will contribute in another way saying that I've been going through a break-up and Facebook/single bar scene was probably a big part of the reason. Granted, looking back I wasn't the best guy to her. I think I took her for granted or thought her love was insincere because she lacked confidence if that makes sense. Now that she's more independent I love her more than ever, it's sort of ironic really. It's not only wanting something I can't have, but seeing something I DID have grow and become better without me. It's humbling to say the least.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8625086


It is a rare thing that two people can grow because of each other instead of in spite of each other after the fact. Don't beat yourself up about it. Stay away from the FB and the singles bars if you are looking for anything but sex. Go out into the non-drunk and non-virtual world and follow what you want to do...you will find her, and you won't even be looking for her.
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Funny, you mention this - I've seen a lot of my FB friends changing their relationship status - including my aunt today. You may be on to something.
 Quoting: Turtles Voice


Facebook is killing not only marriages, but relationships and friendships as well.

People will find out too late they made the wrong decision getting involved in that nonsense.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28867210


'changing their relationship status'...

this world is going to hell.

no one has any morals or solid character. Principles are gone.

no values, no understanding of what is important in life.

everyone is just jumping around for personal satisfaction...jumping to a 'greener pasture'...

selfishness is paramount and the ONLY thing that matters is self satisfaction.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17476081

Oh yeah the world is geared up for self,self love,self serving attitudes its a narcissistic paradise.I love me who the f*** do you love,"Im worth it" be yourself, be a winner, you deserve it.Its all geared to endemic sense of entitlement "ive got rights" human rights has been so contorted by the those bohemian drop out academic 60's fukin hippies who nurtured this free sex society.and that perverted peado alfred kinsey the champion of the free sex revolution.WE REAP WHAT WE SOW and boy there are some ugly crops religious or not you gotta say the bible has hit the mark
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Is it normal for pre-holidays? Is it something else? What's going on? A week or two ago there was a thread about women's cycles going haywire/doubling up and now it seems people are being left/dumped like crazy. Is it musical chairs where the girls all run to some greener pasture, or earth changes, or all guys suddenly become unloveable or worthless at the same time? What's happening?
 Quoting: Therapy 29639398



Ijust had a good hearty laugh..a laugh of shock! Two weeks ago i left my husband of 7 years. why? i have been loudly directed by the universe to be alone and absorb and learn to hold this new frequency we are now becoming. our daily drama's now crumble and the phoenix that is to be born, is about to leave its nest! god speed my Holders Of Frequency! I feel you as you feel me
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oh my giddy aunt what new age giibberish clap trap.
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I will contribute in another way saying that I've been going through a break-up and Facebook/single bar scene was probably a big part of the reason. Granted, looking back I wasn't the best guy to her. I think I took her for granted or thought her love was insincere because she lacked confidence if that makes sense. Now that she's more independent I love her more than ever, it's sort of ironic really. It's not only wanting something I can't have, but seeing something I DID have grow and become better without me. It's humbling to say the least.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 8625086


It is a rare thing that two people can grow because of each other instead of in spite of each other after the fact. Don't beat yourself up about it. Stay away from the FB and the singles bars if you are looking for anything but sex. Go out into the non-drunk and non-virtual world and follow what you want to do...you will find her, and you won't even be looking for her.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1404714


Kudos for the thoughtful message. Frankly I'm not a big fan of bars or sports. They're too loud and obnoxious for me anyway. Approaching women (or people) in general has always been a challenge for me. The other day I noticed a pretty young girl smiling at me at college. (Just started going back, so I feel a bit old there now.) I looked away quickly, and then gave a classic double glance. Naturally I didn't say anything or reciprocate in a sort of mind implosion, "Not even an awkward wave or hello?! Oh well she probably wasn't looking at me." It's part of the reason I was with my ex, she was very forward with what she wanted with me.

Part of me isn't ready to move on yet either. I still talk with her just about every day and I'm confused to be honest. The advice forums and everyone I talk to would tell me to write her off, but after 5 years and her being my one and only it's been tougher than I could imagine. I don't expect her to fall back into my arms, but some days I hope for it.
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This and the partner thread about men is a perfect example of how gender relations (and ergo internal psyche relations) are deteriorating rapidly. Everyone is terrified of being betrayed and therefore cut off and self absorbed. It's an endless cycle of selfishness and self pity.

This thread is exactly what humanity needs to get the fuck over.

Love one another. The end. No ifs. Love. Get to it.
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This and the partner thread about men is a perfect example of how gender relations (and ergo internal psyche relations) are deteriorating rapidly. Everyone is terrified of being betrayed and therefore cut off and self absorbed. It's an endless cycle of selfishness and self pity.

This thread is exactly what humanity needs to get the fuck over.

Love one another. The end. No ifs. Love. Get to it.
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Great post.


But it is kinda hard to love when the Federal Courts are helping women become self absorbed and selfish. Even the TV and the media potrays men as worth less than a ball of puked up cat fur.

Men have always been able to " love " But under todays circumstances they have been made to be easily controlled and betrayed.

Society and the courts/ laws have destroyed mens ability to be treated equally or with fairness. Many men now are seeing it for what it is and are keeping their guards up and options open. This is not their fault.

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