Not true for all of us. I went through a rough year a couple years back and was just numb over a situation that happened to me in my marriage - I thought I would never feel happy again. I am still healing but I resolved myself to make it work and so far it is. to be committed is to truly love. because that is what I agreed to when I exchanged our vows to love and honor this man till death do us part. it would have been really easy to stray, I had a few interesting guys in my facebook at the time and a few of them had asked me to coffee or lunch to "catch up". there was one I was particularly drawn to, although he never asked me to meet. I thought about him everyday for about a year - and I knew this was not normal. Well I decided that having lots of opposite sex friends from the past made me someone I did not want to be. I know I have a high sex drive and I know the recipe of what a guy has to say/do to entice me. So I deleted them, all of them who posed a threat to my weakness for the opposite sex. Its not that I am a slut, I am not. I've never cheated, but there are times when I have enjoyed the flirting in the workplace or the way a co-worker looks me over or gives me a double entendre... I've even left a job because I was attracted to my boss, who made it clear he was attracted to me. So there are some women who don't just get off on jumping around, despite how easy it can be. Some of us try to be ladies that men would be proud to call their wives. I would never hurt my husband, or anyone else in a situation that involved cheating, its not worth the pain for some fleeting emotions that will fade away after time.