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Virgo man (Me) Dating an Aries women (Her). (Need advice please)

 
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Virgo man (Me) Dating an Aries women (Her). (Need advice please)
(I apologize in advance if my spelling or grammar is really bad Or if i repeat myself when writing this.)

Im just really confused about whats going on between us.I do worry and over think things alot, But i do that because i really care alot about her and want whats best for her. I'll always be supportive of her and what she does and well.. I just need another person point of view.

She's never told me how she felt about me or what she likes or see's in me and that kinda makes me feel insecure about dating her. The first time i asked her about this she got upset with me and told me that i was pressuring her but i really dont want her to feel like i am. But that reason alone is the only reason why i feel like shes not interested in me. Her anger issues really dont bother me and i can look pass it. She tells me that i make her happy but never tells me why or how i make her happy.


Now with that all said, This is why im confused.

When we first started dating she wanted to fall asleep on skype every night with me. She wants me to text and call her when ever i can. She always ask's what im thinking and if anythings wrong (Alot) and when i dont tell her what im thinking she gets upset. I admire her so much for who she is and when ever i can, i tell her how much she means to me and she tells me that she likes the attention and the fact that im honest with her. I just dont understand why she isnt open with her feelings as much as me.

Ill never try to change her for my own personal needs, If anything it be the other way around. I love her exactly the way she is and dont want to change a single thing about her.


Please if anyone can give me advice with how to approach this or if it does sound like she really does care about me it would really help me out alot. (Just some dating advice would really be appreciated.) I want things to work and i think she does to. I just dont want to do something stupid and have it end between us.
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Re: Virgo man (Me) Dating an Aries women (Her). (Need advice please)
stop being a pussy and act like a man and you wont have to worry about losing her. woman hate insecure men, so keep it up and she'll be gone forever
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(I apologize in advance if my spelling or grammar is really bad Or if i repeat myself when writing this.)

Im just really confused about whats going on between us.I do worry and over think things alot, But i do that because i really care alot about her and want whats best for her. I'll always be supportive of her and what she does and well.. I just need another person point of view.

She's never told me how she felt about me or what she likes or see's in me and that kinda makes me feel insecure about dating her. The first time i asked her about this she got upset with me and told me that i was pressuring her but i really dont want her to feel like i am. But that reason alone is the only reason why i feel like shes not interested in me. Her anger issues really dont bother me and i can look pass it. She tells me that i make her happy but never tells me why or how i make her happy.


Now with that all said, This is why im confused.

When we first started dating she wanted to fall asleep on skype every night with me. She wants me to text and call her when ever i can. She always ask's what im thinking and if anythings wrong (Alot) and when i dont tell her what im thinking she gets upset. I admire her so much for who she is and when ever i can, i tell her how much she means to me and she tells me that she likes the attention and the fact that im honest with her. I just dont understand why she isnt open with her feelings as much as me.

Ill never try to change her for my own personal needs, If anything it be the other way around. I love her exactly the way she is and dont want to change a single thing about her.


Please if anyone can give me advice with how to approach this or if it does sound like she really does care about me it would really help me out alot. (Just some dating advice would really be appreciated.) I want things to work and i think she does to. I just dont want to do something stupid and have it end between us.
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They are the most difficult people on Earth and this is speaking from experience. They are moody and you never know what is going on and they will lock horns. Good luck if that is the kind of thing you enjoy
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Aries are hot (hard) headed, I know cause I'm one ... .We like breaking new ground and find it hard to admit we are wrong sometimes ... they don't like ... whining, crying and such ...

not saying you are .. but i'm just relating what I have found

You do sound like a Virgo (my moon is in virgo) ...

Where is her moon in the chart.... that would be a way to get into her heart (intuition)


I think Aries Virgo offsets nicely (virgo being near libra) ..

but you both have to be aware about yourselves to realize you each can make up for theres shortcomings
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Re: Virgo man (Me) Dating an Aries women (Her). (Need advice please)
find out where your moon is too , you may find more about yourself
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Virgo men are non combative. Im not saying to starta fight, but dont hide your feelings to protect anyone elses. COMMUNICATE
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Virgo men are non combative. Im not saying to starta fight, but dont hide your feelings to protect anyone elses. COMMUNICATE
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Yes .. Communication breeds Creation .... OP (and everyone) should find more about themselves (in star chart) to unlock more confidence (look beyond just the sun ... do oyu have a mass conjunction of planets ? does she ? These can override the sun being alone in a sign) .... Aries loves confident people who believe in what they do ... big turn on ....

also the houses can determine what section of life is prominent with the soul , native (person) whatever
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you're neat and orderly and she's messy and unplanned...too funny! I'm a Capricorn and my husband's a Virgo, but I'm a very untraditional Capricorn so I kind of fly by the seat of my pants and do things where he's very military and plans everything out. I know where everything I need is in my clutter but it drives him crazy. We've been together now almost 6 years of dating and being married and he's kind of given up on rehabilitating my organizing. Best thing I can tell you is walk light or ask her to keep her disorderliness in areas that are just hers and try to keep the sanctity of the tidiness and organization of communal areas. Good luck! Ha!
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OK as a Aries, if your asking her for a detailed report. You need to ask for a list and be blunt about it. Also if this is the beginning stages of the relationship, she see's dating and relationships in two separate categories. Dating = no commitment (Doesn't need to be in love). Relationship=long-term. (She has decided to keep you therefore love you)
As for her asking what your thinking, she is freaked out by your retreating spells and wondering why your not adoring the earth she walks on (we are very egotistical, as in we think everyone should love us) and we are prone to feeling neglected when you don't give us random displays of affection (like running up behind and giving us a bear hug and a passionate kiss out of nowhere.) <add dominating her in bed, as in tie her to the bedposts and commanding her not to make a sound as you go in on her. (Graphic I know, but its an Aries fantasy, trust me on this. I know alot of Aries and we talk some pretty raunchy talks, especially about sex)
And tell her that you more than occasionally need time alone to gather your thoughts, just tell her when your in these episodes, you need her to go about and do her own thing. That it just your nature to be alone and think. Tell her it has nothing to do with her, just do her own thing and you'll come out of it eventually. And don't point out her flaws, we like to hear that we are awesome, not that we didn't do something right, it grates our nerves, and after a period of you not paying attention to goddess we know we are, we start to wonder. You don't need to br afraid of our fire, its when that fire of passion Burns out and the cold unforgiving ice makes us turn our backs, walk away and never look back.
We do get bored, like children who have nothing to do. We look for better prospects.
of course we will first break up with you,
Instead of cheating on you. Especially if we did feel love for you at one point. So
pull up your big girl panties and be blunt about what your expections are and remember she is NP as detailed oriented as you are, she is a hot mess with a attitude to shoot first ask questions later (Ready! Fire! Aim!, yes we know it makes no sense. Yet we really don't give a crap. We pay someone to smooth put those goddamn annoying details that bring out the bored child within us) as an Aries girl, I don't show my emotions to someone until I fully trust and love them. In her eyes your constant brooding are reasons to wonder about your love for her. She needs attention like a child. She needs praise, love and adoration, if you are to criticise, choose your words wisely. And make sure to say she did something right, before bringing out the wrong, she isn't a perfectionist like you (far from it) she actually might need you to smooth out the details for her. And words are nice but she wants physical signs of affection, be rough with her, she finds it kinky. Remember pounce her in the doorway as she steps inside the door from work.
and if you don't want her to spend you money encourage her to get a job so she can spend her own.
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Virgo men are non combative. Im not saying to starta fight, but dont hide your feelings to protect anyone elses. COMMUNICATE
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Virgo male ex wife Aries.. Take it from me.. not a good match.. look for a Taurus.. or Gemini.. Aries is your worst nightmare.. They are conniving and vindictive..rockon
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Re: Virgo man (Me) Dating an Aries women (Her). (Need advice please)
To me you sound like what I hear too many women do when in a fairly new relationship.

It is enough that she IS with you. Let the rest go and simply enjoy what you have.

For me, if a guy did that I would back away.

Give her some space. Let some time in between and keep interested in the things you did before this.
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to me it doesn't sound like it has anything to do with sign.

Maybe what you need, she can't give at this time in her life.

What do you need? Do you know yourself well enough to identify what it is you actually need? Maybe you are trying to get something from her that no one can give?
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U need to be in sack with her more not on Skype that's bullshit
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Try to pull her out of the social media adiction and instant gratification drawback, she is way up there pull her down
Put a lion in a cage for years without food and watch what happens.
Its appetite will of cause grow and grow, and then you point your finger at its hunger?
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Re: Virgo man (Me) Dating an Aries women (Her). (Need advice please)
To be honest you sound like too gentle of a man for a fiery spirit of an Aries woman. You can still get the same level of spunk from a Taurus woman and a whole lot more cuddliness. No offense intended to any Aries. I like your spunk, but I am a Virgo gal and I do understand.

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