Some of us stay Anonymous because we don't want to do email or get personal with strangers. As a married woman, I like to read and sometimes post a helpful comment, but I am not here to make any friends. On another forum, I had user name and Avatar and I found the email requests to be a bit much at times. Its not that there are not nice people here, there are, but that is why, as married woman, I choose to stay Anonymous, I don't want to get too friendly with anyone. Emotional attractions online happen frequently and I am only here to learn/read threads and sometimes post if I think I have something of value to share. so in other words, OP, STFU.