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Why are some guys so jealous?

 
StormeyGoddess

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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
i bet you would give another guy a blowjob then wonder why your boyfriend is jealous. Its quite simple stop giving him valid reasons to be jealous. younger women seem to be wired to continually stress out men.For example being closed about intimate issues,lack of openess and in general a lack of comittment to a relationship.

I just got into an argument with my gf because she wouldn't answer simple questions, like where she was most the day. Why hide such basic stuff?, I know she isn't a cheater or anything like that but mainating a relationship requires the bare minimum of reassurances.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17299182



No, i wouldn't give a blowjob to another guy .... and I don't think that Kissing a gay guy on the cheek is a valid reason... I am very opened with him.

You can't ask you gf that question ... It can make her feel that you don't trust her... unless she just wants to annoy you and most women like to annoy their boyfriends... in that case she will not tell you and she will let you know that she is not happy with what you are saying but inside she will be laughing and probably loving you a bit more because you made her laugh inside.
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


I don't think most WOMEN like to annoy their boyfriends...That's a girl thing...Grow up...don't be with a man just to fuck with his feelings, that is sooooo not ok...
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
He's probably cheating on you and hasn't broken up with you because he does feel sorry for you. Annoying him because you're bored? No, most women don't like to annoy they're boyfriends. He feels sorry for you because you'll be single forever if he breaks up with you. Youre a bitch. He's getting some on the side from a woman who's actually nice and doesn't get her entertainment from pissing him off.
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
You kissed a guy on the cheek that you just met? I find that curious.
 Quoting: Evil Cretin


I was not flirting ...
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


Are you the picture in the avatar...if so, then I understand the jealousy. If you are not, then no, I don't understand the jealousy.
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Barbie Chaos (OP)

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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
From now on you must wear a burka and have zero contact with other men.

No talking. No eye contact. Nothing.

:)
 Quoting: HI.Lander


No, guys are jealous because we have to work and work and talk and talk just to get laid, but all a woman has to do his spread her legs...she doesn't even have to say anything...it's too easy for women to get a lay and it drives guys nuts.
 Quoting: BRIEF


Ha! This is so true.
 Quoting: HI.Lander


^^^^

Getting hit on is a mere walk in the park for a woman. She does nothing and she gets hit on. So much in fact that it may annoy her. Some, or it seems most women are quite affected by the fact that get so many advances, it makes them a completely different person with very divided attention.
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yes it is annoying
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
i stopped at "kissed him on the cheek".

there you have it
 Quoting: Oyster


Yep, it really is THAT simple.

He got upset because these so-called friends of yours would fuck you faster than an F-16 if you gave them the opportunity.

Your boyfriend, being a man, knows what these other men really want when you dangle your goods in front them like a piece of meat. "Socialization" with the opposite sex is a euphemism for flirting.

Allowing these other men to shower you with their subconscious sexual affections makes your boyfriend feel as though he's not satisfying you.

It makes your boyfriend feel like less of a man if you are constantly seeking the company of other men to keep yourself "happy".

If you want to be a socialite for pleasure, stay single.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9788321


^^^^This^^^^^

It is disrespectful when you're in a comitted relationship to go out with people of the opposite sex and engage in kissing other people...even if they're gay, even if...whatever. Grow up. It's not difficult. If you're in a relationship, those things are just not acceptable...
 Quoting: StormeyGoddess


This, that. Yes.
Barbie Chaos (OP)

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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
I think you just need to Grow Up!!!




I forgot to mention that the guy I kissed was gay


I think maybe your boyfriend is too and he's jealous that he didn't get some of that...offer a threeway


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No, he is not LOL

Last Edited by Barbara P. Strigoi on 12/13/2012 06:34 PM
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Barbie Chaos (OP)

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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
Quit mind fucking him... Simple isn't it.
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yes
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ...

I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him.

Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ...

When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry..

But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before...

Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me.

I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him.
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


yea you went on a date with a guy, had a good conversation and kissed him on the cheek. duh hes jealouse wtf i mean someone saw it happen and told him. how would you like hearing he was out for dinner with a girl he then kissed on the cheek when they left looking like it was a happy and good date. and someone would tell you....

i get how it doesnt have to be anything at all since i mean thats basicly what a night out with someone looks like. i mean it wouldnt be better if you would have been watching a movie with him at his house or whatever

so yea its a normal thing but its still not a plesent thing i guess
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
unfortunately OP, this is quite the case, very common in the USA and probabyl elsewhere.

This hits dead center on how it's so hard to have relationships.
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
unfortunately OP, this is quite the case, very common in the USA and probabyl elsewhere.

This hits dead center on how it's so hard to have relationships.
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In fact I wonder if this is a bait thread or smtg.
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
He got upset because these so-called friends of yours would fuck you faster than an F-16 if you gave them the opportunity.

Your boyfriend, being a man, knows what these other men really want when you dangle your goods in front them like a piece of meat. "Socialization" with the opposite sex is a euphemism for flirting.

Allowing these other men to shower you with their subconscious sexual affections makes your boyfriend feel as though he's not satisfying you.

It makes your boyfriend feel like less of a man if you are constantly seeking the company of other men to keep yourself "happy".

If you want to be a socialite for pleasure, stay single.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9788321


I know they would LOL... but my bf is supposed to trust me I've never done anything out of the ordinary ... the guy I kissed was gay ... and I was holding the guys hand at the party because I was telling him that I felt like waiting for someone outside the bathroom and grab them, force their head into the toilet bowl and flush the toilet with their own hand... ( because I was telling them that it boiled me blood when some people didn't flush the toilet.)

But I understand what you are saying ... but i am not constantly seeking the company of other men.
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


If you understand why he felt that way, then why did you post this thread?

Your reply takes nothing away from the last line "If you want to be a socialite for pleasure, stay single.". I'd almost certainly expect that your boyfriend

How hard is it to understand that you don't just kiss friends if you're in a North American relationship. Whether they are gay or not -- maybe he didn't know.

In either case -- you've proven a lack of maturity on this thread (you get a kick out of stressing him out??) and so I wonder why I bother... stars

Why don't you do both of you a favor and smarten up or go live under the freedom of not being in a relationship so that he doesn't have to stress out so much over a girlfriend that obviously refuses to meet him half way.
 Quoting: Nev6502


Gosh, I don't annoy him like that ... I don't want to make him jealous ... when I annoy him I just do things like telling him how Twilight is much better than the movies he likes.
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Barbie Chaos (OP)

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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
teasing, flirting, lead ons, all that definitely can lead to sex.

YOu think it's just "a joke" and "not serious?" What do you think it can lead to, before you know it? Sex as a "joke"? Yea right, try and stop yourself before you get there and gotten all horny and bothered by the sexy jokes. Men use "sexual connotations" as seduction techniques because women often do not care as much about details but "feeling", ie lead a woman's emotions (not the same as gut instinct or "intuition" at all!) to think/emote the sexual, associating himself with the act of sex to the woman such that sex with the guy is not far off since the woman associates INTIMACY with the man.

Duh...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7138989


I'd never have sex with someone else
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
PS obviously you have trust issues of your own if you're not simply asking him what you're asking us.
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I wanted to see you comments because i am bored.
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
PS obviously you have trust issues of your own if you're not simply asking him what you're asking us.
 Quoting: Nev6502


I wanted to see you comments because i am bored.
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OP, do you have a history of self-injury
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
i bet you would give another guy a blowjob then wonder why your boyfriend is jealous. Its quite simple stop giving him valid reasons to be jealous. younger women seem to be wired to continually stress out men.For example being closed about intimate issues,lack of openess and in general a lack of comittment to a relationship.

I just got into an argument with my gf because she wouldn't answer simple questions, like where she was most the day. Why hide such basic stuff?, I know she isn't a cheater or anything like that but mainating a relationship requires the bare minimum of reassurances.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 17299182



No, i wouldn't give a blowjob to another guy .... and I don't think that Kissing a gay guy on the cheek is a valid reason... I am very opened with him.

You can't ask you gf that question ... It can make her feel that you don't trust her... unless she just wants to annoy you and most women like to annoy their boyfriends... in that case she will not tell you and she will let you know that she is not happy with what you are saying but inside she will be laughing and probably loving you a bit more because you made her laugh inside.
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


I don't think most WOMEN like to annoy their boyfriends...That's a girl thing...Grow up...don't be with a man just to fuck with his feelings, that is sooooo not ok...
 Quoting: StormeyGoddess


I don't want to F with his feelings ... I just like to argue with him sometimes about simple things ... like movies.
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
teasing, flirting, lead ons, all that definitely can lead to sex.

YOu think it's just "a joke" and "not serious?" What do you think it can lead to, before you know it? Sex as a "joke"? Yea right, try and stop yourself before you get there and gotten all horny and bothered by the sexy jokes. Men use "sexual connotations" as seduction techniques because women often do not care as much about details but "feeling", ie lead a woman's emotions (not the same as gut instinct or "intuition" at all!) to think/emote the sexual, associating himself with the act of sex to the woman such that sex with the guy is not far off since the woman associates INTIMACY with the man.

Duh...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7138989


this "sex as a joke" thing is quite serious.

I dont know how people can think flirting does not equal real flirting, i mean, WTF that's just being a cocktease. in nature cockteases are taken as real sexual signals but people through feminism have been lead to believe that flirting is nothing. THey call thmselves "flirts". They flirt around with sex with other guys and they end up cheating and they wonder why? lol

Also another real thing is that some of both men and women unconsciously get turned on by suspense.
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
He's probably cheating on you and hasn't broken up with you because he does feel sorry for you. Annoying him because you're bored? No, most women don't like to annoy they're boyfriends. He feels sorry for you because you'll be single forever if he breaks up with you. Youre a bitch. He's getting some on the side from a woman who's actually nice and doesn't get her entertainment from pissing him off.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 21696145


HAHAHAHA no he is not.

He actually likes it when i annoy him.... and I don't make him jealous on purpose... i don't annoy him like that.
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
teasing, flirting, lead ons, all that definitely can lead to sex.

YOu think it's just "a joke" and "not serious?" What do you think it can lead to, before you know it? Sex as a "joke"? Yea right, try and stop yourself before you get there and gotten all horny and bothered by the sexy jokes. Men use "sexual connotations" as seduction techniques because women often do not care as much about details but "feeling", ie lead a woman's emotions (not the same as gut instinct or "intuition" at all!) to think/emote the sexual, associating himself with the act of sex to the woman such that sex with the guy is not far off since the woman associates INTIMACY with the man.

Duh...
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7138989


I'd never have sex with someone else
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


you say that Now, but that's because you're not currently being seduced. You dont know the future. In that moment of seduction you do not care, you just want to closest dick around.
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ...

I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him.

Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ...

When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry..

But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before...

Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me.

I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him.
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


You clearly caused this and didn't learn the first time from your mistake.

Once lost...trust is near impossible to recover.
DUMB DUMB DUMB moves.

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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ...

I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him.

Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ...

When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry..

But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before...

Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me.

I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him.
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


yea you went on a date with a guy, had a good conversation and kissed him on the cheek. duh hes jealouse wtf i mean someone saw it happen and told him. how would you like hearing he was out for dinner with a girl he then kissed on the cheek when they left looking like it was a happy and good date. and someone would tell you....

i get how it doesnt have to be anything at all since i mean thats basicly what a night out with someone looks like. i mean it wouldnt be better if you would have been watching a movie with him at his house or whatever

so yea its a normal thing but its still not a plesent thing i guess
 Quoting: T-Man


I didn't go on a date with a guy ahhaha ... I went with a friend to the movies ... a girl friend....
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
unfortunately OP, this is quite the case, very common in the USA and probabyl elsewhere.

This hits dead center on how it's so hard to have relationships.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7138989


In fact I wonder if this is a bait thread or smtg.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7138989


What do you mean? What is a bait thread?
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
PS obviously you have trust issues of your own if you're not simply asking him what you're asking us.
 Quoting: Nev6502


I wanted to see you comments because i am bored.
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


OP, do you have a history of self-injury
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9401665


hahaha no ...why?
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
PS obviously you have trust issues of your own if you're not simply asking him what you're asking us.
 Quoting: Nev6502


I wanted to see you comments because i am bored.
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


OP, do you have a history of self-injury
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9401665


hahaha no ...why?
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


just because...
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ...

I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him.

Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ...

When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry..

But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before...

Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me.

I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him.
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


You clearly caused this and didn't learn the first time from your mistake.

Once lost...trust is near impossible to recover.
DUMB DUMB DUMB moves.

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 Quoting: Burt Gummer


well...they were not dumb moves.... they were just misunderstood
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
You kissed a guy on the cheek that you just met? I find that curious.
 Quoting: Evil Cretin


I was not flirting ...
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


Are you the picture in the avatar...if so, then I understand the jealousy. If you are not, then no, I don't understand the jealousy.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24011342


No, I'm this one >>>
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 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


I can see why you call yourself Barbie... you're built like one. Your hip to waist ratio is crazy!

...unless you Photoshopped your body. Looks like you used some kinda filter, too.
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
You kissed a guy on the cheek that you just met? I find that curious.
 Quoting: Evil Cretin


I was not flirting ...
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


Are you the picture in the avatar...if so, then I understand the jealousy. If you are not, then no, I don't understand the jealousy.
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No, I'm this one >>>
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 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


I think I see the bigger problem. PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO RANT AND RAVE ABOUT THIS POST BEING WRONG...AND THEN TAKE THE TIME TO REALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM SAYING.

Your problem is...YOU! You do not accept who you really are...so, you go off and live in a fantasy world. Part of your fantasy world is that you have to make other people jealous. By "other people" I especially mean your boyfriend or anybody who would get close to you. IIRC, I have seen your posts before...seeing your picture reminded me of the previous posts.

I KNOW you want to claim that you see yourself as pretty...but, in reality you do not see yourself as pretty. The reality shows when you compare yourself to others..IIRC, you see a lot of other people as ugly.

This "why are guys so jealous" is really saying, "I am pretty...don't believe me...I can make my boyfriend jealous!"

Here is the what I can tell you: You are relatively pretty. You are not the blond haired blue eyed woman in your avatar, but, then again...only the woman in that pic is her! Find a guy with a good heart...you haven't done that yet. The reason you haven't found a guy with a good heart is....YOU! If you do not accept yourself for who you are, then nobody else EVER will be able to accept you for who you are...no matter how pretty you are. Strong words, I know. If I was being a jerk to you...I would just move on to another post. I mean and hope the best for you!
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ...

I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him.

Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ...

When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry..

But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before...

Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me.

I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him.
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You clearly caused this and didn't learn the first time from your mistake.

Once lost...trust is near impossible to recover.
DUMB DUMB DUMB moves.

putin
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well...they were not dumb moves.... they were just misunderstood
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I'm not the jealous type at all....and even I would have had a problem with this after the second incident.
It shows a pattern....and then one begins to wonder how much is NOT being seen.

You caused this....and YES....it was VERY dumb.
Again....trust once lost is near impossible to regain.
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Re: Why are some guys so jealous?
My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ...

I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him.

Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ...

When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry..

But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before...

Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me.

I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him.
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos




its either one of two things.... he is cheating on you and his cheating makes him think of how easily you could do the same.

or

he honestly feels disrespected by your touchy feely actions.


if i were him and had to find out that you had kissed another guy no matter whether it was on his cheek or on his ass i would have cut you loose right then and there.


im one of those type people that doesn't give second chances and defiantly don't believe in the three strikes and your out rule.

you must have him pussy whipped or something, but there isn't pussy good enough on this planet that's worth putting up with the drama and games women will play these days.
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I was not flirting ...
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Are you the picture in the avatar...if so, then I understand the jealousy. If you are not, then no, I don't understand the jealousy.
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No, I'm this one >>>
[link to i50.tinypic.com]
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I can see why you call yourself Barbie... you're built like one. Your hip to waist ratio is crazy!

...unless you Photoshopped your body. Looks like you used some kinda filter, too.
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I have big hips because I used to be fat
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I was not flirting ...
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Are you the picture in the avatar...if so, then I understand the jealousy. If you are not, then no, I don't understand the jealousy.
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No, I'm this one >>>
[link to i50.tinypic.com]
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


I think I see the bigger problem. PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO RANT AND RAVE ABOUT THIS POST BEING WRONG...AND THEN TAKE THE TIME TO REALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM SAYING.

Your problem is...YOU! You do not accept who you really are...so, you go off and live in a fantasy world. Part of your fantasy world is that you have to make other people jealous. By "other people" I especially mean your boyfriend or anybody who would get close to you. IIRC, I have seen your posts before...seeing your picture reminded me of the previous posts.

I KNOW you want to claim that you see yourself as pretty...but, in reality you do not see yourself as pretty. The reality shows when you compare yourself to others..IIRC, you see a lot of other people as ugly.

This "why are guys so jealous" is really saying, "I am pretty...don't believe me...I can make my boyfriend jealous!"

Here is the what I can tell you: You are relatively pretty. You are not the blond haired blue eyed woman in your avatar, but, then again...only the woman in that pic is her! Find a guy with a good heart...you haven't done that yet. The reason you haven't found a guy with a good heart is....YOU! If you do not accept yourself for who you are, then nobody else EVER will be able to accept you for who you are...no matter how pretty you are. Strong words, I know. If I was being a jerk to you...I would just move on to another post. I mean and hope the best for you!
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Honestly, I just made this post because I wanted to read bad stuff and I wanted to have more bad karma .... the same happens with all of my other posts... but I guess you can be right .. I used to be fat till 9th grade... I lost like 50 pounds... and i've been losing more weight since then... I guess I can be insecure sometimes because i know that i should stop losing weight but I am terrified of being fat again...etc..
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