Why are some guys so jealous?

From now on you must wear a burka and have zero contact with other men.

No talking. No eye contact. Nothing.

:)

This lovely lady was developing a soft spot for me, and was pulling out every stop to see me, not to mention text me whenever she could. Why? Because I was using a secret mind control strategy to make her fall for me. I can't reveal my KFC secret recipe here, but let's just say I have it down to a fine art in knowing how to ignite specific emotions within a woman.

But as smart as I thought I was, in stealthily seducing this lovely woman, I think I fucked it all up because I replied with a text, which seemed a little too obvious that I had developed feelings for her (but I did, and that's where I effed up).

I basically thanked her for wishing me a happy birthday and said she was a very nice lady, but I should have kept it to the bare minimum because now obviously she's aware I like her and that means I've lost the challenge / mystery factor. Fuck.

So no contact from her since the 15th, and this is the worst aspect of it, because if you leave it too long, the window of opportunity closes and they start to lose interest in you. In order for a woman to really miss you, you need to have a deep intimate connection with her, but I was only just getting to know this chick, and now she's gone.

Bollocks.

I don't want to ask her outright, I never do that with a woman; I prefer to get them attracted to me and keep it that way. That's how I feel secure that a woman is into me and only me.

I think its stupid how people cannot be real with one another anymore. How, in order to attract a mate, we must play some stupid deliberate game.

You think you must be a "mystery" to attract a woman. That is just plain stupid. I guess you are not confident enough in yourself to show and be just who you are. You must hide it, and let a woman assume what she wants about you. When you leave room for assumption, you open the door for mistrust. It seems that you are playing for an advantage over a woman, not to be on the same level, as far as communication, with her.

I just be myself. I dont want a woman who is so used to playing games that me being direct and honest is looked at as a sign of weakness. I am confident enough in myself and my abilites that I can hold the interest of the right woman.

Granted, life, in most cases, requires these types of games to be played. I will play the games of life in my everyday persuit of carear progress, and capitol gain, but at the end of the day, when I come home, I dont want to play games. I just want to come home to a woman that I can be honest with. I struggle and play games with the rest of the world, not with my woman. She is my sanctuary, where I can just be myself. Understand?