Why are some guys so jealous?

No, i wouldn't give a blowjob to another guy .... and I don't think that Kissing a gay guy on the cheek is a valid reason... I am very opened with him.

You can't ask you gf that question ... It can make her feel that you don't trust her... unless she just wants to annoy you and most women like to annoy their boyfriends... in that case she will not tell you and she will let you know that she is not happy with what you are saying but inside she will be laughing and probably loving you a bit more because you made her laugh inside.

Are you the picture in the avatar...if so, then I understand the jealousy. If you are not, then no, I don't understand the jealousy.

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Getting hit on is a mere walk in the park for a woman. She does nothing and she gets hit on. So much in fact that it may annoy her. Some, or it seems most women are quite affected by the fact that get so many advances, it makes them a completely different person with very divided attention.

Yep, it really is THAT simple.



^^^^This^^^^^

It is disrespectful when you're in a comitted relationship to go out with people of the opposite sex and engage in kissing other people...even if they're gay, even if...whatever. Grow up. It's not difficult. If you're in a relationship, those things are just not acceptable...

Quit mind fucking him... Simple isn't it.

My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ...

I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him.

Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ...

When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry..

But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before...

Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me.

I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him.

unfortunately OP, this is quite the case, very common in the USA and probabyl elsewhere.

This hits dead center on how it's so hard to have relationships.

If you understand why he felt that way, then why did you post this thread?

Your reply takes nothing away from the last line "If you want to be a socialite for pleasure, stay single.". I'd almost certainly expect that your boyfriend

How hard is it to understand that you don't just kiss friends if you're in a North American relationship. Whether they are gay or not -- maybe he didn't know.

In either case -- you've proven a lack of maturity on this thread (you get a kick out of stressing him out??) and so I wonder why I bother...

Why don't you do both of you a favor and smarten up or go live under the freedom of not being in a relationship so that he doesn't have to stress out so much over a girlfriend that obviously refuses to meet him half way.

teasing, flirting, lead ons, all that definitely can lead to sex.

YOu think it's just "a joke" and "not serious?" What do you think it can lead to, before you know it? Sex as a "joke"? Yea right, try and stop yourself before you get there and gotten all horny and bothered by the sexy jokes. Men use "sexual connotations" as seduction techniques because women often do not care as much about details but "feeling", ie lead a woman's emotions (not the same as gut instinct or "intuition" at all!) to think/emote the sexual, associating himself with the act of sex to the woman such that sex with the guy is not far off since the woman associates INTIMACY with the man.

Duh...

PS obviously you have trust issues of your own if you're not simply asking him what you're asking us.

I wanted to see you comments because i am bored.

I don't think most WOMEN like to annoy their boyfriends...That's a girl thing...Grow up...don't be with a man just to fuck with his feelings, that is sooooo not ok...

teasing, flirting, lead ons, all that definitely can lead to sex.

YOu think it's just "a joke" and "not serious?" What do you think it can lead to, before you know it? Sex as a "joke"? Yea right, try and stop yourself before you get there and gotten all horny and bothered by the sexy jokes. Men use "sexual connotations" as seduction techniques because women often do not care as much about details but "feeling", ie lead a woman's emotions (not the same as gut instinct or "intuition" at all!) to think/emote the sexual, associating himself with the act of sex to the woman such that sex with the guy is not far off since the woman associates INTIMACY with the man.

Duh...

He's probably cheating on you and hasn't broken up with you because he does feel sorry for you. Annoying him because you're bored? No, most women don't like to annoy they're boyfriends. He feels sorry for you because you'll be single forever if he breaks up with you. Youre a bitch. He's getting some on the side from a woman who's actually nice and doesn't get her entertainment from pissing him off.

I'd never have sex with someone else

My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ...

I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him.

Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ...

When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry..

But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before...

Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me.

I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him.

yea you went on a date with a guy, had a good conversation and kissed him on the cheek. duh hes jealouse wtf i mean someone saw it happen and told him. how would you like hearing he was out for dinner with a girl he then kissed on the cheek when they left looking like it was a happy and good date. and someone would tell you....

i get how it doesnt have to be anything at all since i mean thats basicly what a night out with someone looks like. i mean it wouldnt be better if you would have been watching a movie with him at his house or whatever

so yea its a normal thing but its still not a plesent thing i guess

In fact I wonder if this is a bait thread or smtg.

OP, do you have a history of self-injury

hahaha no ...why?

You clearly caused this and didn't learn the first time from your mistake.

Once lost...trust is near impossible to recover.
DUMB DUMB DUMB moves.

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well...they were not dumb moves.... they were just misunderstood

My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ...

I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him.

Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ...

When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry..

But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before...

Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me.

I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him.

I can see why you call yourself Barbie... you're built like one. Your hip to waist ratio is crazy!

...unless you Photoshopped your body. Looks like you used some kinda filter, too.

I think I see the bigger problem. PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO RANT AND RAVE ABOUT THIS POST BEING WRONG...AND THEN TAKE THE TIME TO REALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM SAYING.

Your problem is...YOU! You do not accept who you really are...so, you go off and live in a fantasy world. Part of your fantasy world is that you have to make other people jealous. By "other people" I especially mean your boyfriend or anybody who would get close to you. IIRC, I have seen your posts before...seeing your picture reminded me of the previous posts.

I KNOW you want to claim that you see yourself as pretty...but, in reality you do not see yourself as pretty. The reality shows when you compare yourself to others..IIRC, you see a lot of other people as ugly.

This "why are guys so jealous" is really saying, "I am pretty...don't believe me...I can make my boyfriend jealous!"

Here is the what I can tell you: You are relatively pretty. You are not the blond haired blue eyed woman in your avatar, but, then again...only the woman in that pic is her! Find a guy with a good heart...you haven't done that yet. The reason you haven't found a guy with a good heart is....YOU! If you do not accept yourself for who you are, then nobody else EVER will be able to accept you for who you are...no matter how pretty you are. Strong words, I know. If I was being a jerk to you...I would just move on to another post. I mean and hope the best for you!