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REPORT ABUSIVE REPLY
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Why are some guys so jealous?
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Burt Gummer |
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Are you the picture in the avatar...if so, then I understand the jealousy. If you are not, then no, I don't understand the jealousy.
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24011342 No, I'm this one >>> [ link to i50.tinypic.com] I think I see the bigger problem. PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO RANT AND RAVE ABOUT THIS POST BEING WRONG...AND THEN TAKE THE TIME TO REALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT I AM SAYING. Your problem is...YOU! You do not accept who you really are...so, you go off and live in a fantasy world. Part of your fantasy world is that you have to make other people jealous. By "other people" I especially mean your boyfriend or anybody who would get close to you. IIRC, I have seen your posts before...seeing your picture reminded me of the previous posts. I KNOW you want to claim that you see yourself as pretty...but, in reality you do not see yourself as pretty. The reality shows when you compare yourself to others..IIRC, you see a lot of other people as ugly. This "why are guys so jealous" is really saying, "I am pretty...don't believe me...I can make my boyfriend jealous!" Here is the what I can tell you: You are relatively pretty. You are not the blond haired blue eyed woman in your avatar, but, then again...only the woman in that pic is her! Find a guy with a good heart...you haven't done that yet. The reason you haven't found a guy with a good heart is....YOU! If you do not accept yourself for who you are, then nobody else EVER will be able to accept you for who you are...no matter how pretty you are. Strong words, I know. If I was being a jerk to you...I would just move on to another post. I mean and hope the best for you! Honestly, I just made this post because I wanted to read bad stuff and I wanted to have more bad karma .... the same happens with all of my other posts... but I guess you can be right .. I used to be fat till 9th grade... I lost like 50 pounds... and i've been losing more weight since then... I guess I can be insecure sometimes because i know that i should stop losing weight but I am terrified of being fat again...etc.. That poster above may have hit upon something. You are trying to deal with your own self esteem issues and in the process of doing so you are TESTING your boyfriend to see if you can make him jealous. The only reason you do it is to see if you are attractive to other guys.....but in the meantime....your little flirty behavior to other guys is driving a wedge between someone who really cares about you. The other poster is right....the problem is YOU and your need to feel wanted by other men for whatever insecure reasons you have in your head. Obviously I was right too.....this is a pattern.
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