Why are some guys so jealous?

You are in denial of reality.

I read it....and it doesn't make any difference.
Your choice of words there told everyone where your mind REALLY is.

If you really do love him.....you will STOP all this flirtatious bullsh*t you do behind his back....and in front of him.....PERIOD.

When i was fat I was kind of bullied .... and my family would tell me things... not my parents but my uncles and aunts and grandparents... and when I lost the weight I started to receive a lot of good attention and everyone was so happy around me... in school i started to make more friends and i didn't have any friends when i was fat.....

some very wrong things happened in high school after i lost weight though... very wrong... but I kind of accepted them because those things made me feel attractive... but i don't want to talk about those things....

etc...

I was NOT flirting !!!!!! that's why I said cautious.... because I dont want him to confuse the things i do ... so that means that i will stop "flirting" .

does this remind you of 99% of girls ? they do the most stupid shit, then to turn around and ask " why is it bothering him " ?

Never post your photo at a site like this, you open yourself up to stuff like this:

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Why did you do that? lol

Yes...you are flirting....and the fact that you don't see that is even worse.

AND....you said CAUTIOUS meaning that you aren't going to actually stop.....but instead just make sure he just doesn't see it.
So you are being "cautious" and DEVIOUS now about it.

As opposed to....what you should do...which is...

STOP BEING A FLIRTY WENCH in front of him AND behind his back....PERIOD!!!

believe it or not they do write books to help others understand certain women such as the OP.

... you don't need to talk about those things.

..,, attractive in whose eyes? in the eyes of those who did you wrong?

it may sound strange, generally beings like you have deep insights into different areas concerning the greater spectrum of life. as such a kind of being at your young age, it's not easy to differentiate between identities which grow by either 'good' or 'bad' external experiences.

your core, the entity/being you really and truthfully are will never be lost, but can you remember what this core is? most don't, because of obvious reasons (at least i think it's obvious to you)

i guess at the moment you are kind of stuck, with people, with circumstances, with thoughts, with feelings, with 'energies'.

can you imagine what would happen when you'd cut all ties with all 'friends' for a certain time? it may be unrealistic just now, but it's certainly possible.

people like you tend to intermingle/entangle themselves with numerous 'events' at once - one event more different than the other - and this at times when solitude would be needed, to realign ones self with ones very own core / to heal. this may seem that it needs a certain kind of 'strongness' or 'power' to go this way, and i can truthfully say that imo. you have that 'strongness' or 'power'. You don't need strongness or power from an external source, you never needed that in the first place.

Namaste

Reminds me of this famous painting.
The name fits too considering the conversation here.

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NOOOO... I said cautious like ..... i will be cautious to not do those things anymore ... you are just misunderstanding me

First nothing, then the unknown guy will call, will took some time, then bam!

i hate girls like this

NOOOO... I said cautious like ..... i will be cautious to not do those things anymore ... you are just misunderstanding me

i stopped at "kissed him on the cheek".

there you have it

She will be dumped if she keeps it up.
She has much to learn.

She is from Puerto rico..this is normal everyone does this there. My daughter lives in costa rica they all do it there too.

Why did you do that? lol

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Barbie....I wish you luck.
...but you must SAY what you mean.

Politicians play WORD GAMES like you just did...and that is how they get away with 1/2 the crap they do.

I am very keen on words, phrasing, and what is the TRUE intent of the words. You should be too.

Say what you mean....MEAN what you say.
Get it?

Now go back to your boyfriend and tell him you were an ass and you will NEVER DO IT AGAIN....and then give him a nice wet BJ.
(repeat as necessary over coming months until he believes and trusts you again...i'm serious)


....and don't use the word "CAUTIOUS" around him or your ass will be out the door in the same amount of months.


Now GO! Make haste!

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My boyfriend used to trust me completely but lately he is being way too "protective" ...

I would never cheat on him because he is the love of my life. I've never loved someone as much as I love him.

Everything started a couple of months ago. I went to the movies with a friend because he was studying for the finals. I met a guy and I was talking to him. I was just talking because it was an interesting conversation.. I wasn't flirting or anything.... anyways, after we finished talking I kissed him on the cheek ... Apparently one of my boyfriend's friend saw me ...

When I arrived to my apartment I texted my bf to let him know that I was in my apartment but he didn't say anything... The next day he confronted me ... He told me that I had no shame .... He actually didn't insult me but he was mad... I tried to explain him what happened and I thought he had understood because after my explanation he hugged me and told me that he was sorry..

But now he calls me so many times when I am not with him ... it doesn't annoy me so much because I like to talk with him but it's just that I feel like he is not trusting me like he did before...

Another incident took place last night... We were at a party and I was just socializing ... I was talking to some guys about the french final exam and we were laughing and stuff and I grabbed the hand of one of them because I was explaining something ... my boyfriend saw us and he made a very cute angry face and it made me laugh when I saw him... We went outside and he told me that I shouldn't be playing with him.... He never insults me.

I'm not sure if his friends are telling him bad things about me or what but he has changed a little bit... he is having trust issues ..... btw , I used to date one of his friends but that was before I met him.