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Dating advice for Miggy?

 
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Guys, you've always been a source I feel I can come to if I can't work through something and I'm wondering if you can help me through a predicament. 1dunno1

It's hard to believe I'm 52 years old and am going on five years now of having no desire to form relationships with men. scratching


I dated heavily during my 20's and 30's before finding the man I thought was my soul mate. I have been loyal to him for the past twenty years, even though he pretty much moved on in 2009. I kept thinking he would return to me one day and so I've waited. hiding

I learned yesterday (via that evil FaceBook) that he got married in Cuba last weekend- something we had always talked about doing. dcomp

I'm kind of sick to my stomach this morning but feel if I don't soon address this issue and FORCE myself to go out into the world and even just attempt to socialize then I might as well just hang it all up. bricks


The problem is that my self esteem is pretty shot these days. I'm still the same person inside but I'm certain I don't project the positivity I used to feel and display. cheer

I never used to have a problem going out alone for dinner or even to a wine bar to listen to a little jazz by myself but the thought of doing such things now absolutely terrifies me. uhoh

Fortunately, I don't have the money to do so now anyway. tounge

But there are plenty of places I could venture out to over the next several nights if I could just get a boost of self confidence. 885



Is it even worth it? I mean, does a 50+ year old woman even have a chance in HELL of ever getting married one day? Could my REAL soulmate still be out there wondering where I've been all of his life? Is it pointless for me to even TRY at this late age of life? wtf


I raked leaves yesterday and was given $20 which is a LOT of money for me- especially to BLOW when I could really use it for groceries.

But I feel like it's an investment into my future, as silly as that seems. flower

I'm not expecting to meet anyone really but I feel I must MAKE myself venture back out there. And I HATE the thought of doing this. question

It's further complicated because this is such a small town I live in. Believe me, if I go out in this conservative town alone tonight it will be the gossip at the local Walmart all day tomorrow. secrets

I don't have enough money to get a haircut or anything but I've still got nice clothes, makeup and a killer perfume. ratdance

Thank GOD for dark bars and a $3 lass of wine! wine

Anyone know of a killer, quick course on self-esteem or a motivational pep talk of some kind I can watch? woohoo

Any ideas on what I can do? Where I should go? What I should do if I suddenly have a meltdown? gaah

I am a Christian but I enjoy a laugh-filled evening over a couple of beers as much as anyone. drinks


Please be kind in your comments. I'm feeling a bit fragile at the moment. naughty

Bless you, my dear friends on GLP.

hugs hugs hugs

Miggy

PS. If this works out I'll have a friend snap my photo before I go out and change that awful 4-year old photo of me. You won't recognize the "new" Miggy. On second thought, I'd better keep the older one (taken in better days) up. chuckle
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Dress slutty, theres your dating advice.
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I apologize. I had no idea.

I am going there now to read.

I am so very sorry. Please forgive me.

Mig

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Miggy.

Go to the church that has a singles meeting.
Start there.

Beware of men wearing white shiny loafers.
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I apologize. I had no idea.

I am going there now to read.

I am so very sorry. Please forgive me.

Mig

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hf
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Hook up wif' a Black Man.
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hey Miggy... keep your chin up. lot's of us "olders' are going thru the same thing.

any guy would be LUCKY to have you. you are kind, generous, giving, sensitive and a child of God.

i'm in mid forties now. people say i don't look a day over 35, but when i look in the mirror i don't see it, lol. i'm italian-american, so i will probably look like the ragu lady when i get older, haha. anyway...

lost my husband two years ago. sometime being without my soulmate is excruciatingly painful. and, to top it off, i can't find the energy or drive to start again with somebody new. i don't mind going out for a couple cold ones or hearing a live band, but i'm not much of a big drinker and don't think i am interested in sitting in the bar looking like some aging desperate widow and launching a relationship from that arena. no way!!

i think a good place to start might be singles ministries in a local church, or maybe a speed dating for those of us that ain't 22 anymore.

but, the best thing you can do is to remember that you are a bride of Christ, and when you are ready for a friendship with a man, ask your Father in Heaven to provide His best choice for you.

then spend your time waiting for him to come along.

the self-esteem piece...
that is always a challenge.
focus on the strengths, appreciate the weaknesses, and tell yourself all day that God loves you more than you can comprehend.
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20 elementary school children were just slaughtered and this is what's on your mind?

Here's my advice. Don't date. You're a psychotic piece of crap.
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And you're an asshole dude.
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20 elementary school children were just slaughtered and this is what's on your mind?

Here's my advice. Don't date. You're a psychotic piece of crap.
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be careful. be very careful.
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20 elementary school children were just slaughtered and this is what's on your mind?

Here's my advice. Don't date. You're a psychotic piece of crap.
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escalated
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20 elementary school children were just slaughtered and this is what's on your mind?

Here's my advice. Don't date. You're a psychotic piece of crap.
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People die everyday. It doesn't matter how. The world goes on. 2000 children in the middle east were killed last month where were you? You're a hypocrite piece of shit so mind your own business you twat.
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date a fandango ranger. once you go fandango , you never go back
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Hey Miggy. Is that seriously you in the Avatar Pic? If so I don't think you have much to worry about. But please woman for the sake of the rest of us women here...STOP FUCKING APOLOGIZING! That is a major downfall of women. Don't apologize for anything. Men don't.

Be glad the douchebag moved on. Just live your life in a way to better yourself without having to rely on a dumbass man. Even if you aren't making much money you have control over your own life. NO one to answer to. Get right with yourself and appreciate your own worth. Until then you won't be attractive OR attracted TO anyone else.
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[link to cougarlife.com]


Try it miggy o:


P.S. the commercial makes me and my gf laugh, song is epic tho :P
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20 elementary school children were just slaughtered and this is what's on your mind?

Here's my advice. Don't date. You're a psychotic piece of crap.
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People die everyday. It doesn't matter how. The world goes on. 2000 children in the middle east were killed last month where were you? You're a hypocrite piece of shit so mind your own business you twat.
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THIS
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Hey Miggy. Is that seriously you in the Avatar Pic? If so I don't think you have much to worry about. But please woman for the sake of the rest of us women here...STOP FUCKING APOLOGIZING! That is a major downfall of women. Don't apologize for anything. Men don't.

Be glad the douchebag moved on. Just live your life in a way to better yourself without having to rely on a dumbass man. Even if you aren't making much money you have control over your own life. NO one to answer to. Get right with yourself and appreciate your own worth. Until then you won't be attractive OR attracted TO anyone else.
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This.
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Miggy, I think Salt said it all. Just go back and read her post.

And ignore the cretins who try to make you feel bad.They're very small minded people with no heart.
free your inner baboon.
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no lie about the fandago ranger tho
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hugs I could have written practically everything you said. I turn 55 in a few days (if we make it past 12/21/2012 LOL), been alone for 5 years since leaving my soulmate of 14 years. He wasted no time in moving a new -- much younger -- woman into MY home, MY bed, using MY dishes, as I left with only what I could fit into my small car, though I had bought most if not all the stuff in the house.

Allow yourself to grieve the loss; even though it's been awhile this new marriage has probably opened the old scars and left a raw wound. Cry as much as you need to.

Go for walks. I've met a few men while out walking my dog but am not ready to venture out dating yet. Kudos to you for being ready and willing to try again! Ask God to send you your ideal mate and then be open and friendly to everyone, sometimes the ideal person is not in the package you expect!
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20 elementary school children were just slaughtered and this is what's on your mind?

Here's my advice. Don't date. You're a psychotic piece of crap.
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People die everyday. It doesn't matter how. The world goes on. 2000 children in the middle east were killed last month where were you? You're a hypocrite piece of shit so mind your own business you twat.
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I love when people tell others to mind their business when they themself aren't doing so.

Why don't YOU mind your business, stop budding in and let people say whatever they want? Why don't you lead by example instead of being a hypocrite?
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Hello Miggy,

I tried to respond back...but, it looks like my post was deleted. My post was meant as humorous, but the point would be the same. You are down on yourself and you should not be! There is definitely somebody out there for you! Trust in God. You are better off without the loser!

God Bless!
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Hello Miggy,

I tried to respond back...but, it looks like my post was deleted. My post was meant as humorous, but the point would be the same. You are down on yourself and you should not be! There is definitely somebody out there for you! Trust in God. You are better off without the loser!

God Bless!
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i'm watching this thread.
closely...
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Hey miggy, I don't know you, but from what i've read you're a very nice person. I bet you'll find him soon, be youself and don't let anyone prey you hf
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Hello Miggy,

I tried to respond back...but, it looks like my post was deleted. My post was meant as humorous, but the point would be the same. You are down on yourself and you should not be! There is definitely somebody out there for you! Trust in God. You are better off without the loser!

God Bless!
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i'm watching this thread.
closely...
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No problem - I have interacted with Miggy on other threads. I was sorry for her when her friend died! I definitely think some guy would be absolutely blessed to have her as his wife. Do I think Miggy did anything so terrible that she should be punished with having me as her husband - GRACIOUS NO!!!

laugh
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My best advice is to not look for a mate. Just add to your life, live an exciting life, try to make the best of it...wholeheartedly.

Then once things gave picked up and are moving in a positive direction, it just happens. Or worst case you'll have an exciting awesome life. Either way its a win-win.
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20 elementary school children were just slaughtered and this is what's on your mind?

Here's my advice. Don't date. You're a psychotic piece of crap.
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this dudes a piece of shit.
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Hey Miggy...blessings to you my single friend. My guy died 10 years ago and I still have not had any desire to date....and even afraid to these days. There are some things worse than being single..like being trapped with the wrong person and having no peace of mind because of it. There are some wonderful, caring men still out there...and as already suggested I would try getting involved with Christian groups and church. Ask God to guide you to the right person and know who you are in God..his precious daughter. God only wants the best for you...so be patient and aware that loneliness comes out strong during the holidays.
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Never lose faith Miggy ! Your soul-mate is out there somewhere !
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Best wishes to you for the holidays !hf
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Advise; Be true to yourself.

Take some time, go do something you want to do, not a bar, not a church, not someone else idea of what might be fun, but something you long to do.

You may perhaps find him there doing it also, waiting for a smile, a kind word from you.

I am sorry for your monetary difficulties, wish I could help.
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I love when people tell others to mind their business when they themself aren't doing so.

Why don't YOU mind your business, stop budding in and let people say whatever they want? Why don't you lead by example instead of being a hypocrite?
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YOU are what's wrong with whatever county or borough you live in!

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20 elementary school children were just slaughtered and this is what's on your mind?

Here's my advice. Don't date. You're a psychotic piece of crap.
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You matey are the whole ass.

people are slaughtered all over the world,everyday.
I'm glad I have other things on my mind,oh and I did'nt know any of them personally. So a thought and a prayer is all one can offer, then get on with your life.

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