so my gf talks to some guy friend on my phone and deletes the texts,... but i read one | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 21028534 12/16/2012 04:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It said something like, I like the way you make me feel. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585 Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else.. My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no? In all honesty, with all the bullshit around here set aside, why not confront her about this directly? Let her know you saw the text and it's up to her to understand why you feel the way you do as a result. You are letting her borrow your phone and if your suspicions are correct, she is completely abusing your trust. Proceed with caution... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 22944917 12/16/2012 04:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It said something like, I like the way you make me feel. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585 Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else.. My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no? sounds like shes fucking him. get out now |
| betranysgf User ID: 24867398 12/16/2012 04:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It said something like, I like the way you make me feel. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585 Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else.. My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no? In all honesty, with all the bullshit around here set aside, why not confront her about this directly? Let her know you saw the text and it's up to her to understand why you feel the way you do as a result. You are letting her borrow your phone and if your suspicions are correct, she is completely abusing your trust. Proceed with caution... +1 on the caution, extensive lies can follow confrontation and further awkwardness/unpleasantness due to an imbalance in energy.. |
| betranysgf User ID: 24867398 12/16/2012 04:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It said something like, I like the way you make me feel. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585 Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else.. My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no? sounds like shes fucking him. get out now +1 |
| Bowyn Aerrow User ID: 28433574 12/16/2012 04:28 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Obviously you do not understand how women tick. As such, I strongly suggest you just become gay and stop trying to date/be in a relationship with women. OR, you might want to learn how women think - they think with their heart, everything for a woman is about how they feel... "My Dog, its full of fleas!" -David Bowwow “A paranoid is someone who knows a little of what's going on. A psychotic is a guy who's just found out what's going on.” - William S. Burroughs |
Dr. Acula![]() Forum Moderator User ID: 17960 12/16/2012 05:19 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Send her this video it will let her know you want it to be over I am a HelpTard, need Help? Ask me! Peace Means Reloading Your Guns! Some of my custom graphics are featured in the Official GLP Store: [link to www.cafepress.com] |
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Dr. Acula![]() Forum Moderator User ID: 17960 12/16/2012 05:46 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | nope im the fucker in the video I am a HelpTard, need Help? Ask me! Peace Means Reloading Your Guns! Some of my custom graphics are featured in the Official GLP Store: [link to www.cafepress.com] |
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| skyblau User ID: 29793733 12/16/2012 07:01 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This would be a clue to you that she is unhappy. Instead of badgering her about the text, tell her how much she means to you. Don't be weird about it either. Buy her flowers, and show her some positive attention. If she likes the way he makes her feel, chances are he is being more attentive than you are. If you show yourself to be overly paranoid, overly jealous, or suffocating in your relationship, this could be another reason she is "reaching out". I am a woman, I know these things. Oh and I wouldn't break up yet. Just see if you can change her mind about you. When she starts to look at you in your eyes, she will finally smile at you, or ask you how you feel about something, you are doing something right, and keep doing it. If you can tell that she doesn't want to talk, don't, instead offer her a foot rub, and be silent. When my man thinks I am mad at him, he gets really weird about it, and it annoys me, he follows me around and trys to get my attention too much, "Let me show you this" every five seconds, don't do that. Give her space, but show her you are still there, and willing to give attention. Another thing, if you want to earn brownie points with her, cook her a meal. It don't have to be elaborate, and do a chore she hates to do. Do this more than once. It takes a while to make a woman happy. Don't give up, the rewards are there, if you are patient. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1406242 12/16/2012 07:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | don't listen to all these bitter woman haters. She gave him your phone number, because she obviously didn't see him as a romantic interest, she didn't think he would text your phone with crap like that. He may be doing that to get you to dump her, or push her away, so he can move in, don't fall for that. Trust her, she wants the guy who she believes will stay with her. You can prove how much you love her by trusting her. you are not the fool for loving her, she is the fool if she cheats on you, you can't lose. |
| AmericanInfidel User ID: 9958213 12/16/2012 08:04 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your phone? Go to your cell provider and get a print out of all your text messages. Highlight her conversations and hand it over to her and leave. DO NOT STAY. I don't care how hot, how rich or how cool she is. You do not want to get any deeper. Leave. It's gonna hurt but you'll be better for it. Destroy all that is evil, so what is good may flourish. Guns cause crime like flies cause garbage. KCCO |
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| Intergalactic Diplomat User ID: 25106378 12/16/2012 08:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It said something like, I like the way you make me feel. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585 Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else.. My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no? cheating, guilty by text deletion. sorry, but you seem to be handling it well. move on, break up. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 27317240 12/16/2012 08:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I would imagine he likes her. What she does about that depends entirely on your relationship with her though. If you want to see if it's anything worth being concerned about and asking for advice on a conspiracy forum (lol), just use the phrase "I like the way you make me feel" at some point and see how she reacts. If you can't tell if it sets off a panic alarm in her head, you probably aren't that into her in the first place and the whole thing is moot. |
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| geminilion User ID: 12895036 12/16/2012 08:29 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Can you text the guy? I say have some fun with him, ask him if he likes large objects stuffed up his... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 15488325 nevermind. Text him and pretend you are her, see what he says..... I would text him too and get the info. right from the source. This guy probably doesn't know about you and if he does he needs to know that you know. ..."The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the light of day. The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you choose, what you think, and what you do is who you become. Your integrity is your destiny ... it is the light that guides your way." Heraclitus |
| Artaius Be The Spark User ID: 30037316 12/16/2012 08:29 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Consider this is your real problem. You experience it until you learned that lesson. Stand for yourself and tell her to go. At least make her confront the situation. Whatever way you want to do it. I hate how she thinks its ok, I've told her before, leave me if you ever want to date someone else becUse I've went through shit like this before.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585 Last Edited by Artaius San on 12/16/2012 08:31 AM There will come a time when you believe everything ends. This will be the beginning [Louis L'Amour] my flickr [link to www.flickr.com] |
| remjr1 User ID: 219249 12/16/2012 08:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sad as it is, I got no one to talk to about things like this, so just looking for anonymous support.. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585 IMO there is nothing if there is no trust. Why would she delete the messages if there was nothing to hide? Highly suspect & not something that screams "open, honest, sincere & loving relationship". Sorry, you did ask though ;-| |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 30037111 12/16/2012 08:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Tell her you where testing your phone by sending her a message and you read that one by accident Confront her about it maybe its something harmless or maybe she is a two timing skank or planing to be....... anyway good luck, if she is cheating you can do better |
| geminilion User ID: 12895036 12/16/2012 08:44 AM ![]() Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I feel if you want a true relationship you need to find a Christian woman who will wait to have sex until you get married. otherwise your just going to go through the same thing over and over and over. I would just start talking to God brother and quit having sex and this will make thing happen quick. If she is a keeper she will honor you and have respect for you. If not she will cheat on you even quicker and then you know to move on. And when i say move on i mean Find love with God first and from there you will be able to tell the difference between Love and Lust. I mean noone is perfect either but one thing you truly need in this world and thats someone you can trust. Fact is if she is willing to cheat on you for someone else then she never truly knew what Love is to begin with. Better to love her so much that you need to let her go and only have compassion for her because she will be in a bad never ending cycle where she will become a victum herself to another man. Basicly you can call them Pegans they will go from man to man, or woman to woman and its all because of what they have on the outside mainly, which includes cars, friends, house, material things. I think its truly hard to understand this in a person without Gods help. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 5929355 This as well. Outside the church walls is Hell and in Hell people rob from one another, make a pile and while their backs are turned someone else robs them of their pile. For eternity. Also once God in in your life, you will have a radiance about you. a Happyness and faith that cannot be broken by anyone and this will draw many women your way. i think most of them are the Devil though lol. and want to temp you but this is when you will have to keep strong. Im serous ever since i became a Christian i have been getting hit on by allot of women and everything. See they see the truth in you and pure love and maturity and can tell its something real. Just by simply not wanting to have sex untill your married. This is a powerful wisdom God will give you and with this spirit he gives you, you will awaken to allot of messed up things in this world. When you have you eyes awake to this stuff not only can you see right through the fake people in about 5 minuts of talking to them, you can see the true good souls out there which are very few here in america since mostly have been currupted by our "way of life" which in reality is a prison and people do not even know it. You will notice you cannot even have a decent conversation with most of these women because all they like to talk about are worldly things ect. See i did give up a great women befor because i was to imature ugh oh well. At the time i did not think about it but she was a Christian woman and i kinda believed in God but nothing like i am now "reborn". But I would Give God a try because you will not feel alone again and ontop of that you will have powerful wisdom and Faith and not have Fear in your life anymore which will give you so much confidence and love that you will have to beat the women off you with a stick hehe. im serous, allot of women are starting to wake up to and realize what kind of man they are with and would give anyuthing for a real man with values and willpower and not see them as a peice of meat. See when you wait to have sex it also builds trust because she knows you will not go out with your friends and cheat on her that quick when you made her wait to have sex untill you got married. This simple truth would make you happy that im 100% sure of and can only thank the Lord for this insight :) anyways i wish you the best of luck brother and hope God bless's you, and gives you the eyes to see and the ears to hear his message :) Paragraphs please.... ..."The soul is dyed the color of its thoughts. Think only on those things that are in line with your principles and can bear the light of day. The content of your character is your choice. Day by day, what you choose, what you think, and what you do is who you become. Your integrity is your destiny ... it is the light that guides your way." Heraclitus |
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