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She's doing him..or will be shortly... banana2pigchef
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Re: so my gf talks to some guy friend on my phone and deletes the texts,... but i read one
It said something like, I like the way you make me feel.

Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else..

My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no?
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In all honesty, with all the bullshit around here set aside, why not confront her about this directly?

Let her know you saw the text and it's up to her to understand why you feel the way you do as a result.

You are letting her borrow your phone and if your suspicions are correct, she is completely abusing your trust.

Proceed with caution...
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It said something like, I like the way you make me feel.

Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else..

My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no?
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sounds like shes fucking him. get out now
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It said something like, I like the way you make me feel.

Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else..

My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585


In all honesty, with all the bullshit around here set aside, why not confront her about this directly?

Let her know you saw the text and it's up to her to understand why you feel the way you do as a result.

You are letting her borrow your phone and if your suspicions are correct, she is completely abusing your trust.

Proceed with caution...
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+1 on the caution, extensive lies can follow confrontation and further awkwardness/unpleasantness due to an imbalance in energy..
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It said something like, I like the way you make me feel.

Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else..

My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no?
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sounds like shes fucking him. get out now
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+1
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Obviously you do not understand how women tick.

As such, I strongly suggest you just become gay and stop trying to date/be in a relationship with women.

OR, you might want to learn how women think - they think with their heart, everything for a woman is about how they feel...
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Send her this video

it will let her know you want it to be over

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If she is cheating on you, and you do break up with her.

Send her the link too this thread.
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You Just Got Dumped... (with a little counciling)

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Was this from an ex?
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Send her this video

it will let her know you want it to be over

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Was this from an ex?
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nope

im the fucker in the video
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"I like the way u make me feel" shows emotional attachment...which is worse than mere physical attraction.
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Re: so my gf talks to some guy friend on my phone and deletes the texts,... but i read one
This would be a clue to you that she is unhappy. Instead of badgering her about the text, tell her how much she means to you. Don't be weird about it either.
Buy her flowers, and show her some positive attention. If she likes the way he makes her feel, chances are he is being more attentive than you are.
If you show yourself to be overly paranoid, overly jealous, or suffocating in your relationship, this could be another reason she is "reaching out". I am a woman, I know these things.hf

Oh and I wouldn't break up yet. Just see if you can change her mind about you. When she starts to look at you in your eyes, she will finally smile at you, or ask you how you feel about something, you are doing something right, and keep doing it. If you can tell that she doesn't want to talk, don't, instead offer her a foot rub, and be silent. When my man thinks I am mad at him, he gets really weird about it, and it annoys me, he follows me around and trys to get my attention too much, "Let me show you this" every five seconds, don't do that. Give her space, but show her you are still there, and willing to give attention. Another thing, if you want to earn brownie points with her, cook her a meal. It don't have to be elaborate, and do a chore she hates to do. Do this more than once. It takes a while to make a woman happy. Don't give up, the rewards are there, if you are patient.
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don't listen to all these bitter woman haters.

She gave him your phone number, because she obviously didn't see him as a romantic interest, she didn't think he would text your phone with crap like that.

He may be doing that to get you to dump her, or push her away, so he can move in, don't fall for that. Trust her, she wants the guy who she believes will stay with her. You can prove how much you love her by trusting her. you are not the fool for loving her, she is the fool if she cheats on you, you can't lose.
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Your phone? Go to your cell provider and get a print out of all your text messages. Highlight her conversations and hand it over to her and leave. DO NOT STAY. I don't care how hot, how rich or how cool she is. You do not want to get any deeper. Leave. It's gonna hurt but you'll be better for it.
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I'm a P.I. O.P. If you'd like, I'll send you one of our forensic sticks to plug into your phone. It images the phone and recovers deleted texts all the way back to when you bought it.
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Re: so my gf talks to some guy friend on my phone and deletes the texts,... but i read one
It said something like, I like the way you make me feel.

Is this enough reason to break up with her? I don't want to continue dating her if she's trying to build another relationship with someone else..

My gut says to let her go, I feel a conversation like that is inapropriate and unfaithful in a way, she shouldn't be talking like that unless she's trying to tell the guy she's interested in him, no?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585


cheating, guilty by text deletion. sorry, but you seem to be handling it well. move on, break up.
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I would imagine he likes her. What she does about that depends entirely on your relationship with her though.

If you want to see if it's anything worth being concerned about and asking for advice on a conspiracy forum (lol), just use the phrase "I like the way you make me feel" at some point and see how she reacts. If you can't tell if it sets off a panic alarm in her head, you probably aren't that into her in the first place and the whole thing is moot.
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punch her right in the face and tell her to get the f out
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fuck that bitch up broski
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pic of her for more detailed advice
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Dump her and go and get yer penis checked for any number of STDs she's probably transferred to you from other guys that make her "feel good."
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Can you text the guy? I say have some fun with him, ask him if he likes large objects stuffed up his...
nevermind.
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Text him and pretend you are her, see what he says.....
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I would text him too and get the info. right from the source. This guy probably doesn't know about you and if he does he needs to know that you know.
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Consider this is your real problem.
You experience it until you learned that lesson.
Stand for yourself and tell her to go.
At least make her confront the situation.
Whatever way you want to do it.

I hate how she thinks its ok, I've told her before, leave me if you ever want to date someone else becUse I've went through shit like this before..
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Sad as it is, I got no one to talk to about things like this, so just looking for anonymous support..
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IMO there is nothing if there is no trust. Why would she delete the messages if there was nothing to hide? Highly suspect & not something that screams "open, honest, sincere & loving relationship". Sorry, you did ask though ;-|
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Tell her you where testing your phone by sending her a message and you read that one by accident

Confront her about it maybe its something harmless or maybe she is a two timing skank or planing to be.......

anyway good luck, if she is cheating you can do better
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I feel if you want a true relationship you need to find a Christian woman who will wait to have sex until you get married. otherwise your just going to go through the same thing over and over and over. I would just start talking to God brother and quit having sex and this will make thing happen quick. If she is a keeper she will honor you and have respect for you. If not she will cheat on you even quicker and then you know to move on. And when i say move on i mean Find love with God first and from there you will be able to tell the difference between Love and Lust. I mean noone is perfect either but one thing you truly need in this world and thats someone you can trust. Fact is if she is willing to cheat on you for someone else then she never truly knew what Love is to begin with. Better to love her so much that you need to let her go and only have compassion for her because she will be in a bad never ending cycle where she will become a victum herself to another man. Basicly you can call them Pegans they will go from man to man, or woman to woman and its all because of what they have on the outside mainly, which includes cars, friends, house, material things. I think its truly hard to understand this in a person without Gods help.
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This as well.

Outside the church walls is Hell and in Hell people rob from one another, make a pile and while their backs are turned someone else robs them of their pile. For eternity.
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Also once God in in your life, you will have a radiance about you. a Happyness and faith that cannot be broken by anyone and this will draw many women your way. i think most of them are the Devil though lol. and want to temp you but this is when you will have to keep strong. Im serous ever since i became a Christian i have been getting hit on by allot of women and everything. See they see the truth in you and pure love and maturity and can tell its something real. Just by simply not wanting to have sex untill your married. This is a powerful wisdom God will give you and with this spirit he gives you, you will awaken to allot of messed up things in this world. When you have you eyes awake to this stuff not only can you see right through the fake people in about 5 minuts of talking to them, you can see the true good souls out there which are very few here in america since mostly have been currupted by our "way of life" which in reality is a prison and people do not even know it. You will notice you cannot even have a decent conversation with most of these women because all they like to talk about are worldly things ect. See i did give up a great women befor because i was to imature ugh oh well. At the time i did not think about it but she was a Christian woman and i kinda believed in God but nothing like i am now "reborn". But I would Give God a try because you will not feel alone again and ontop of that you will have powerful wisdom and Faith and not have Fear in your life anymore which will give you so much confidence and love that you will have to beat the women off you with a stick hehe. im serous, allot of women are starting to wake up to and realize what kind of man they are with and would give anyuthing for a real man with values and willpower and not see them as a peice of meat. See when you wait to have sex it also builds trust because she knows you will not go out with your friends and cheat on her that quick when you made her wait to have sex untill you got married. This simple truth would make you happy that im 100% sure of and can only thank the Lord for this insight :) anyways i wish you the best of luck brother and hope God bless's you, and gives you the eyes to see and the ears to hear his message :)
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Paragraphs please....hf
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Why does she talk to him on your phone? OP please elaborate.
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didn't catch that part, good question
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Chances are it wasn't his phone, but he would have sounded like a stalker if he admitted he went thru her private texts via her personal phone. Having said that, if true, your gut is SCREAMING for you to leave. Why wouldn't you?
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Walk up to him and head butt him.

Then jump spit on him.
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Tell her you where testing your phone by sending her a message and you read that one by accident


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no lying.
just be up front and ask her straight.
learn to communicate or your relation has no future.
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Sad as it is, I got no one to talk to about things like this, so just looking for anonymous support..
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1020585


You are worth more , ditch her and find a nice girl who will want to be with you......she sounds like a sneaky one so she s not worth the misery...save the money you would have spent on a Christmas present for her and buy yourself something instead!!!

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