so my gf talks to some guy friend on my phone and deletes the texts,... but i read one

Sounds like she's falling for him.
Just from that one text.
Jeez, imagine what the others say.

go with your gut feeling, she's no good, time to move on

Who fucking cares! I can tell you NO ONE on here does!

Follow the Gut

tell her that you wont let her use your phone to have phone sex with her new man, then call her a cheating whore and kick her out or leave, depending on who owns where you live.

"I like the way you mooove..."

Sad as it is, I got no one to talk to about things like this, so just looking for anonymous support..

be a man not a canadian, and shut the fuck up about your whiney problems.

Why does she talk to him on your phone? OP please elaborate.

move on man she doesnt feel the same way about you as you do to her.

follow your gut

most times, when people begin to suspect infidelity it turns out they were right

if you're not a suspicious person by nature but you begin to think something is wrong, you're probably right

just my .02c

She's gotta go or else you're going to get hurt, man... think about yourself because getting cheated on and all this shit will devastate you.

She'll realize she fucked up and beg for fogiveness and all that after you say goodbye, just don't fall for it...

Ignore your feeling. Emotions are irrational for the most part, unless it is love. Think nothing of it until you have any evidence of anything unfaithful.

Question. Was the text from her to him, or from him to her? I don't mean to sound harsh, but generally, if you are going to be in a mortal relationship, you need to be more dense. Jealousy and paranoia are some of a human's most negative emotions.

didn't catch that part, good question

^this

Assuming you are not trolling.

1) She has no trust in you...deletes texts she doesn't want you to see.

2) She's having text conversations with unknown guys

3) She says to the other guy..."I like the way you make me feel"


Suggestion.....PACK YOUR BAGS NOW YOU ARE ALREADY GONE.



Last Edited by Useless Cookie Eater on 12/15/2012 11:51 PM

Follow the gut.

lol yah actually. The only reason I didn't take that into consideration either is because you would have to be stupid to use your BF's phone to cheat on him with. And erase the messages LOL. didn't even come into my mind. Cuz who would do that to cheat?

Got sent away for repair.

And another thing, Thursday, she said she was going to take her gf out for a late bc dinner, she then came home all stoned from smoking sponsor with the guy at a park.

I hate how she thinks its ok, I've told her before, leave me if you ever want to date someone else becUse I've went through shit like this before..

Well, time for akward conversations tomorrow, you all know how these will go, probally somehow be all my fault, etc etc, ...

I gotta go with this one.

Stop the bleeding now.

Let her

Can you text the guy? I say have some fun with him, ask him if he likes large objects stuffed up his...
nevermind.

Without swearing.

Without yelling.

Without name calling.

Keep your cool no matter what.

And leave her. ASAP.


In a few years the depression will kill her.

Dude... OF COURSE she's giving the other guy the green light.

You need to DROP her like a hot potato, and let HER do the whining and crying.

Otherwise, I guarantee it's going to be YOU.

She was fucking in the park.

It happened to me. Get out.


I have this conversation at least 2-4 times a year.

And no matter how damning the evidence people don't believe me until they are hurt.

GET OUT.

Let the OTHER guy have her.

She will do the exact same thing to HIM.

follow your gut its thier for a reason tell her you just want to be friends.

The general consensus here is to just leave. Which does not surprise me, humans are generally very weak and emotionally immature, no matter how old they are.

All I have to say, is, if you start this trend of being very thin (skinned), irrational, and defensive, it will only get worse later on life with all of your decision making processes. Do not just break up with her. Allow the reality to come to you, and if you are hurt, embrace the pain and learn from the experience. If you are afraid to experience being hurt? Then don't get into a relationship.

And you haven't dumped this stupid cunt's bitch ass yet? the fuck are you waiting for?

Yeah.. this is not ok... What she is doing is wrong.. and she comes home and calls me babe, like she can do this, I'm just grateful I caught on to this asap.. who knows how long shed milk this.

I have to bring this up somehow.. maybe tomorrow, she will say she's going out, I gots to think of a way to say it..

Like oh, ok, hope I can find a woman who makes me feel the way your new man does.. or something, some way to hint her to let this shit unravel... This sucks...