I feel if you want a true relationship you need to find a Christian woman who will wait to have sex until you get married. otherwise your just going to go through the same thing over and over and over. I would just start talking to God brother and quit having sex and this will make thing happen quick. If she is a keeper she will honor you and have respect for you. If not she will cheat on you even quicker and then you know to move on. And when i say move on i mean Find love with God first and from there you will be able to tell the difference between Love and Lust. I mean noone is perfect either but one thing you truly need in this world and thats someone you can trust. Fact is if she is willing to cheat on you for someone else then she never truly knew what Love is to begin with. Better to love her so much that you need to let her go and only have compassion for her because she will be in a bad never ending cycle where she will become a victum herself to another man. Basicly you can call them Pegans they will go from man to man, or woman to woman and its all because of what they have on the outside mainly, which includes cars, friends, house, material things. I think its truly hard to understand this in a person without Gods help.