so my gf talks to some guy friend on my phone and deletes the texts,... but i read one

The fact that she deletes her texts is enough bottom line. She is hiding something from you...that's reason enough bro...move on and find love for yourself and learn to be happy alone...then find a woman that will complement you and your happiness.

Also once God in in your life, you will have a radiance about you. a Happyness and faith that cannot be broken by anyone and this will draw many women your way. i think most of them are the Devil though lol. and want to temp you but this is when you will have to keep strong. Im serous ever since i became a Christian i have been getting hit on by allot of women and everything. See they see the truth in you and pure love and maturity and can tell its something real. Just by simply not wanting to have sex untill your married. This is a powerful wisdom God will give you and with this spirit he gives you, you will awaken to allot of messed up things in this world. When you have you eyes awake to this stuff not only can you see right through the fake people in about 5 minuts of talking to them, you can see the true good souls out there which are very few here in america since mostly have been currupted by our "way of life" which in reality is a prison and people do not even know it. You will notice you cannot even have a decent conversation with most of these women because all they like to talk about are worldly things ect. See i did give up a great women befor because i was to imature ugh oh well. At the time i did not think about it but she was a Christian woman and i kinda believed in God but nothing like i am now "reborn". But I would Give God a try because you will not feel alone again and ontop of that you will have powerful wisdom and Faith and not have Fear in your life anymore which will give you so much confidence and love that you will have to beat the women off you with a stick hehe. im serous, allot of women are starting to wake up to and realize what kind of man they are with and would give anyuthing for a real man with values and willpower and not see them as a peice of meat. See when you wait to have sex it also builds trust because she knows you will not go out with your friends and cheat on her that quick when you made her wait to have sex untill you got married. This simple truth would make you happy that im 100% sure of and can only thank the Lord for this insight :) anyways i wish you the best of luck brother and hope God bless's you, and gives you the eyes to see and the ears to hear his message :)

She's hiding something is enough to move on? No one knows what shes hiding.

Maybe he is a chiropractor and she likes the way he makes her feel. I know mine makes me feel good. Im sure thats all there is to it.

You think most of them are the devil because you are not strong enough or open enough to see the light of their negative emotional immaturity. It is what makes a real man out of you.

No i was trying to be funny in a way, actually i pray for them but i know that when they dress all sexy and try to impress me with "sexyness" it shows how imature they truly are in this world and its quite sad. its not there fault its this stupid system that we live in that creates lust, and preaches it instead of truth and love. See im not going to waist my time on these women, because i know what will happen.. we all know what will happen to these women. But i mean if you meet and women and she wants to go out to a club and get drunk and dress half naked and then try kissing you ect then believe me ... unless your just looking for hook up which is nothing but problems. you not going to have a truly good relationship, it will be full of you guys both not trusting each other. Funny i would just live your life and never sell yourself short. If your looking for a women who appeals to you, mature and nice, and loving and responsible. Then wait until that one comes your way.. and with the things i said in the upper paragraph she will see that in you and it will be a great relationship. But like i said befor allot of women are starting to wake up to the fact they are dating lil boys and want something real, a real mature man ect. Nothing to do with me not openeing my heart to a immature women and taking her in and trying to mature her up ect...

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But she hides none the less. A person with things to hide in our society...needs to grow up before they are really mature relationship material. If she has nothing to hide and it's all so innocent...then she wouldn't be deleting the texts...because it would all be harmless and of no concern. It would be validation to this guy that it's just a friendship or whatever. The act of deleting and hiding is deceitful and immature.

Ya hear that OP

From the sexually aggressive

The hateful

The reasonable

The sound and logical

The christians

They all agree on one thing, your gf is playing you.

Going with your gut is a good idea. Are you aware that the stomach actually has brain cells in it.

The second brain in our stomachs
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Every time I went against my gut it turned into a disaster. Trust your gut. Let her know you read the text and that you are no longer comfortable in the relationship. Sometimes folks are just not a match. It isn't anyone's fault. It's just is what it is. Besides, in a committed relationship both partners do acknowledged that they are attracted to someone from time-to-time but choose not to act on the attraction. Instead they talk about this type of situation to avoid what has happened in your situation. It's useless to play the blame game and not worth your energy. Just release, let go and trust in god. After an extremely difficult break-up in my life - the best person possible walked into it and is still here years later. You just don't know what's waiting for you until you take that next step of faith. Trusting your gut is a leap of faith. Just go with what feels right for you and try not to make too much of her behavior other then to remind her that using your phone for this type of stuff is just tacky.

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Nah you can hide things, like Cancer or a little marijuana habbit.

But cheating is a deal breaker for sure.

The gut is the source of psychic ability.

It communicates with the outside world by in-taking external energy.

Also your hormones are housed in your lower abdomen.

bro, the fact she uses your phone to txt to someone else is a big HINT!!

anyways, check your online call and txt records and find out how many times she called or texted this dude.. you take it from there

LMAO...like cancer! Seems like you can only take that lie so far....like what do you say when you show up 50 lbs lighter with no hair?!

Key-*from your phone*

Based on this expel emotional reaction and pursue logical course. You contact said person as gf as you have the means to do so and pursue communication. This will solidify your feeling with concrete evidence, before you decided making any decision based based purely on emotion. However, emotion/instinct is almost always correct. So sorry she's a cheating whore emotionally maybe physically. But this experience and pursuing my indicated course of action will strengthen your connection with your own instinct, this is a good thing. After all man by nature is a curious creature so pursue line of communication first then proceed. If anything using subterfuge to obtain the truth will enhance your own skill of doing so for future any endeavors where having prior experience will benefit your resultant outcome.

Lol tell them you just climbed Everest

gut, dont look back

Dump her she won't have a phone to talk to him on..... Let him catch her doing the same thing on his phone....

DO IT!! lol

Find another girl bring her home fuck her on the couch while shes home then just ignore her.

I had a situation like this happen about 5 years ago. I was dating a girl originally from Denmark and she was a model. Easily the hottest, tightest piece I ever had, which made it all that more difficult to get rid of her. She was chatting guys up on the phone behind my back and getting texts from "friends" all hours of the night, and finally she went "camping" for the weekend with her best friend while I was stuck working. I come to find out she wasn't exactly camping she was doing massive amounts of cocaine with her ex boyfriend and spent all her bill money. She had her utilities shut off and came crawling back after she realized she had nowhere else to go.

I learned about the ex boyfriend while she was at the store, I took every single belonging of hers in my house and threw it out in my muddy yard. It was hilarious watching her pick up all her shit out of the soggy ground...especially the electronics! I then found out she was also having sex with her best female friend, damn wish they would've let me in on that she was a hot skinny blonde too. If its too good to be true and your gut is telling you somethin aint right then chances are that is the case.

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OP, take the opportunity that the new year brings, to find somebody that appreciates you.

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Whatever you do.... get weird with it.

Dude, she's agoner but you need to bang her in the asshooe before she does!
Just go for it and see what happens...then dump her skanky butt :-)

dont confront her yet install track my iphone its a free app from spple if u use iphone, keylogger your pc if she use it for chat fb etc di ur chk up then bust her ass

i did it to my wife with tex msg and fb pm just screen shot all and save it on line

good luck, be a007

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