what's wrong with you people? he just lost his daughter. he's a remarkable man and very religious. leave people alone to grieve how they must.
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27945631 give. me. a. friggin. break.
i know im jumping in here late but...
when my husband died a couple years ago i was a completely distraught disaster. i was sobbing uncontrolled for days and weeks at a stretch. i didn't eat a morsel and women had to come and help me to choke down a few bites here and there. by the time of the memorial i was asked to speak and my brother in law and my son had to hold me up because i couldn't even stand. my face was swollen, i dropped 30 lbs in a two month period. i was a complete wreck.
when i was asked to speak to anybody about him, i would break down and would not be able to contain myself. for weeks after, if a thought of him came to mind, again, i would break down and not be able to even stand on my feet sometimes.
i can't imagine losing a child.
two years later i have become somewhat of a shut-in. i have been grieving so hard, my kids, friends and GLP has been the only thing that has saved me from cracking like an egg.
the response from these people is sickening to me.
there is absolutely no evidence of real grief, shock or anything.
