Right, OP - the 'blonde survivor' is indeed the one who hams it up to the camera in the first Daily Mail family shot which you posted.

The photo op with Obama is obscene. What happened to the other little girl is anyone's guess. She actually looked too intelligent to be stuck with that bunch.

In the Daily Mail story, the photo of the blond girl in the pink top is supposed to be the dead girl. But no, she is the same as the one hugged by Obama afterwards in the group photo op with the 'family.'

By the way, the Daily Mail often has better articles about events in the USA than most of the other news websites in America. More details. More background. I check their stuff daily.