I agree homosexuality is not normal, but I still can't help being attracted to men.

Something got messed up in the above reply so I will try again.:0)



"You are very welcome!

Now if you really want to be a better individual it will happen. But you have to want it. I will give you a quick affirmation to say everyday. Say "I want to be better and better every day in every way". Say this over and over to yourself until you get a BIG yawn. That means the affirmation has stuck.

Then each day thereafter(you can say it in the morning or whenever you feel like it) you can leave out the 'want' part of the statement since your subconscious mind nows understand you really want to get better and continue with "I AM better and better every day in every way" again do this until you get a big yawn. Then see what comes your way that help you to be a better person. It is quite a journey.

So good mental, emotional, physical and spiritual help for you."

well, sex is the highest please. and sex is all about giving pleasure and taking pleasure.

You have low testosterone.

Hormone therapy will fuck you up.

Just never act out on it. You're life will get significantly worse (socially, aids, regret)

Ok, you might not have these urges but if others had and many of them do, what would you advise them to do?

Exactly, you would resist the urges, the temptation, the lust.

Well i do control those urges. I don't masterbate, don't watch porn, don't have sex with men, don't touch them, It just comes to mind. It's wrong. I wish I knew what to do to stop. Whenever I'm in bed, the urge comes to me. I begin to fantasize but I stop myself. Hm..

And I would recommend for those that have problems and are attracted to things they shouldn't be, to back the fuck off or get mental health. Drink pills or do what they can, because these things hurt people especially kids.

Yes I'm sure sex is great even though I never had it or experienced it. I'm just not sure about doing it with a guy or being done by a guy. Women are more my thing, I guess I'm just very picky. I don't want to be hurt.

You mean homosexuality is not the Norm at approx 12% out of 100 people which is alot.

Why not just accept what you are attracted to instead of pointlessly battling it.
There are so many different expressions of sexuality, the only truly unacceptable ones are pedophilia or sex with animals.
But homosexuality is something a person is born with most often. It's not a crime, just choose an audience that won't bash or try to change what is just part of your being.

I know plenty of guys and women who don't advertise or affect their speech. But if you do, so what.

Best of luck to you :)

you are attracted because of something you need and want,
something that will make you feel more complete.
it would be wise to do some research and see if you can find
a therapist who has experience with this. there are ways of getting
what you need from relationships so you won't be so vulnerable to these feelings.
but it is hard work and society needs a lot more enlightenment regarding the needs of men.
life is a journey, Godspeed

Sex is a gift from God. No sin in it. Consenting is the only way. Done for fun or procreation.

well, you never see it coming. so: onward thru the fog!

Right. There are no victims between consenting adults either.
When I think of how many heterosexual predatory rapists and pedophiles there are you gain some perspective.

My uncle Richie was a gay man, and he was kinder and more nurturing than my own parents. I was just 9 (girl) and wrote to him until he asked me to stop sending bug specimens in my letters.

WRONG eh?
You understand this?
Who taught you this understanding?

Listen. BE who you are or at least BE willing to BE who you are~

it's confusing when half of the people tell you it's normal and the other half tell you it's not. what are you to believe?

Get into wrestling? You might get hurt, but then again it sounds like you would like that.

My bf is a gay man. I accept him and his lifestyle. I respect him because for him it's not all about sex, he has been celibate for a looong time and looking for a loving life partner but all he finds are guys just wanting encounters. Honestly it sounds like that's what you are looking for too. Check Craigslist maybe? Why are your posting about it here, why not just go out and get what you dreaming about? Lots of men out there looking for encounters.

I post these concerning all sin, we ALL have sin, OP. Theft, murder, hate, adultery, jealousy, lying...etc. And even if we can't see it, believe me, it is there deep in the heart.

From the Christian point of view, it is not a sin until one acts upon it and even then, we are not to judge, it is between YOU and GOD. He tells us that fantasizing about it is like doing it, because it usually leads to acting upon it, sort of like serial killers spend months to years fantasizing about their crimes and eventually most act upon those fantasies. Christians as well still have sin, but when we feel these thoughts rising within us, this is when we pray for God's assistance, because our 'fleshly desires' will always war against our spirits. We know what we ought to do, this is our spirit, but our flesh if not led by the spirit will desire the opposite and will be carried out.


Galatians 5:17

17 For the sinful nature desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful nature. They are in conflict with each other, so that you do not do what you want.


James 1:13-15

13 When tempted, no one should say, “God is tempting me.” For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; 14 but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. 15 Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.


Matthew 5:27-30

27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.’ 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to go into hell.


Matthew 15:19-20

19 For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, sexual immorality, theft, false testimony, slander. 20 These are what make a man ‘unclean’;


John 8:7

7 When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “If any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”


We all have 'fantasies' about things that we know are not socially acceptable or considered accepted in the Bible. If you don't believe in the Bible then you are free to live your life as you see fit and any consequences will inevitably be charged at the end of your life, again between God and you...believe what you will.

Good to hear, those urges are not your friend, they are your enemy and the adversary uses them to make you break the Holy Law of God which if you do so and do not repent and you die, then you will miss out on the opportunity of eternal life and instead inherit the Lake of Fire, total annihilation, dying the second death. God bless you.

The correct way to view those urges is as tests because that is what they are. God uses the Devil our Adversary to test us and see if we love him and are obedient to his Commands. Don't let Satan win, resist him and he will flee!

Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. James 4:7

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You one sick puppy, what say you go toss a few salads and come back and tell us how good it was, k?

Euu, not at all. I am a virgin for a reason. I am not looking for sex or to get hurt. I'd like to find someone who wants to be with me forever. I came here looking for advice basically. People tell me thinking sexually about a guy is wrong, but then some think it's fine to be curious. If I were to do something with a dude it would have to be serious and emotional. But I lucky must you be to encounter something like that.

According to the Bible, sex is a gift from God for heterosexual, married couples only.

If it was normal we wouldn't even be having this conversation. It would just be accepted like heterosexual sex is. There is no controversy about that. But there is controversy when it comes to non-heterosexual sex between non-married couples. That should tell you it is not normal. It has never been normal .

i recommend it for pleasure only. for procreation it's
a 18 year prison sentence.

"Normal" means nothing.

No one on GLP is normal.

if it feels good, do it.

OP, we are all fighting this war; they may differ in the tiny details, but in the big picture we ALL are in need of trying to become better individuals, this does not make you a bad person, if it does, then we all are.

Sorry, typed in the quotes.

OP, we are all fighting this war; they may differ in the tiny details, but in the big picture we ALL are in need of trying to become better individuals, this does not make you a bad person, if it does, then we all are.

ask any old woman and she will tell you: "if i had it
to do all over again, i'ld be a wild one".

Well, then you're a fag.

It is a spirit to come and plague you = all the demons out of the river Euphrates have been released = resist it = the apocalypse is the human race who are the living dead and spirits are allowed to enter all empty vessels as they have rejected God as their Saviour, it is a war against God Himself by humans who are now Satan incarnate, and God Himself wars against the human race who are demon possessed !

As the human race was wiped-out in Noah's day by an act of God, so is it about to be wiped-out in our day by an act of God.

Peace is when no such thing as death occurs = eternity = that is where the brink is now, Grace blends into eternity and the lost in the world of sin, are removed from God's presence never to enjoy the beauty of the creation of earth again !

The Grace dispensation for us has been 2000 years during which time God built His church, His beloved Bride Who inherits the earth = goes back to what it was in the Garden of Eden BEFORE Eve was beguiled = Perfection = no such thing as death = eternity !

As Jesus was killed at His first coming so was He killed again at His second coming = the world of sin did not even notice = called it "a pie in the sky"

FINISHED !