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BRIEF User ID: 381742 United States 12/20/2012 02:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just like flushing the toilet when you're done...you don't cuddle with the commode do you? you're definitely the soul of glp I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked. |
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Thor's Hamster User ID: 133067 United States 12/20/2012 02:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's possible to tell when a woman is faking it. Quoting: Astral Goat If she starts to sound like an animal, you're doing it right. OP, maybe you should start opening up more to her. Yes. Start with your ass cheeks. Apollo astronauts couldn't have passed through Van Allen's Belt. Van Allen wore suspenders. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 7138989 United States 12/20/2012 02:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it's only normal if you've ejaculated or at least in excess. Literally when u ejaculate you ejaculate all the lover hormones you had built up for her during the sex act and even before that. Besides that also, ejaculation is by the sympathetic (fight or flight/fear/adrenaline) nervous system. So in a sense ejaculation or ejaculation in extreme (ie fully emptying out) will cause overstimulation of the sympathetic nervous system PLUS being weak and less loving due to depletion of your reserves of hormones. see, to "charge" up that sexual intoxication you use the parasympathetic nervous system stimulation but to ejaculate you use the sympathetic nervous system. That's somewhat key to seeing how the Coolidge effect occurs. It can be worked around though with tantric sexual technique and/or taoist sexual techniques. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 30053416 United States 12/20/2012 02:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She probably doesn't want to hang out with you either would be my guess but she just feels bad for you. i rly don't know, i make her squeal like a pig so i think she enjoy it Girls fake that all.the.time. She probably doesn't want to hang out with you either would be my guess but she just feels bad for you. i rly don't know, i make her squeal like a pig so i think she enjoy it Girls fake that all.the.time. Who cares, as long as I make a deposit is all that matters. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 7138989 United States 12/20/2012 02:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it's only normal if you've ejaculated or at least in excess. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7138989 Literally when u ejaculate you ejaculate all the lover hormones you had built up for her during the sex act and even before that. Besides that also, ejaculation is by the sympathetic (fight or flight/fear/adrenaline) nervous system. So in a sense ejaculation or ejaculation in extreme (ie fully emptying out) will cause overstimulation of the sympathetic nervous system PLUS being weak and less loving due to depletion of your reserves of hormones. see, to "charge" up that sexual intoxication you use the parasympathetic nervous system stimulation but to ejaculate you use the sympathetic nervous system. That's somewhat key to seeing how the Coolidge effect occurs. It can be worked around though with tantric sexual technique and/or taoist sexual techniques. it happens to women too who are overcharged in their sympathetic nervous system after unsatisfactory sex or plain and simply you even stimulate her sympathetic nervous terminals too much or in excess of the parasympathetic. She may though express it in an opposite way by being overly attached but with perhaps a subconscious mechanism that is really for leaving you which is HER coolidge effect. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 29256427 Japan 12/20/2012 03:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, this is (very!) normal and when you really want this tell it to her! For Males Sex is (mostly) a hard Work because toooooo many of the Females just want to get fugged, they just lie on the Back, etc but do mostly nothing, at least by my experience! Of course there are more active one but they are more than rare! You should tell her that she need to make a Coffee for you or she should buy some cold Beer from the Combini, 7/11! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24513878 United States 12/20/2012 03:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's normal for guys to leave after sex. Or at least want to. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23015484 After I bang my wife she likes me to leave it in her while we fall asleep together. But I usually want to get up and run around and drink jäger shots and smoke bongs. So usually after she knocks off ill slowly slide it out and creep out. |
Thor's Hamster User ID: 133067 United States 12/20/2012 03:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's normal for guys to leave after sex. Or at least want to. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23015484 After I bang my wife she likes me to leave it in her while we fall asleep together. But I usually want to get up and run around and drink jäger shots and smoke bongs. So usually after she knocks off ill slowly slide it out and creep out. You're a virgin, aren't you? ;) Apollo astronauts couldn't have passed through Van Allen's Belt. Van Allen wore suspenders. |
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Thor's Hamster User ID: 133067 United States 12/20/2012 03:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's not uncommon for men to want to be alone or lose interest in their partner right after sex. It has to do with the way the brain chemicals change. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 551387 Men have a dopamine response that sets them up for it, their job being done for the moment. It can also make them tired or sleepy. Women on the other hand have a release of a brain chemical that makes them desire contact. So they want to cuddle. It's reassure to them, and helps them feel that they won't be left alone. So the long and short of it? If you like the woman at all, stay awake and cuddle with her, so that she'll feel safe and protected. If you don't really care and want to keep her on the hook for later sex, head out and get away from her, which will force her to feel badly about herself and try to pursue you. Your feelings are normal, but what you do with them are up to you. Or key your car. Apollo astronauts couldn't have passed through Van Allen's Belt. Van Allen wore suspenders. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 17431247 United States 12/20/2012 03:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | it's only normal if you've ejaculated or at least in excess. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 7138989 Literally when u ejaculate you ejaculate all the lover hormones you had built up for her during the sex act and even before that. Besides that also, ejaculation is by the sympathetic (fight or flight/fear/adrenaline) nervous system. So in a sense ejaculation or ejaculation in extreme (ie fully emptying out) will cause overstimulation of the sympathetic nervous system PLUS being weak and less loving due to depletion of your reserves of hormones. see, to "charge" up that sexual intoxication you use the parasympathetic nervous system stimulation but to ejaculate you use the sympathetic nervous system. That's somewhat key to seeing how the Coolidge effect occurs. It can be worked around though with tantric sexual technique and/or taoist sexual techniques. it happens to women too who are overcharged in their sympathetic nervous system after unsatisfactory sex or plain and simply you even stimulate her sympathetic nervous terminals too much or in excess of the parasympathetic. She may though express it in an opposite way by being overly attached but with perhaps a subconscious mechanism that is really for leaving you which is HER coolidge effect. This rings true for me. I once had a guy ditch me after sex and I got all needy and pathetic and spent days wondering what I did wrong and then I realized I was just really pissed off that I didn't get to ditch him first, because I was going to do that anyway. Guess he sensed that and beat me to it, otherwise he probably would have been the one nursing a bottle of vodka for 3 days "heartbroken". |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 17431247 United States 12/20/2012 03:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's normal for guys to leave after sex. Or at least want to. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23015484 After I bang my wife she likes me to leave it in her while we fall asleep together. But I usually want to get up and run around and drink jäger shots and smoke bongs. So usually after she knocks off ill slowly slide it out and creep out. You're a virgin, aren't you? ;) Yeah. That doesn't work for those of us actually having sex because we rarely end things in the missionary position and I don't particularly enjoy a 175 lb man laying on top of me while I am trying to sleep. |