Do women still respect you if you let them take control over you in bed?

Not if you let them all the time

whats the point of sex or procreation when we're all just a bunch of fat sacks of shit

Have you tried it before?

I guess not many on this board has let women lead them. Or maybe not many on this board have a sex life

It is a womans nature to try to dominate a man, IN EVERY VENUE OF LIFE. No matter what you do, she will find a way not to respect you. Women play stupid games, and they will never acknowledge this fact. Fuck them and leave them. It is the only way.

Boy some men are bitter. Respect from a woman doesn't come in the bedroom. It comes from what kind of person you are. If you let yourself be dominated in all other aspects of your life you'll never have respect. Respect is something that is earned over time, never given. This goes for anyone, not just women. Whether it be your boss, your co-workers or your friends. If your known as a push over, you'll be a pushover. Until you have some self respect.

The best way to earn a woman's respect is to spend part of your life with them. Let them see how you handle problems, and various issues that come up in your life. That's how you earn respect.

You're post is way too cliche

And true, as anyone who's been involved with a real woman would know.

No, but if they experience multiple organism they will let you act like the boss in front of your friends. (on a few occasions)

I'm going to take it that you're a young man. Sex is a two way street and a mutual activity. It can't be all one way or another. The bottom line is that you need to give them an orgasm.

You show them who is boss.

And if they don't submit.

You psychologically break them down.

And build them back up again.

Last Edited by Open Your Eyes on 12/21/2012 08:13 PM

Wake up and smell the coffee, women will not respect you, not matter what.

I have gotten a woman to cry with 30 seconds of meeting her.

Found her trigger and pushed it.

Is this the secret to controlling women?

It is not the best route.

However, you have to mimic their father to get their respect.

Oh great, another soy'd up GMO girlyboy junkie.

Me too! About the crying that is.

Except they had only heard my voice over the phone.

When they saw my face in the first 30 seconds they cried and cried and cried.

They cried "Why is he so average... Why is he so average"...

If you create emotional stress/abuse during the courting phase it will bond her psyche to yours.

And she will WANT YOU to PROTECT her.

so ordinary life is different from what happens in the bedroom.
yes there are some dom/sub relationships that are master and slave scenarios. but most aren't.
i like to be dominated in bed. but that doesn't mean that i want my partner to be domineering or disrespectful all the time.
if you have good boundaries and know how to communicate them without yelling, then you will have the respect of a woman.
the communication is key. lots of men are shitty communicators. and women are all about communication.
but it has to be done safely and without threat of violence/anger.
be firm definitely. don't be a push over. know yourself and your limits. and share them.
just be open to give and take....in the bedroom and regular life.

You want to find a woman where you DON'T have to do any of this.

A NATURAL connection IS the BEST.

hmmm

What if you dont?

Depends on the girl. Depend on the situation. Depends on the time of month.

A girl ovulating will ride your dick till sunrise. A girl on PMS will expect you to do all the work and complain while you do it.

Then you should spend your time looking for a NATURAL CONNECTION.

You can get ANY Woman to Like You.

However, that is NOT in YOUR best interest.

Long Term.

A natural connection cant last that long in my opinion. Maybe a little while but not forever

Respect cannot be bought or given, it must be earned.

Natural connections last years.

Find the right Frequency of Woman

Well when you put it like that AC, I could almost feel attractive

Sometimes we like to be in control in bed. Other times we love it when we get you so hot that we come home from, say a party, and you are very aggressive in wanting us. Not to the point of rape of course, and depending on the woman she may not want you to rip her shirt off, but that can be very hot to know that she got you that turned on.

If she says no or squirms out of your grasp then she's not into it but most women want a man to take charge sometimes and act like he's wild with desire for her. Make sure she knows you're not just plain horny, but horny for HER. That she's the one driving you wild.

I don't think so, but that's not my style. Normally the guy takes control and I like it that way but once in awhile I will be the one to take the lead so to speak. I knew a guy who always wanted the woman on top. That is not my personal style so I don't think we would have jived in bed. We almost had a relationship but never did because he turned out to be crazy, but that's beside the point.

Anyway, I don't think most women like to take control. I think it makes us feel womanly for the man to get things going. Personally I think porn is really warping men's perception of sex and what it is and should be. A woman doesn't enjoy being ejaculated on in her eyes etc. It's really sad how porn has really caused so much sexual dissatisfaction for both men and women. My two cents.