Do women still respect you if you let them take control over you in bed?

Not if you let them all the time

whats the point of sex or procreation when we're all just a bunch of fat sacks of shit

Have you tried it before?

I guess not many on this board has let women lead them. Or maybe not many on this board have a sex life

It is a womans nature to try to dominate a man, IN EVERY VENUE OF LIFE. No matter what you do, she will find a way not to respect you. Women play stupid games, and they will never acknowledge this fact. Fuck them and leave them. It is the only way.

Boy some men are bitter. Respect from a woman doesn't come in the bedroom. It comes from what kind of person you are. If you let yourself be dominated in all other aspects of your life you'll never have respect. Respect is something that is earned over time, never given. This goes for anyone, not just women. Whether it be your boss, your co-workers or your friends. If your known as a push over, you'll be a pushover. Until you have some self respect.

The best way to earn a woman's respect is to spend part of your life with them. Let them see how you handle problems, and various issues that come up in your life. That's how you earn respect.

You're post is way too cliche

And true, as anyone who's been involved with a real woman would know.

No, but if they experience multiple organism they will let you act like the boss in front of your friends. (on a few occasions)

I'm going to take it that you're a young man. Sex is a two way street and a mutual activity. It can't be all one way or another. The bottom line is that you need to give them an orgasm.

Wake up and smell the coffee, women will not respect you, not matter what.

Is this the secret to controlling women?

Oh great, another soy'd up GMO girlyboy junkie.

Me too! About the crying that is.

Except they had only heard my voice over the phone.

When they saw my face in the first 30 seconds they cried and cried and cried.

They cried "Why is he so average... Why is he so average"...

so ordinary life is different from what happens in the bedroom.
yes there are some dom/sub relationships that are master and slave scenarios. but most aren't.
i like to be dominated in bed. but that doesn't mean that i want my partner to be domineering or disrespectful all the time.
if you have good boundaries and know how to communicate them without yelling, then you will have the respect of a woman.
the communication is key. lots of men are shitty communicators. and women are all about communication.
but it has to be done safely and without threat of violence/anger.
be firm definitely. don't be a push over. know yourself and your limits. and share them.
just be open to give and take....in the bedroom and regular life.

hmmm

What if you dont?

Depends on the girl. Depend on the situation. Depends on the time of month.

A girl ovulating will ride your dick till sunrise. A girl on PMS will expect you to do all the work and complain while you do it.

A natural connection cant last that long in my opinion. Maybe a little while but not forever

Respect cannot be bought or given, it must be earned.

Well when you put it like that AC, I could almost feel attractive

Sometimes we like to be in control in bed. Other times we love it when we get you so hot that we come home from, say a party, and you are very aggressive in wanting us. Not to the point of rape of course, and depending on the woman she may not want you to rip her shirt off, but that can be very hot to know that she got you that turned on.

If she says no or squirms out of your grasp then she's not into it but most women want a man to take charge sometimes and act like he's wild with desire for her. Make sure she knows you're not just plain horny, but horny for HER. That she's the one driving you wild.

I don't think so, but that's not my style. Normally the guy takes control and I like it that way but once in awhile I will be the one to take the lead so to speak. I knew a guy who always wanted the woman on top. That is not my personal style so I don't think we would have jived in bed. We almost had a relationship but never did because he turned out to be crazy, but that's beside the point.

Anyway, I don't think most women like to take control. I think it makes us feel womanly for the man to get things going. Personally I think porn is really warping men's perception of sex and what it is and should be. A woman doesn't enjoy being ejaculated on in her eyes etc. It's really sad how porn has really caused so much sexual dissatisfaction for both men and women. My two cents.

THATS what happens when ya flop ya pin prick dick out TOO SOON..


Id cry too if I was a woman and saw a two inch slug.

As a woman, I will tell you this much, hope it helps. I cannot have an orgasm with someone I don't know and trust, so one night stands for me would never result in an orgasmic experience. It can feel very good but I won't be able to let go until I trust the man. I've been with guys who wanted to give me an orgasm the first encounter and it doesn't work that way with me, so sometimes they feel let down. You guys need to understand that for women, it gets better with time as we get to know and trust you. So, let's not pressure guys into needing to give us an orgasm when the fact is, we probably won't let you, no matter how good it feels, it's too intimate, ESPECIALLY if it's oral. Just give us time and then you will see us come out of our shells. Nothing kills a woman's sex drive faster than feeling like she is being used for sex alone, or that the guy has issues with women or in general, personality, mental disorders, etc. You have to make us feel you are a good person, and sane, and sensitive, and kind, and also manly and sexy. That's how it works for me anyway.

Speak for yourself. A girl "on PMS" lol, let me tell you something inexperienced one, get yourself a jacuzzi and do us at that time in the jacuzzi and it's great for both, and no mess. A lot of us are very sensitive at that time but it's pretty gross to do anything then unless it's in the water, then you will have a lot of fun.

And the ride your dick till sunrise, that really depends on the guy and the chemistry and if there are any illicit substances involved.

WAKE UP


You wouldn't be in bed with her if she didn't give you permission...

They are always in control...

That's the reason they let you hang around with them...to provide food & shelter for them...

You're just the money provider and every once in a while she'll throw you a bone...

I doubt there is any woman like that

I think you used the wrong word there Chief.

As a woman, let me just say, you guys are fucking clueless.

Then school us