Holy Shit guys, I am in LOVE. I need some help here, Im freaking out!!!

Its lust, love takes awhile.

Congratulations OP! Sometimes, you just "know." My boyfriend and I had been dating 6 weeks when we both said the "L" word to each other and we're still together almost 6 years later.

IS SHE SINGLE? Don't fuck with married people..

ONLY REAL WAY to tell if SHE is faking it IS ...... Sitting about one foot from her face, look at the size of her pupils as she gazes at a INANIMATE object near by that you just asked her to look at ( Where there is NOT stronger light than when she is looking at you, as that makes pupils constrict ).

When she looks back at you, notice the change in the size of her pupils :

1. If smaller, she DISLIKES YOU !

2. If the SAME size, you mean NO MORE than the inanimate object !

3. IF the enlarge ( which she has NO CONTROL OVER ), she wants to see MORE of YOU; i.e. She loves you !

It's a fool proof experiment, as proven in the book written in the late 1960s called "Man the Naked Ape". I attended a lecture in 1970 at college, by him, in which it was all explained. NO, I don't remember his name.

Eagle

You got money OP? It might be your money she is in love with.

Just be careful it's not just good sex. Nature has a way of tricking us and then we end up miserable a few years later. You don't want that what the hell was I thinking moment. I also have a 6 month theory....if you live with someone for six months it's about the time the fairy dust wears off.

Agreed. Easy to mistake the two, sadly.

GREAT advice.

Depends on how hot/sexy this girl is. If she's super hot, you need to cool it (a little).

If she's average, you still need to cool it.

If she's a troll, you STILL need to cool it.

Women are messed up, man. Particularly Westernized women.

Have fun, but realize, all that you give of yourself to her is something she'll eventually take away, and it's never the other way around.

Sounds right to me. It was like that with my wife, and 15 years later we're still going strong. There have been bumps in the road but nothing too big.

On the other hand, my girlfriend before that was more a relationship we spent a lot of time "working on". And it never got better than that. It lacked the "real thing".

Women are either "in" or "out". Yours is "in". You don't have to sell yourself any more.

I'd take a step back just to decide if there's any non-emotional reason you would not want to commit to her and give up all the other several billion women in the world. Intelligence? Health? Race? Looks? Opinion on having children? Do a sanity check here.

And if it's all positive, all tradeoffs that you _are_ willing to make, go for it. And have a great life together!

hey OP,

charish what you 2 have !
this is the way it should be.
try to keep this feeling alive between you 2 forever.

whish you all the best !
enjoy!

(and i am a bit jealous....;) )

Roll with it OP, it's a rare gift. Wether it's lust or love. There is definitely a chemical reaction going on. I believe there is some science behind that.

The Naked Ape, by Desmond Morris

[link to en.wikipedia.org]

that's it, right? I remember that book!

Enjoy your marriage, kids and a life long slavery and misery.
I'm a virgin, btw. Best decision I ever made. Hecker out.

how old are you? Enjoy life to the fullest. If you found love, enjoy it. Just don't bring any children in the world just yet... Enjoy each other first...

whatever u do don't have any kids. in all probability they will be taken from you. besides u won't be able to afford to feed them.

I have two kids, we had them early on, it was the best thing we did.

So there you go ...

If the marriage is strong enough, it can withstand the addition of many children!

Love is fantastic...however.....

If you are feeling "freaked out" be careful it is not just an infatuation. Some people love being IN love but don't know how to handle things that seriously come along.

ALWAYS wait, never rush. You two have to live through the good times and the bad times to see if it's real love or infatuation. After all you just started saying the "L" word. Will you both still be in love if one loses a job or is offered a job elsewhere, if one gets seriously sick, if one loves football and the other hates it....

Wait and BE SURE. The alternative can be a nightmare,

take care.. she might be an actor

have either of you farted out loud or under the covers yet ?

It's the honeymoon phase dude. Don't freak out just yet, I doubt either of u are in love with each other though. Love takes time to grow...2 mths ain't enough. Go with the flow, take your time, give it some more mths and see if y'all will feel the same way then. Still, ENJOY THE HAPPY MOMENTS TOGETHER

Yep...this has proven to be true.

live together for at least 2 years before making any other further decision's.


please!

Rock it out, OP, but don't move in together until a full year, certainly don't get married before 3, and no kids until five.

Understand?

If she loves you she will give you her butt ho. That is the true test.

You don't know her. You're in love with the false self. You haven't even mentioned one quality she has.

Who cares if it's too fast?!
Tomorrow may be your last so I say embrace the moment

It all comes down to money...Which one of you has the most?

If she's rich....yes then fall in love....If you're rich dump her...

Im not in this thread butt i love the quote.
playing hide and sneak.
gotta go.

get "are you the one for me"

score her up