Holy Shit guys, I am in LOVE. I need some help here, Im freaking out!!! | |
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Kristina User ID: 29622531 United States 12/22/2012 10:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Congratulations OP! Sometimes, you just "know." My boyfriend and I had been dating 6 weeks when we both said the "L" word to each other and we're still together almost 6 years later. DOOM better not interrupt my Walking Dead!! |
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Eagle # 1 User ID: 29216719 United States 12/22/2012 10:10 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ONLY REAL WAY to tell if SHE is faking it IS ...... Sitting about one foot from her face, look at the size of her pupils as she gazes at a INANIMATE object near by that you just asked her to look at ( Where there is NOT stronger light than when she is looking at you, as that makes pupils constrict ). When she looks back at you, notice the change in the size of her pupils : 1. If smaller, she DISLIKES YOU ! 2. If the SAME size, you mean NO MORE than the inanimate object ! 3. IF the enlarge ( which she has NO CONTROL OVER ), she wants to see MORE of YOU; i.e. She loves you ! It's a fool proof experiment, as proven in the book written in the late 1960s called "Man the Naked Ape". I attended a lecture in 1970 at college, by him, in which it was all explained. NO, I don't remember his name. Eagle |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 30633959 United States 12/22/2012 10:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So its been two months. and we are already telling each other the L word....its feel right. she tells me it feels right, i tell her. and i feel that way. Quoting: lovebird. 25729345 i have no doubt about it. i do have one reservation. It seems to be to "easy" are we making a mistake? its been 2-3 months. and I just feel it. she tells me the same....and i feel it from her... Im freaking out here...... i need to some chocolate and maybe a bowl of cereal.. You're in lust, not love. Typical male. Agreed. Easy to mistake the two, sadly. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 28008747 United States 12/22/2012 10:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So its been two months. and we are already telling each other the L word....its feel right. she tells me it feels right, i tell her. and i feel that way. Quoting: lovebird. 25729345 i have no doubt about it. i do have one reservation. It seems to be to "easy" are we making a mistake? its been 2-3 months. and I just feel it. she tells me the same....and i feel it from her... Im freaking out here...... i need to some chocolate and maybe a bowl of cereal.. Sounds right to me. It was like that with my wife, and 15 years later we're still going strong. There have been bumps in the road but nothing too big. On the other hand, my girlfriend before that was more a relationship we spent a lot of time "working on". And it never got better than that. It lacked the "real thing". Women are either "in" or "out". Yours is "in". You don't have to sell yourself any more. I'd take a step back just to decide if there's any non-emotional reason you would not want to commit to her and give up all the other several billion women in the world. Intelligence? Health? Race? Looks? Opinion on having children? Do a sanity check here. And if it's all positive, all tradeoffs that you _are_ willing to make, go for it. And have a great life together! |
phoenixe User ID: 29789169 Germany 12/22/2012 10:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | hey OP, charish what you 2 have ! this is the way it should be. try to keep this feeling alive between you 2 forever. whish you all the best ! enjoy! (and i am a bit jealous....;) ) |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 28008747 United States 12/22/2012 10:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ONLY REAL WAY to tell if SHE is faking it IS ...... Sitting about one foot from her face, look at the size of her pupils as she gazes at a INANIMATE object near by that you just asked her to look at ( Where there is NOT stronger light than when she is looking at you, as that makes pupils constrict ). Quoting: Eagle # 1 29216719 When she looks back at you, notice the change in the size of her pupils : 1. If smaller, she DISLIKES YOU ! 2. If the SAME size, you mean NO MORE than the inanimate object ! 3. IF the enlarge ( which she has NO CONTROL OVER ), she wants to see MORE of YOU; i.e. She loves you ! It's a fool proof experiment, as proven in the book written in the late 1960s called "Man the Naked Ape". I attended a lecture in 1970 at college, by him, in which it was all explained. NO, I don't remember his name. Eagle The Naked Ape, by Desmond Morris [link to en.wikipedia.org] that's it, right? I remember that book! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 25672410 United States 12/22/2012 10:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Love is fantastic...however..... If you are feeling "freaked out" be careful it is not just an infatuation. Some people love being IN love but don't know how to handle things that seriously come along. ALWAYS wait, never rush. You two have to live through the good times and the bad times to see if it's real love or infatuation. After all you just started saying the "L" word. Will you both still be in love if one loses a job or is offered a job elsewhere, if one gets seriously sick, if one loves football and the other hates it.... Wait and BE SURE. The alternative can be a nightmare, |
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J.W User ID: 1842628 Grenada 12/22/2012 11:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's the honeymoon phase dude. Don't freak out just yet, I doubt either of u are in love with each other though. Love takes time to grow...2 mths ain't enough. Go with the flow, take your time, give it some more mths and see if y'all will feel the same way then. Still, ENJOY THE HAPPY MOMENTS TOGETHER J.W |
J.W User ID: 1842628 Grenada 12/22/2012 11:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ONLY REAL WAY to tell if SHE is faking it IS ...... Sitting about one foot from her face, look at the size of her pupils as she gazes at a INANIMATE object near by that you just asked her to look at ( Where there is NOT stronger light than when she is looking at you, as that makes pupils constrict ). Quoting: Eagle # 1 29216719 When she looks back at you, notice the change in the size of her pupils : 1. If smaller, she DISLIKES YOU ! 2. If the SAME size, you mean NO MORE than the inanimate object ! 3. IF the enlarge ( which she has NO CONTROL OVER ), she wants to see MORE of YOU; i.e. She loves you ! It's a fool proof experiment, as proven in the book written in the late 1960s called "Man the Naked Ape". I attended a lecture in 1970 at college, by him, in which it was all explained. NO, I don't remember his name. Eagle Yep...this has proven to be true. J.W |
anti-agenda21 User ID: 1462016 Canada 12/22/2012 11:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So its been two months. and we are already telling each other the L word....its feel right. she tells me it feels right, i tell her. and i feel that way. Quoting: lovebird. 25729345 i have no doubt about it. i do have one reservation. It seems to be to "easy" are we making a mistake? its been 2-3 months. and I just feel it. she tells me the same....and i feel it from her... Im freaking out here...... i need to some chocolate and maybe a bowl of cereal.. live together for at least 2 years before making any other further decision's. please! |
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