I hate my life....

Whine, whine, whine...why wasn't I born rich? Why don't I do anything well? Why does everybody hate me? Why don't I have a good-paying job? Why does my family suck? etc.

OP, you need to buck up, be happy for what you do have, and actually try to do something (and then stick with it until you learn to do it well). Nobody likes a person who always looks at the negatives.

I think the OP went off to cry.

No pity here pal.

I pity the homeless. I pity children that are hungry. I pity the mentally ill.

But, I can't pity a coward...

No, you cannot base your happiness on another persons existence.
You have to find what makes you happy, go for what you want (unless it involves hurting other people), and then you will find a sense of peace and security.
Too many people play games with your heart, will lure you in and throw you out the minute it gets too rough. You put your faith and trust in someone else and you give them power to hurt you with it. You have to be very careful and very selective, or you wind up getting hurt.
Though, closing yourself off to every possibility will only lead to heartache as well.
Moderation is the key.

Yes. Looking for love to "fix" your cowardice will only cause your pain to increase.

Look, I will tell you a secret. You don't deserve it, but I'll tell you anyway.

The path to ending your suffering is within. No other person can love you, help you or support you and make it all better.

This is YOUR journey.

Until you understand that, you will continue to suffer.


Oh, by the way, suicide won't help either. You will then face the same problem in your next life as well. The pain will NEVER end until you fix it...

Get it?

+1000, worst places to be born for sure.

So if you were rich and famous you would not hate your life?

You are kidding aren't you?

What do you do for anyone outside your miserable self each and every day?

The rich and famous have just as many problems as the rest of us.....just different, in some cases.
Man is born for trouble as the sparks fly upward, the Bible says so, and it's true.
But we are also born to seek the Lord and to learn how to live. We learn to live by the Word Of God and working it out into life. Unless we learn to feed on the Word of God, we will never learn to live. True life is living each day in a relationsip with the Lord Jesus Christ, and until we do that, life is empty.

In much the same way as a bullet to your brain would be a solution to your problem.

hard to find a guy when your life is in shambles.

People generally only desire people who have their life together and mind in a right place.

OP I am in the same boat. Everything is bad. Everything I do is wrong.

If you live your life envying others and just wishing for things to fall in your lap then things will not change for you.Listen friend, you need to start by reinforcing positive actions in your life.I`m serious, start small by volunteering somewhere, mow your elderly neighbors lawn or just go talk to her/him for a few to give them a sense of worth. There`s any number of things you can do to help others,and by doing this you`ll start to help yourself.You will start feeling good about having a purpose in life and when you start feeling better about yourself people will notice and react more favorably to you. It`s a simple process but you start small and build a foundation. If you really want change,try the simple plan i laid out for you. IT WILL WORK!! Now go get em!