No one is to blame for your pain. No one is to blame for your misfortune in life. No on controls you unless you wish them to. If you are victim, it is because you make yourself one.

Now, many will come on here very angry telling me stories about how they were mistreated and hurt due to no fault of their own.

At some level this is true, but at a higher level we learn through experiences we have. This is true for the good experiences as well as the bad experiences. We learn from both equally.

If you are unhappy change it. If you are abused, leave. If you are suffering, stop the suffering.

I know that this is easier said than done, but it is the ONLY way to find true happiness.

The choice is completely yours.

Peace