OP,

This has become a pattern with a lot of people.
It Seems like you are walking in 3 foot snow drifts all the time, with pouring rain beating you down.

All there is for you to do at this point is to give yourself something to lift yourself up enough to see where your heading.

You can start off by doing some Volunteer work and getting a small job, Doing dishes or a jog sweeping (both are good for the soul).

And the big one, Never walk around with your head down, and always smile,, Smileing invites good things, the other leaves you never knowing.

So lift your head up and keep pushing forward untill the snow melts and the sun comes out.

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