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How do you gain closure when someone you are in love with is engaged? I haven't been able to move on.
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Let's say you ask his intentions and he dumps the fiancé for you. Will you ever have trust with him? Even if you two were to eventually marry, in the back of your mind you would know he broke a commitment to one girl, why not to you?
See, this is why you are not actually in love with him, you are in love with a fantasy.
You want him because he is taken. Because you can't have him.
Every relationship in our lives teaches us SOMETHING, even if it is as silly as you changed your mind about disliking mayo because of a boyfriend/girlfriend.
Just do some searching about what the relationship taught you. You can start with: it has taught you to be more open and communicative in the future.
Others are right, there are millions of men on this earth. God has someone better in mind for you.
Quoting: Anonymous Coward 25254305 Does he seem like garbage than, it's black and white? I did really like him before I knew he had the girlfriend. My feelings aren't as strong since I found out, then when I found out he was engaged, I didn't know I would care. So me not showing my feelings up front...I was too late then? My friend thought maybe me pushing him away made him give up and become engaged. But most people think he's crap, and I deserve better. I don't know why I'm so blind. I need to change my prayers for clarity. I want to move on so badly. Listen to most people, they see with clarity what our emotions blind us to. To an anonymous coward, he sounds like a player. And if he is not, then he either wasn't that into you OR he is insecure. Neither of which look good. Insecurity in a man is a pain in the ass to suffer! Thank you for your painful honesty. I no longer care about what he thinks of me. My past has also made it difficult to realize what is normal. I know I can find someone better and single. Prayer has helped heal this chapter in my life. I don't even want to ask him why. I will cut him out of my life. That's the only answer. I am finished. Thank you God for opening my eyes. My emotions did blind.
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