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What to do when your BF says "go make me a sandwich" ?

 
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Slip out the back Jack, make a new plan Stan, and set yourself free.
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Concur,
He is very self-absorbed and the relationship will only worsen. The object, the sandwich, is meaningless. The point was he dose not care what she thinks, feels, nor has to contribute.
Very disrespectful and saddening.
Why are humans so mean to each-other? Can we evolve as-opposed to devolve now?
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Cool story bud. You seem to know a lot about someone who simply said "go make a sandwich. Enjoy being forever alone.

Last Edited by Dapurps on 12/24/2012 07:27 PM
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Re: What to do when your BF says "go make me a sandwich" ?
Instead of being all sneaky about it and trying to get advice from people on the internet, why don't you TALK to him? He can't read your mind, tell him how you feel, and make sure he's paying attention. We tend to drift away when we feel as if we're approached in a negative tone, at least I've caught myself doing the same thing.

Just be straight with him. Damn.
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Generally how it works around the country is... if he's rich, you go make him a sandwich cause all you care bout is how much money he's got anyway.
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I'm not like that
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He must be Puerto Rican to be such an asshole like that. Tell him to go back to his motherland in Mexico.
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hahahahahaha that would be funny but he is not puerto rican
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What kind of sandwich did you end up making?
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What kind of sandwich did you end up making?
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I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time?
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


There shouldn't be a next time, but you don't seem like the type to toss him out. So these types of control issues will only increase in frequency, he is in essence gaining control over you through small exchanges for dominance, like i said, there shouldn't be a next time.
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Instead of being all sneaky about it and trying to get advice from people on the internet, why don't you TALK to him? He can't read your mind, tell him how you feel, and make sure he's paying attention. We tend to drift away when we feel as if we're approached in a negative tone, at least I've caught myself doing the same thing.

Just be straight with him. Damn.
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exactly

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I'm just impressed you've got a computer in your kitchen
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CHULA DEEP DOWN WE AS GUYS ARE PENDEJOS BUT DEEP DOWN WE LOVE YOU AND DONT WANT TO LOSE YOU.
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i know :)
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Picture of sandwich please
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...make him a sandwich? but he has to say the magic word.

everyone knows the magic word.

"NOW!"
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I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time?
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


Ask about the preferred ingredients, whether to toast the bread or not, etc, and go make it.
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...make him a sandwich? but he has to say the magic word.

everyone knows the magic word.

"NOW!"
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hahahah i had a bf who i did a fun meme for...it said, 'if you want to make me a sandwich, you'd best get on it, bitch!'

we laughed for days over that one. ;)
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I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time?
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


Lots of funny replies, but seriously, I'd address the immediate issue which was the devaluing of what you were trying to say to him. Maybe reply with something like, "I thought what I was saying was important. It seems like you don't. That hurts me deeply." Then be silent and see what he says next.
 Quoting: Life and Love


Yes, I think that would be a good idea.... i understand that he was probably bored/annoyed because I was talking about clothes and beauty products ... but he should have said that he was bored.....

I will tell him that next time !
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Was it a command? Or did he ask nicely? That would make all the difference in the world.

You can't let anyone walk all over you. Don't drop your standards for anyone.
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It was something in between... he was trolling me.
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CHULA DEEP DOWN WE AS GUYS ARE PENDEJOS BUT DEEP DOWN WE LOVE YOU AND DONT WANT TO LOSE YOU.
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Jeez dude, why don't you just cut your dick off..
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rockonrockonroflclappa
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Why is this even a question? You go make him his sammich....and some pie while you're at it.
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I only do that when i feel like doing that.
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You say: I feel disrespected when you interrupt me, especially when I am sharing somerhing imortant to me. I feel doubly disrespected when you interrupt me by comnanding me to do somerhing. I am your partner not your servant.
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yes!
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I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time?
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


Lots of funny replies, but seriously, I'd address the immediate issue which was the devaluing of what you were trying to say to him. Maybe reply with something like, "I thought what I was saying was important. It seems like you don't. That hurts me deeply." Then be silent and see what he says next.
 Quoting: Life and Love


Yes, I think that would be a good idea.... i understand that he was probably bored/annoyed because I was talking about clothes and beauty products ... but he should have said that he was bored.....

I will tell him that next time !
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


Guys can be clueless that they're even doing this, so be firm but be gentle at the same time. (I say this after nearly 40 years of happily married life.)

hf
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Why is this even a question? You go make him his sammich....and some pie while you're at it.
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I only do that when i feel like doing that.
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


Doesn't sound like a good relationship. A healthy relationship requires sacrifices on both ends.
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I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time?
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


wash your hands and make the MAN HIS SANDWICH
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I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time?
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


A really good guy NEEDS a woman for food, sex, and nurturing. Generally it's much better to do the feminine thing and provide food, sex, and cleanliness, while he works his ass off keeping you in house and home. This pattern works for a lifetime. The others don't.

NEVER withhold sex over an argument, or it will get completely out of hand.
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I understand.... but we are not married and we do not live in the same house lol and if we get married I will have a job too .... I don't want to be a housewife ... at least not for now.... i want to be a scientist.
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Make him a samich and bring back a bj while you are there?


just guessing.
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I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time?
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


A really good guy NEEDS a woman for food, sex, and nurturing. Generally it's much better to do the feminine thing and provide food, sex, and cleanliness, while he works his ass off keeping you in house and home. This pattern works for a lifetime. The others don't.

NEVER withhold sex over an argument, or it will get completely out of hand.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30600881


I understand.... but we are not married and we do not live in the same house lol and if we get married I will have a job too .... I don't want to be a housewife ... at least not for now.... i want to be a scientist.
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


I wish you all the best with this dream! I have had a wonderful and satisfying career as engineer/scientist. Go for it!!
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Instead of being all sneaky about it and trying to get advice from people on the internet, why don't you TALK to him? He can't read your mind, tell him how you feel, and make sure he's paying attention. We tend to drift away when we feel as if we're approached in a negative tone, at least I've caught myself doing the same thing.

Just be straight with him. Damn.
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He knows ... but i'm sure that he was just trying to annoy me.
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Sounds like you need to put your foot down now. You are are supposed to be his girlfriend, not his slave. If you allow him to boss you around now, then there is no hope for you too in the future. Unless of course you like being treated like a slave. In that case, you lose the right to ever complain about it.

If you weren't busy and he asked nicely, then go ahead and make the sandwich. He of course should be changing the oil in your car and doing other manly things to hold up his end of the bargain.

Either he respects you or he doesn't. Sounds like he doesn't.
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What kind of sandwich did you end up making?
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I didn't make a sandwich .... but I would have made a simple one... ham and cheese ... without butter... water.... and maybe some baked french fries....
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I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time?
 Quoting: Barbie Chaos


There shouldn't be a next time, but you don't seem like the type to toss him out. So these types of control issues will only increase in frequency, he is in essence gaining control over you through small exchanges for dominance, like i said, there shouldn't be a next time.
 Quoting: Mwalk


I'm sure there will not be a next time ...at least not a real one ... i bet he will do it just to annoy me .... but i won't get annoy because I am the best "annoyer".
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