What to do when your BF says "go make me a sandwich" ? | |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 08:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 2426721 United States 12/24/2012 09:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | the fact that you're already acting/living like your married...might as well repent and move into holiness! You won't find blessing living in sin! It would be nice but I'm not ready for something so serious. totally agree with you on that one...so, (respectfully) you ought to quit playing with fire and live life as The Most High God created you to do so...He deserves it and you will find blessing! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 13982175 United States 12/24/2012 09:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time? Quoting: Barbie Chaos Bend over and take it in the ass like a slave. You probably passed up the good guy who wanted to turn you into an immortal and pissed on His face. That's why He helps the disease ridden whores and prostitutes instead. |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 10:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 10:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | the fact that you're already acting/living like your married...might as well repent and move into holiness! You won't find blessing living in sin! It would be nice but I'm not ready for something so serious. totally agree with you on that one...so, (respectfully) you ought to quit playing with fire and live life as The Most High God created you to do so...He deserves it and you will find blessing! I agree with you |
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Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 10:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time? Quoting: Barbie Chaos Bend over and take it in the ass like a slave. You probably passed up the good guy who wanted to turn you into an immortal and pissed on His face. That's why He helps the disease ridden whores and prostitutes instead. What are you talking about ?! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 24782026 United States 12/24/2012 10:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time? Quoting: Barbie Chaos Uh.. you realize that by not making that sandwich, you have failed "girlfriend 101" and you are now officially downgraded to "booty call". Those are the rules. |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 10:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No response. He must be Puerto Rican to be such an asshole like that. Tell him to go back to his motherland in Mexico. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22996012 From Native Blood. Taino. Not the Mighty Majestic Mexican. Close though. No, he is not Puerto Rican |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 10:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time? Quoting: Barbie Chaos Uh.. you realize that by not making that sandwich, you have failed "girlfriend 101" and you are now officially downgraded to "booty call". Those are the rules. NO, he loves me... he didn't want a sandwich, he just wanted to annoy me. |
Ozicell User ID: 29840537 Australia 12/24/2012 10:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time? Quoting: Barbie Chaos Tell him he has 2 feet and a heart beat and to go make it himself. Asking the way he did is just plain rude and he should be put in his place! Mind you had the shoe been on the other foot and it was you asking, then that is just as rude! That which is - has already been, And what is to be - has already been. Quote: King Solomon. |
Saroo User ID: 30669000 United States 12/24/2012 10:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Mwalk Low Earth Orbit User ID: 1067150 United States 12/24/2012 10:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why is this even a question? You go make him his sammich....and some pie while you're at it. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30108220 I only do that when i feel like doing that. Doesn't sound like a good relationship. A healthy relationship requires sacrifices on both ends. yes but he is just my boyfriend If he's just your BF then kick him to the curb and MOVE ON, or just wallow in the petty mindlessness of a selfish man-child “The tree of liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants.” |
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Childoflight User ID: 29748288 United States 12/24/2012 10:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] 50 ways to leave your lover. Get out while the gettings good, otherwise those that demand service will in time become tyrants. Been there, done that. ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^:) I couldn't have put it better myself! |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 10:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 10:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Doesn't sound like a good relationship. A healthy relationship requires sacrifices on both ends. yes but he is just my boyfriend If he's just your BF then kick him to the curb and MOVE ON, or just wallow in the petty mindlessness of a selfish man-child Well, yes he is just my bf but it's a kind of serious relationship ... not super serious like marriage though |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 13212703 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 10:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time? Quoting: Barbie Chaos Tell him he has 2 feet and a heart beat and to go make it himself. Asking the way he did is just plain rude and he should be put in his place! Mind you had the shoe been on the other foot and it was you asking, then that is just as rude! i will tell him to make me a sandwich ... i want to see what he does |
Barbie Chaos (OP) User ID: 26711885 Puerto Rico 12/24/2012 10:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time? Quoting: Barbie Chaos Tell him he has 2 feet and a heart beat and to go make it himself. Asking the way he did is just plain rude and he should be put in his place! Mind you had the shoe been on the other foot and it was you asking, then that is just as rude! i will tell him to make me a sandwich ... i want to see what he does |
Ozicell User ID: 29840537 Australia 12/24/2012 10:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time? Quoting: Barbie Chaos Tell him he has 2 feet and a heart beat and to go make it himself. Asking the way he did is just plain rude and he should be put in his place! Mind you had the shoe been on the other foot and it was you asking, then that is just as rude! i will tell him to make me a sandwich ... i want to see what he does Good, let us know how it goes! Oh, and because this is a test, feel free to be just as rude to him as he was to you! Remember though, this is an opportunity for a discussion regarding your relationship and NOT tit for tat action! I think you'll be able to gauge where the relationship is headed after that. That which is - has already been, And what is to be - has already been. Quote: King Solomon. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 6476436 United States 12/24/2012 10:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You say: I feel disrespected when you interrupt me, especially when I am sharing somerhing imortant to me. I feel doubly disrespected when you interrupt me by comnanding me to do somerhing. I am your partner not your servant. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 30800063 He felt disrespected when that sammich wasn't in his belly already. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 6476436 United States 12/24/2012 10:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was talking to my boyfriend about something very important and all of a sudden he interrupted me and said "go make me a sandwich" ... I was so annoyed by that! I tried to keep a serious face but like I said before I cannot keep a straight face.... umm ... so I just ignored him for the rest of the day and he had to sleep alone. ... umm what should I do the next time? Quoting: Barbie Chaos Tell him he has 2 feet and a heart beat and to go make it himself. Asking the way he did is just plain rude and he should be put in his place! Mind you had the shoe been on the other foot and it was you asking, then that is just as rude! i will tell him to make me a sandwich ... i want to see what he does Good, let us know how it goes! Oh, and because this is a test, feel free to be just as rude to him as he was to you! Remember though, this is an opportunity for a discussion regarding your relationship and NOT tit for tat action! I think you'll be able to gauge where the relationship is headed after that. What if he makes the sammich? This sammich test has been done by myself, and the misses, on more than one occasion. We both passed, because basically it amounts to a reality check, to remember it isn't all about her, or me. |
Ozicell User ID: 29840537 Australia 12/24/2012 11:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Ozicell Tell him he has 2 feet and a heart beat and to go make it himself. Asking the way he did is just plain rude and he should be put in his place! Mind you had the shoe been on the other foot and it was you asking, then that is just as rude! i will tell him to make me a sandwich ... i want to see what he does Good, let us know how it goes! Oh, and because this is a test, feel free to be just as rude to him as he was to you! Remember though, this is an opportunity for a discussion regarding your relationship and NOT tit for tat action! I think you'll be able to gauge where the relationship is headed after that. What if he makes the sammich? This sammich test has been done by myself, and the misses, on more than one occasion. We both passed, because basically it amounts to a reality check, to remember it isn't all about her, or me. You answered your own question and as you would appreciate, this is actually a mature way of dealing with the issue as it sets the stage for dialogue. That which is - has already been, And what is to be - has already been. Quote: King Solomon. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 2426721 United States 12/24/2012 11:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: jdb the fact that you're already acting/living like your married...might as well repent and move into holiness! You won't find blessing living in sin! It would be nice but I'm not ready for something so serious. totally agree with you on that one...so, (respectfully) you ought to quit playing with fire and live life as The Most High God created you to do so...He deserves it and you will find blessing! I agree with you Praise God - will begin praying for you - message me if you ever want to talk more about Him! No religion...just pure Life! |
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