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But isn't that true of all male Brits?

Naloxone for home use is a great idea. Of course, I'd have it over the counter. Save a lot of wear and tear on your GF to just pop a shot in you.

I'm in love with someone who's engaged now. I posted a thread over it.

I am being driven crazy over it. I have prayed so hard for the power to overcome it. I am so indecisive over it. I feel like damaged goods. I was so close yet so far from him. He showed me signs he felt something for me, but I didn't know how to reciprocate. Does he have a cheating heart, or was he stuck in the relationship?

i will tell you from experience if that is what you have is a momment let it go now because it only becomes harder and harder I was in that moment for 13 yrs and it just now ended and it hurts now more than ever and if i would have let her go the many other times instead of saying just what you said the heart wants what the heart wants I would be better off now but instead I am left with dealing with this at christmas and without my kids love is manipulation sometimes.

This Christmas is very hard for me to deal with, too. Why is it so hard. My Christmas is ruined by regret, or feelings unspoken.

As long as she doesn't do it anymore, you might not have to worry about it. I think it would be far worse if she had the addiction to the pills. Bad neighbors, well, tell her to leave them alone, or you will guys will move. or something like that.

I have been in a cruddy mood of late. I know it is because there must be something really bothering me deep down. A few things come to mind though. I wished I had someone that was a nice and caring person that took care of me. I am tired of being the only breadwinner. I am tired of his insults and uncaring words. I wished I had never gotten remarried. I know I deserve better than this.

I am tied in a relationship, and I want to be free. At the same time i hate to be alone, and I would love it if I had like 20 good friends living with me - but on the other hand, I also have a need for alone time.

Tricky huh :D

That is how I feel too. I feel so invaded when my spouse sits near me trying to talk to me about the same stuff.

Me and him are so different. I can watch a starry sky or the clouds passing untill sunset, and ponder deep subjects for hours..... he can do that with "Two and a half men" and "According to Jim" hahahah

I know how you feel about differences. He tells me he is my "soul mate" but I don't feel the same. Just because I am the only one that understands him, doesn't mean he understands me. I don't feel that I have anyone. I feel like my soul mate is somewhere, maybe waiting for me beyond this realm of earth. If that makes any sense. Because I have always felt that way. It is like knowing you will never be complete here on earth not with anyone here.

I know exactly what you mean. And I feel the same way.

Short story:
I was raised by a sadistic stepfather after my real father escaped from Hungary when I was 4.

The violence of my stepfather (during 13 years until I escaped to Sweden) made me so that lost my spiritual manliness (or how would you say) so I was unable to make contact with women, I became hard-wired into shyness so I remained a male virgin at 48 as I'm now, will probably die without kissed/made love to a girl, I don't have taste to buy sex either.

Not that Destiny didn't gave 1-2 chances but I couldn't take it because of lack of "inner manliness" (alpha male thing) in love affairs. I hate how I couldn't change myself into a "man" and remained a little virgin boy drooling over porn and sex I never can get. ( I don't look good either, big swollen nose, very uneven mended front teeth, small dick)
My astro sign is a Scorpio (= sex crazy) so it's very stupid that it became like this, I feel very tired of everything.

I was relatively ok with this thanks to ocassional internet porn. I'm a free-lance digital illustrator otherwise, a nice veggie guy.

Then I met a lonely woman on the web, I knew her from kindergarten in Hungary when we were 7. To my dismay soon another man found her while we were exchanging mails and they go on now, she likes me but she said I'm not a "manly guy" although I have normal sex drive, but in vain. He's doing everything right for her, of course.

Crazy that Destiny arranged this contact in order to humiliate me even more, I was almost indifferent enough (not ever having a mouse, lol) before we met and now I have to go through a nerve burning feeling emanating from my childhood proramming. I'm not rich enough either that I could start a sensual live, can barely pay the rent.

I feel disgusted because I met an old friend and he said all my school mates in Hungary were married (now and then) even the most "stupid" and the most shy guy in the class had a wife at some point, it's freaking insane.

Can't believe my failure in the sex-love area, nobody know this either, they wouldn't believe because I always lied to everybody telling what great sex I had with Swedish girls, hehe!

Thanks for listening, blessings to you guys!

You should realize first off that you are valuable. And your worth is not measured by being with someone or not being with someone. Your worth isn't measured whether you are a virgin or a non virgin. You are special. The fact that you have made it this far in your life is an attest to your personal strength. Do not compare yourself to others especially your peers, as a guide to your life or accomplishments. Please don't fall for the trap of getting into porn. This is an emptiness that will get emptier. It is like a cup that is constantly being poured out, and the desire is to always fill it. Fill your empty space with friendship, or love. If you cannot find a friend, or a suitable companion, concider adopting an animal from a shelter. This is the best way to give love, and receive it unconditionally. A dog is a good companion I think. Also, try reading things to lift your spirit. If you don't like religion, just try inspirational or uplifting books, new age consciousness and meditation are good too.

My life is at it's lowest point today and I'm about ready to curl up into a ball and die.

That's it!

my girlfriend is always hanging out with my friends,without me, who are all trying to fuck her. due to circumstances, its something that can't be prevented right now and not always by her choice. i try so hard to be cool with it but it drives me the fuck insane. goddamn sharks.

It will be ok, the frequencies are strong today, but tommorow it is sure to get better.

I dislike obama. Shocking hugh

I killed my pet mosquito.

Yeah, now that you ask.

Posters here are incredibly self centered and mean.

Seems all you see is me me me, and die a slow death mother fucker.


With the ever increasing pollution, warming, etc, etc, I do believe they will get what they desire, after they kill off everyone and everything that has ever been.

What the heck is the point of this place anymore anyway? There never seems to be anything to even think about let alone prove or disprove, just a bunch of look at me, and die.


Perhaps that is the point, keep em busy so they dont see it coming?

can we get some clarification on this please??

Can I kill a thread or what?

Why cant I make the thread killer thread die.

After 20 yeArs i am still angry that my inlaws tried to run my life, down to the planning of my wedding, where we would live etc. my husbamd was afraid to say anything to them because he is a pussy.
And my husband is also negative. He never looks on the bright side of life.

I am pissed that i have the majority of the financial responsibility for supporting my family and i do all of the laundry, cooking, cleaning and makeing sure the kids get A's. I'm tired!
Any suggestions

There is a lot of interesting stuff here, just not so much of it pinned at the top. The search feature is your friend.




Couples therapy can help, but your husband has to want to participate.

Have you ruled out physical problems which may be causing his lack of initiative? All too many apathetic males these days have type 2 diabetes and metabolic syndrome.

Pretty much a quarter of a century old, never had a relationship in my life, havn't experienced fully what its like to have sex, tho the one and only real intimate encounter I had essentially led to the girl literally telling me to fuck off the next day and her going off with my friend.

Due to my disfunctional child hood and my resulting introvertedness, its left me for years without being able to make that natural connection with a woman that seems to come so easy for others...the few times I would gather the courage to make a move I was always rejected...or just relegated into the friend zone.

Back in the day I didnt mind so much, it wasn't so important to me at the time, i figured I'd just meet somebody along the way, but I'm reaching a pinnacle in my life here and I am little worried. Many years of this has left me in a cynical and jaded place. Everyday on my way to work I see attractive women everywhere, people hooking up and just enjoying life the way it should be, and it kills me inside knowing that fate has determined I am not allowed to experience any of it. I'm not asking for a bombshell 10 by any means, I am not shallow and I am able to find the beauty in many women who would normally not be considered as traditionally desireable by men, however, being a man that is in shape himself, I dont feel I should have to sell myself short with some fat blob of a women that constitutes many western females these days

Having said that, I Just recently got to aquaint myself with a georgeous girl who has been showing quite a bit of interest in me, basically my dream girl, but I've been in this position before and I know better now than to hold much stock in it. I really want this one to work out, but i have no idea how to go about it. I feel like I am potentially setting myself up for another massive failure here, and I don't know if I can handle another rejection without breaking down. I wish I could just quit the desire entirely,
or not have to deal with it at all...but its a switch that I cannot turn off. Thinking of just getting it done with and buying a proffesional, I doubt this will make me any less miserable tho.

Anyways...whoops didnt mean to write that much...I just needed to get it out there

WHY CAN'T I WIN THE JACKPOT IN POWERBALL OR MEGAMILLIONS!
just once.

Speaking of professionals, you have trained sex surrogates in Canada. Check those out before you get a street hooker.
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Lucky %$#! Canadians.

I have been ripped off alot money wise, this year due to my generosity to loan to relatives, fuck them . Dad committed suicide when i was 16, Im 20 now and Im still lost as fuck like i was then, no direction, start fights often because i cant fill that gap my dad left and im too proud to open up to anyone about it. I binge drink, snort shit, smoke weed most days of the week to excite my self to socialize and do things, my self esteems fucked and things rarely go my way because of it. Plus, my nissan skylines fucked, i blew my 400 dollar turbo and cant replace anytime soon because certain people dont wanna give me back my cash and thats the icing off my pile of shit, problems.

Some cunts can have a laugh at some parts of this, i dont give a fuck.

This is the only place i have mentioned my problems so consider yourselves special, lol. Just call me McFucked...

I ask my friends if I can stick my finger in their anus. That's all.

i hate the wintertime when i fall asleep in the evening and wake up at 730 or 800 and think that I am late for something. Only to find out it is still dark outside and I have 12 hours to go.